Filipina Run with another American

[Victoria wolf 35]

I am deeply feel so sorry for you :/

I believe you will find your peace and take some rest.

It better know now than after :/

[Anitafeliz 1,133]

Another classic Rope-a-Dope.

Serious real talk here though, if she contacts you DO NOT ANSWER, in any way, on any communication platform. You are her ONLY way to legal residency in the US. If she realizes this and wants that residency, she will say anything to make you think it was some big haha silly me misunderstanding.

Yes she will i hope hes not dooooped again

<p>Sorry for this. I am giving you a few bright side points.

• She saved you from long term headaches and heartbreak
• She saved you a lot of money. (She could have waited until after AOS)
• You are free to find someone who is sincere
• Based on how bad things can get with a fraudulent person, you lost very little.

He saved alot he really lucked out!!!

But it must hurt how people play in others beyond me!!

They should seriously have the philipines Like ghana

Edited July 29, 2016 by Anitafeliz

[clairebear24 3]

I want to say thank you to all of you. It's confirmed that she landed. The girl I saw on that car and the clothes she was wearing to the last picture she sent me before her flight in manila were the same. All of your are right that the best thing to do is to move on. I just need to accept that she planned all this. I already reported her and talked to her family. I am so depressed right now and I need to make time for myself to move on. Again, thank you for all of you and God bless you all.

I want to say thank you to all of you. It's confirmed that she landed. The girl I saw on that car and the clothes she was wearing to the last picture she sent me before her flight in manila were the same. All of your are right that the best thing to do is to move on. I just need to accept that she planned all this. I already reported her and talked to her family. I am so depressed right now and I need to make time for myself to move on. Again, thank you for all of you and God bless you all.

Hi there I am an American born in the Philippines to an American Father and Filipina mother. The best option here is to move on. Some Filipinas are known for marrying just to get petitioned to the US and live their supposed "American dream". I would be more that glad to assist you in reporting her because I hate it when people do that. I hope karma gets to her

[RodDetroit 118]

why didnt you record her with your phone? i would have done that. I keep seeing here and every where, Filipino girls will do any thing to come to North America and Europe, It is always young girls in their early 20s that "fall in love" with men in their late 30s and 40 and on, never all the way around .

[Nick&Lor 3]

I want to say thank you to all of you. It's confirmed that she landed. The girl I saw on that car and the clothes she was wearing to the last picture she sent me before her flight in manila were the same. All of your are right that the best thing to do is to move on. I just need to accept that she planned all this. I already reported her and talked to her family. I am so depressed right now and I need to make time for myself to move on. Again, thank you for all of you and God bless you all.

I want to say thank you to all of you. It's confirmed that she landed. The girl I saw on that car and the clothes she was wearing to the last picture she sent me before her flight in manila were the same. All of your are right that the best thing to do is to move on. I just need to accept that she planned all this. I already reported her and talked to her family. I am so depressed right now and I need to make time for myself to move on. Again, thank you for all of you and God bless you all.

I'm so sorry to hear that :'( it sucks that some Filipina doing that :'(

You will be okay soon, and you will find someone that you deserve...

[Anitafeliz 1,133]

why didnt you record her with your phone? i would have done that. I keep seeing here and every where, Filipino girls will do any thing to come to North America and Europe, It is always young girls in their early 20s that "fall in love" with men in their late 30s and 40 and on, never all the way around .

Ill speak for myself... My adrenaline would have been so high that after i closed my mouth from schock.....

Im sorry but how do you react in this situation???

shes lucky im not her fiancee!!!

He needs to heal!

I am discusted with this situation she has some big ⚽️⚾️

Edited July 29, 2016 by Anitafeliz

[Ortolan 381]

Be prepared to get another email/text saying "Oh can you please send me the money for another plane ticket...now they'll let me come back to the US!" Pure thievery....count yourself very, very lucky that it didn't cost you a whole lot more.

