help guys

[lookGod004 1]

Yeah we have talked about the marriage Nd she let me know she's not pulling the affidavit of support that she just scare I might run after getting green card...we stil living together talk have fun like normAl couple ...just that she told uscis she's scare I might run after getting green card ...I think uscis sensed she scare of been dropped after green card..that was why they are setting interview for us soon to know what went wrong

[Anitafeliz 1,133]

Yeah we have talked about the marriage Nd she let me know she's not pulling the affidavit of support that she just scare I might run after getting green card...we stil living together talk have fun like normAl couple ...just that she told uscis she's scare I might run after getting green card ...I think uscis sensed she scare of been dropped after green card..that was why they are setting interview for us soon to know what went wrong

?Out of?

Now the truth is out.....

And good luck to her doing another k1 with a MENA country so soon....

Edited June 15, 2016 by Anitafeliz

[JR loves JR 196]

If you have an interview, both you and your wife have to come and testify that your marriage is legitimate. If your wife tells them that it was not in good faith, pulls her Affidavit of Support, or even if she just doesn't show up for the interview your AOS will be denied and you will no longer be allowed to live and work in the USA. Until you get notice that your AOS has been denied (or your EAD is cancelled), you can continue to work. I'd highly recommend planning that your AOS will be denied. If you can, save a bit from every paycheck so you'll have something to start over with in your country. Unfortunately without your wife's affidavit of support you will not be allowed to stay.

[kzielu 1,149]

But she hasn't pull the affidavit of support yet ...she told me she won't pull it that she will wait for the interview according to what uscis told her..they let her know they Wil judge and decide ..hope I can stil continue with my work for now because she hasn't pull the support

There is nothing to judge, for some reason you assume you have a right here and if USCIS decides that everything's fine, you're going to get GC. Unfortunately this is not the case, she has full right to stop the process at any time, before it is completed. At interview as well.

And not sure if you realize that this thread shows how desperately you are after green card...

[IcezMan_IcezLady 582]

You don't have any right to live in the USA. everything up until AOS has been filed, depends on the USC not you. You have rights to live in your home country but living here is based on this relationship.

[firebird00 66]

I can sense that you are freaking out and panicking, I might do the same if I was in your situation. Away from being reactive, there are some points you need to understand and accept; you can't stay in the US if you dont have your GC and if your wife pulls the affidavit of support or divorce you. You have no case for VAWA, having an evidence that she is cheating on you or planning on leaving you and going with someone else is not going to help you. If this is happening when you have a GC and lived together for a while, then you have a chance to remove conditions on your own. But for now, you are way far from that. The only thing you can do is to talk to your wife and try to fix things out in your marriage, tell her that you are not going to leave her after getting your GC. Do that only if you are really not going to leave her, dont lie or manipulate her.

[zkt101 38]

If your wife is cheating on you, why would you want to be with her anymore. Forget about green card or VAWA, go back home.

[Rc123rc 528]

I'm surprised he hasn't shown her the screen shots and bring out the truth of the situation. I see this as a busted marriage where the OP has zero chance of a GC. Save your money and go home. Your case will actually be stronger. The interviewer is not a marriage counselor. You won't be judged and you won't get sympathy. The situation stinks for sure but not a hell of a lot you can do about it. I certainly wouldn't want to be with someone that was cheating on me shortly after marriage.

[chrismyke 7]

Some of you sound a bit harsh in the things you are saying to him....he may have spent alot of time and put in alot of effort into this relationship thinking everything is ok. There is no shame in him being worried of events just before hes meant to receive his greencard. Some of you are soo quick to judge others even before you consider everything. Its not a crime for certain people from certain parts of the world to want to be with their loved ones and also have a chance at a better life in this country legally. The fact that someone wants to know his options at a certain stage in the visa process and not just packing up their bags and going to their country doesnt mean he was in it just for the green card. Like all men, everyone tries to make the best out of the current situation, if things would be better off here for him and can be done legally than just going back to a bad situation why cant he or mustnt he exploit it? Not all countries are the same, not everyones circumstances are the same,people have got to realise and respect this before they make comments to people. The world is far bigger than some of you seem to realise, we need alot of perspective instead of being judgemental.

