help guys

[lookGod004 1]

Hello guys ...I started job few weeks ago and three days ago I saw a text on my wife phone telling her friend of stopping the green card that she didn't want me to have it,to my surprised she went to us is local office that she want to withdraw affidavit of support...according to her text that I saw on her phone..they told her to write letter and they told her they will call us for interview to judge by themselves,,I received the biggest shocked of my life this night when I saw her Skype chatting with a guy from Egypt telling him she's about to stop the green card and she will be with him and bring him to USA..I couldn't believe she's planning to stop green card because of New bf online..I have the screenshot of the conversation and the text she sent to her friend too ...I just need you guys to give me a solid advise on what to do now...I think my right has been violated here

[Penguin_ie 5,994]

Please fil in your timeline; where are you in the process? Did you have an interview yet? greencard?

[Illiria 980]

I think my right has been violated here

Which right?

If she is cheating, why would you want to be with her?

If you do not have the green card yet she can pull the affidavit of support and file a divorce. You cannot stop her from doing this if she wants to.

[lookGod004 1]

I'm not stopping her from doing that what I'm saying is how to defend myself at the interview ..she told them she sense I will leave her when I get green card ...they told her to write letter about reason she want to pull the affidavit...all she keep saying is I'm going to leave her and run away after green card...I just need advise how to defend myself at the interview with this issue

[Merrytooth 5,748]

There will no interview to begin with if your spouse pulls the affidavit of support.I-864.

Your AOS will be denied.

[lookGod004 1]

I don't care she pull it or not I'm just concern about her lies

[lookGod004 1]

Even though I caught her texting friends and I have the screenshot of texting boyfriend that she wants to stop it so she can bring his bf here again..with all this evidence I hope I have slight chance to go for wawa

[Illiria 980]

Even though I caught her texting friends and I have the screenshot of texting boyfriend that she wants to stop it so she can bring his bf here again..with all this evidence I hope I have slight chance to go for wawa

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1) there is nothing called wawa

2) if you mean vawa, stop right there. There is nothing abusive about someone changing their mind and pulling the affidavit of support. This is not an abusive relationship, it is a bad relationship. It happens all the time, people cheat.

3) if she feels your motivation for marrying her is for the green card then she doesn't need to continue with it. That is her decision. Just because you say that she is lying doesn't stop her from being able to do it. Plus the fact that you are trying to use vawa to get the green card screams of desperation for the green card.

Edited June 15, 2016 by Illiria

[Merrytooth 5,748]

I have to reuse our VAWA expert Sandranj's words here:

Considering what you described here you have an unpleasant marriage, you got married to someone with the moral compass broken, did not see any thing considered abuse for VAWA case.

People need to understand a bad marriage, cheating spouse doesn't mean an abusive marriage.

Edited June 15, 2016 by Merrytooth

[Illiria 980]

Thanks Merry - every time I try to quote from another thread I end up messing up the formatting.

OP please read the quote - Sandra is a lawyer who actually does vawa cases. She knows what she is talking about.

[lookGod004 1]

alright guys..i wil wait for the interview.. according to her she said they wil call us for interview and they wil decide after hearing my own part of the story

[lookGod004 1]

im not stopping her from doing what she want..all im saying is how to clear myself to USCIS that i never plan to leave her after greencard.that all she said was just lies and assumption

[N-o-l-a 7,167]

im not stopping her from doing what she want..all im saying is how to clear myself to USCIS that i never plan to leave her after greencard.that all she said was just lies and assumption

An easy way to show that you weren't after just a greencard is to leave the country now that your marriage has broken down. If you aren't in America for the marriage, why would you be here else than for the greencard?

[Adil & Jeanne 296]

have you tried to talk and save this marriage?

I am quite sure she will not be able to be approved a new financee visa / she is playing and immigration is not stupid

obviously she has money for travel and visa applications

tell her to use some for a divorce and move on and leave

[lookGod004 1]

But she hasn't pull the affidavit of support yet ...she told me she won't pull it that she will wait for the interview according to what uscis told her..they let her know they Wil judge and decide ..hope I can stil continue with my work for now because she hasn't pull the support