Edited July 29, 2016 by Ortolan

[Anitafeliz 1,133]

Be prepared to get another email/text saying "Oh can you please send me the money for another plane ticket...now they'll let me come back to the US!" Pure thievery....count yourself very, very lucky that it didn't cost you a whole lot more.

Maybe she is having fun and will do just that and then call him after she has done her deeds.....

PLEASE OP ? Eyes pealed she is probably not done running game. If she did this she's gonna keep going.

UPDATE us

Edited July 29, 2016 by Anitafeliz

[Loki_Go 126]

I wonder if OP sent much money to her while she was still home. I also hate hearing stories like this. So heartbreaking.

The criteria for meeting once in 2 years is probably unrealistic if you really want to get to know someone.

[Russ&Caro 1,549]

I'm curious. The OP stated that he filed a report with USCIS.

If she leaves within 90 days, will that report prevent or slow down any attempt to return on a K1 with a different man, at a later date?

If the OP had not filed the report, I assume that she would be free to return on another K1 after a couple of years, claiming that the first time didn't work out and that she properly returned home within the allotted timeframe.

[KierenHby 899]

I'm curious. The OP stated that he filed a report with USCIS.

If she leaves within 90 days, will that report prevent or slow down any attempt to return on a K1 with a different man, at a later date?

If the OP had not filed the report, I assume that she would be free to return on another K1 after a couple of years, claiming that the first time didn't work out and that she properly returned home within the allotted timeframe.

OP should contact the USEmb (Manilla?).. where the K-1 adjudicated.. with details of the fraud\scam\absconder They'll have a record of the fraudulent K1 if there's a next attempt.

[denali1022 26]

Be prepared to get another email/text saying "Oh can you please send me the money for another plane ticket...now they'll let me come back to the US!" Pure thievery....count yourself very, very lucky that it didn't cost you a whole lot more.

Exactly my thoughts when I read the first post. Now that he has talked to the family she is fully aware that he knows everything so that likely wont happen now. She WILL contact you again. Im sure of that. Remember that you have the power now. You hold the key to her legal existence in the US. Play your cards well and plan your next step when she does contact you. The chances are that the other guy also is unaware of you. He probably thinks she is here on a tourist visa.

Im curious if you got a license plate number. Did you follow them? Im pretty sure I would have. Can you contact the other guy just to warn him? 50/50 chance he is clueless.

Ive been the victim of a couple of filipina scams so i can feel your pain. Keep your head up. It gets better. Trust me. Heres my thoughts to you. Dont look in the philippines again. Its a gamble and as you know the house always wins.

[Penguin_ie 5,993]

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[Eric-Pris 1,606]

As for the question of the text. OP said she texted him, not Skype, viper, etc. She did it from her phone once she landed in the US, I'm sure she turned on international roaming (the other guy was probably sending her money too) just for this purpose.

If OP spoke to her family, they must surely have told her that he knows what she did, so I doubt she will try to run any more scams on him.

When this b**** figures out that she can't get a green card by marrying another guy, she will be back on her knees begging for his forgiveness.

OP,

I hope you are smart enough to realize that this woman does not love you and only used you. Any further contact with you will be to further deceive and scam you some more, so do not answer her calls/texts and do not agree to see her. Basically, she should be dead to you.

Sorry for your loss.

[denali1022 26]

As for the question of the text. OP said she texted him, not Skype, viper, etc. She did it from her phone once she landed in the US, I'm sure she turned on international roaming (the other guy was probably sending her money too) just for this purpose.

If OP spoke to her family, they must surely have told her that he knows what she did, so I doubt she will try to run any more scams on him.

Filipinos usually dont text in the way we think of texting. They typically will use Viber or Whatsapp. when using thise apps they will call it "texting" even though you and I would call it messaging. Free wifi in the airport and bingo you are good to go. Very few filipinos have a phone that will roam.

Dont be so sure she wont run another scam. Shes confident. Look how far shes gotten. I wouldnt underestimate her greed and confidence. She will fall in love with this country and most likely some other guy. Desperate people do desperate things.