[Anitafeliz 1,133]

Some of you sound a bit harsh in the things you are saying to him....he may have spent alot of time and put in alot of effort into this relationship thinking everything is ok. There is no shame in him being worried of events just before hes meant to receive his greencard. Some of you are soo quick to judge others even before you consider everything. Its not a crime for certain people from certain parts of the world to want to be with their loved ones and also have a chance at a better life in this country legally. The fact that someone wants to know his options at a certain stage in the visa process and not just packing up their bags and going to their country doesnt mean he was in it just for the green card. Like all men, everyone tries to make the best out of the current situation, if things would be better off here for him and can be done legally than just going back to a bad situation why cant he or mustnt he exploit it? Not all countries are the same, not everyones circumstances are the same,people have got to realise and respect this before they make comments to people. The world is far bigger than some of you seem to realise, we need alot of perspective instead of being judgemental.

You may have some points he may have a better oppourtunity here and should try to work on his marriage but....this is a big BUT she doesnt want to continue with him.

Would you prefer we sell him false hope? He cannot adjust with out her he came here through marriage.

Nothing can be done. I mean hes trying to claim VAWA due to infedelity? Hes grasping at straws, hes up creek with out a paddle, finito.

No one here can sell him a dream and no one was harsh they dealt the facts he has to go home if she will not stay married. If hes wise he should work save up and take money with him to restart at home and his air fair home.

Sorry not every story has a happy ending

Edited June 16, 2016 by Anitafeliz

[life-journey 7]

Come to think of it, you are being saved from a bad marriage/relationship.

[chrismyke 7]

Thats exactly why he asked, to see what his options were, and what at all if anything he could do. Its one thing telling someone the facts, and its one thing being sensitive to someones situation....i didnt mean for you or anyone for that matter to give him any false solutions if there are none...it could happen to anybody so lets not be judgmental. some people clutch at straws their whole life, so might not be something new to him. As i mentioned earlier, its all about perspective

[Meg&Andrew 297]

I agree. Everyone says oh leave and go back home. You have no business here. That's not for anyone to decide. A lot of people quit their jobs, leave their families, sell their houses, cars, property. They leave everything to come here. If I did this to my fiancé he would be screwed. He would have nothing to come home to. Once he leaves Saudi, he can't go back because he's there on a work visa. He has no family or anyone in the Philipines. They all live in Saudi. So I think about it from that point of view. It's not easy for everyone to "just go home" Some people don't have homes to go back to because they left everything to come to the US. I'm not sure if this is OP's situation but I think people should take a step back and stop being so judgemental. Imaging being in OP's shoes. Leaving all behind, possibly selling and leaving all you've ever know to come here to be with someone who promises you a life. Then you get here and find out after marriage that your husband or wife is cheating on you and trying to bring someone else to the US. So all of a sudden you're confused, and in a country where you have no resources, no family, and no way of knowing what to do. You come here because this is your only way of getting advice. Then everyone starts yelling "go home! Go home!" We're here to help. Not judge. OP Unfortunetly, if your wife doesn't show up for the interview, and pulls the I-864 there's nothing you can do. You will most likely face deportation. You need to hire an immigration/divorce attorney now. Have you tried marriage counseling? That would be my first step. Also, I'm not sure what state you're in but you can possibly fight the divorce as well? That being if you really do love your wife and want to continue fighting for this marriage. Not for the sake of the green card, but for the sake of the marriage. Good luck!

[life-journey 7]

I don't think it's because people are being harsh or insensitive, more like straight forward. VAWA is not an option here, clear straight forward solution is to leave the marriage if the wife's decision is really set in stones. The interviewer will not be of any help no matter what story you give.

it's hard, its sad but it's the reality of the situation.

[Anitafeliz 1,133]

Its the risk you take moving to a new country with someone you dont really know...if you have so much to loose maybe you should think a few times before selling everything and moving.