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[deceived 0]

So my husband arrived less than 90 days ago on a k-1 visa and we are Arguing almost everyday. We went on our honeymoon and of course we got into a fight and went our separate ways and he didn't bother to call me or text me for the entire day to see if I was ok. I'm talking from 1pm to 1am. I don't know everything about a good marriage but I'm thinking this is a bad sign. I've been to Jamaica at least 8 times to visit him and every single time he treated me like a queen and took very good care of me. Now that he is in the states I have issues, I'm annoying, I talk too much and all I do is irritate him. He doesn't care to communicate and try to deal with our problems. I know I took vows under God but I don't want this life. I don't see it getting any better. I did some research and I don't believe I can get an annulment. So divorce is my only choice unfortunately. I told him and he simply said ok. No trying to work it out no nothing. So what happens now? Should he go back home? Does he stay and file the AOS on his own. I really don't care at this point. I'm not a vindictive person seeking revenge. I'm devastated and I can't believe this is happening. I'm dreading all of the I told you sos and I knew its. I just want to have peace in my home and be happy. Also, does this mean I'm financially responsible for him for the next 10 years? If so I have to accept it and move on.

[Scandi 4,167]

He can't AOS on his own. If you want a divorce then just divorce him and move on. His only options are to go back to Jamaica or stay in the US illegally.

And no you're not financially responsible for him since you haven't AOS'ed yet.

[deceived 0]

Oh I see. Thank you.

[p-ana 933]

So my husband arrived less than 90 days ago on a k-1 visa and we are Arguing almost everyday. We went on our honeymoon and of course we got into a fight and went our separate ways and he didn't bother to call me or text me for the entire day to see if I was ok. I'm talking from 1pm to 1am. I don't know everything about a good marriage but I'm thinking this is a bad sign. I've been to Jamaica at least 8 times to visit him and every single time he treated me like a queen and took very good care of me. Now that he is in the states I have issues, I'm annoying, I talk too much and all I do is irritate him. He doesn't care to communicate and try to deal with our problems. I know I took vows under God but I don't want this life. I don't see it getting any better. I did some research and I don't believe I can get an annulment. So divorce is my only choice unfortunately. I told him and he simply said ok. No trying to work it out no nothing. So what happens now? Should he go back home? Does he stay and file the AOS on his own. I really don't care at this point. I'm not a vindictive person seeking revenge. I'm devastated and I can't believe this is happening. I'm dreading all of the I told you sos and I knew its. I just want to have peace in my home and be happy. Also, does this mean I'm financially responsible for him for the next 10 years? If so I have to accept it and move on.

If you guys are not interested in working things out, there's no path for him to stay in the USA. As a k1 entrant he must marry the petitioner (you) and you have to sign his i864. If you don't do that, he can't adjust so he'll be illegal and should go home.

At this point, just divorce and move on. You're not responsible for him anymore, as the i134 is not enforceable and you haven't signed a i864.

You can't force him to go home though, but it's what he should do.

[deceived 0]

Ok I we haven't gotten through all the paperwork for the AOS yet and I didn't know that. Thank u for your response.

[Usn&l 0]

I agree with the above comments. I was in a similar situation only didn't marry on K 1 but experienced the ex husband showing his true self. He was already in the states, we married and I moved from my home state to live where he had received a good job, and then it began. He didn't want me to go anywhere including with him, and he didn't spend any time with me. There was no time to argue because he was never home for that. I was miserable no friends, no family, and I wanted my marriage but was too blind to see he had something else in mind. I feel sorry for your pain. Only you know how much you can handle but if it was me I would file for a divorce. My divorce was cut and dry and 3days after we filed the judge awarded the divorce which was a blessing.Good luck on whatever you decide.

[Jawaree 718]

He wanted to come to the US simple, and he's so not into you (sorry) he cant finish the process

he had to just show his true colors.

Sadly this happens quite a bit from ppl who are abroad & wish to make it to the US. many foreign

spouses from all countries are good ppl but there are bad weeds too. I respect you for just wanting

the divorce & not been spiteful, just don't do anything to help him further, report the marriage ended

to USCIS & move on...Good luck & hopefully you'll find Mr right soon, he does not represent all the

men from there. Please do not allow him to sweet talk you if he runs into an immigration rut.

[EM_Vandaveer 2,408]

~ Moved from "K-1 Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports" to "Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits" where similar topics are discussed ~

[deceived 0]

Thank you everyone for your advice. I really appreciate it.

[Lee&Ana 88]

Whatever you do, don't file for the AOS. It is expensive. Right now you can cut ties and just send him back

[aaron2020 11,651]

Whatever you do, don't file for the AOS. It is expensive. Right now you can cut ties and just send him back

She has no right to "just send him back." She can cut ties, but he can do whatever he wants including staying here illegally.

[Ortolan 381]

Don't under any circumstances file AOS for this guy. He won't be able to prove that it was a bonafide marriage anyway, since he's mostly missing. Divorce and move on with your life. Good luck!

[Eric-Pris 1,606]

He probably doesn't realize that he needs you to sponsor him for a greencard. Too many uneducated (about immigration process) foreigners think that once here, they are ok to leave. Wait till he realizes that he needs you, he'll be back on his knees begging.

DON'T LET HIM BACK IN YOUR LIFE!!! HE WILL JUST USE YOU SOME MORE AND THEN LEAVE YOU ONCE HE HAS THE GREENCARD. DON'T WASTE ANY MORE TIME OR MONEY ON THIS POS

Good luck.