AOS June 2016 Filers

[vpalermo85 62]

Ours was cashed about a week after they received the packet. Can I also advise that you relax lol you sound like you've not much else to think about.

I think we're all on edge and it's understandable. But yeah--if you keep up with the thread and read what people have said before, you'll be able to generally see where everyone is at. We're all pretty good at keeping our timelines going. I know I update mine the moment I get something to report because I know there are people out there like me feeding their anxiety when they see other people around their dates updating their stuff.

I admit I'm a timeline stalker

[Miki28 91]

I'm sure people here gonna "advice" u to research before asking this or go see the timeline etc etc. and gonna type ; lines...but it's so hard to type in one line to answer

Sorry I can't answer this as I have not gone so far

Bless

Well, I have done plenty of research on my own. And I have never had anyone to advice me to do a research before asking. I believe you were given such an advice because you have been asking stuff that is available to you A. In our signatures B. In our timelines (which are supposed to be updated for such reasons as other people wanting to check it ETC).

I think you can. RFE's are for missing or extra information.

That's what I thought. It just crossed my mind. It never hurts to ask. Thank you

[Ischnura 285]

I update my timeline when we get something!! Makes me all chuft to have something new to put in. Though I have a terrible memory so I haven't written a signature about it all. Seeing other people with similar stats is always helpful and reassuring that we've not been forgotten about to the deep depths of a filing cabinet somewhere too haha

[HeavensAngel 4]

I ask u two things dear ..

Like when u get e notification & when u got text for NOA

I can see on time line which are like far away of your filing AOS.

We are not experts ,and I'm not at all & I appreciate if people help even they think it's a silly question but may b it's a valuable question for me to be answered

Congrats everyone on getting close x

[Miki28 91]

You can get rfe even after interview!

Thank you! ❤️ that's what I thought. Just double checked I had right understanding. Thanks a lot

[vpalermo85 62]

I update my timeline when we get something!! Makes me all chuft to have something new to put in. Though I have a terrible memory so I haven't written a signature about it all. Seeing other people with similar stats is always helpful and reassuring that we've not been forgotten about to the deep depths of a filing cabinet somewhere too haha

This is EXACTLY how I feel. I am not a patient sort and I don't pretend to be. This is the worst process ever for someone like me because I can't sttttaannnndddd waiting around.

Of course this isn't as bad as the K-1 visa waiting time because that 'literally' holds up your life and makes it completely uncertain as if you have absolutely no control whatsoever. And that's something I just can never cope with as I'm a control freak

[Miki28 91]

I ask u two things dear ..

Like when u get e notification & when u got text for NOA

I can see on time line which are like far away of your filing AOS.

We are not experts ,and I'm not at all & I appreciate if people help even they think it's a silly question but may b it's a valuable question for me to be answered

Congrats everyone on getting close x

Please, do not call me "dear" - we are complete strangers and I don't feel like it's appropriate. It sounds sarcastic as well. I do not appreciate that. )))

I was just letting you know why others gave you answers. Sounds like you got sort of offended. You asked, I gave you answers I had. But these information are also available to you in our timelines & signatures which you can see here when people post stuff. That's all I had to say.

[vpalermo85 62]

I ask u two things dear ..

Like when u get e notification & when u got text for NOA

I can see on time line which are like far away of your filing AOS.

We are not experts ,and I'm not at all & I appreciate if people help even they think it's a silly question but may b it's a valuable question for me to be answered

Congrats everyone on getting close x

No one expects you to be an expert because really none of us are. The only claim I have in all this is that I went to law school and I'm studying for the Bar as we speak. Luckily for me I didn't have to pay another attorney to do the paperwork and in reality you don't need one--it's just comforting to have their stamp of approval on your forms.

Finding the information isn't difficult, but perhaps (for all our benefits) we'll just create a post that lists our own timeline within our own thread and one of us can keep it up to date. That way people don't have to repeat themselves. Might just be easier in the end--who knows.

[Ischnura 285]

I don't envy anyone waiting on a K-1 or even a CR1. I often found with all the travelling that it was harder to be closer to being together. One winter I was snowed in Philly airport. 5 whole hours away from my Mister who was at Ft Drum at the time, and that was harder than being in England! But, we all arrived to this merry ole boat of AOS and we'll get there in the end.

Til then, what're you all doing to keep you from stalking VJ all day??

[vpalermo85 62]

Ny Bar studies at this point--only a few more weeks. Fingers crossed that I pass so I can finally be license, start working and no longer being a bum in society lol

[p-ana 933]

There's a difference in asking something to make sure you're right, or if you're in doubt... But it's something entirely different when you're clearly lazy to do so.

i don't like the spamming the forums with questions that are in the guides, even after being directed to them, also making the same question over and over after people took the time to answer. They ignore the answers and ask the same thing again. It's annoying.

I tried helping but I've seen the pattern

[Ischnura 285]

Woot!! Go you!! The almost done part, not the determination to not be a bum hahaha We've finally settled in one place so I've joined a gym, my new leggings arrived today and I've been making car seat blanket sets with the plan to open a shop on Etsy in a couple of months. It's almost 100 F here so very little outside activities.

There's a difference in asking something to make sure you're right, or if you're in doubt... But it's something entirely different when you're clearly lazy to do so.

i don't like the spamming the forums with questions that are in the guides, even after being directed to them, also making the same question over and over after people took the time to answer. They ignore the answers and ask the same thing again. It's annoying.

I tried helping but I've seen the pattern

I'd like to also add to this, this is a thread purposely for us to add updates to our journeys. This WHOLE thread. It wouldn't hurt to go back to page 1 and clue yourself up.

[vpalermo85 62]

I'm going to put a google doc together I think that will list info for the June filers--I'm bored and need a distraction from studying. I could also post it on here but I think a google doc will just be better all around

[HeavensAngel 4]

U apparently called me lazy ! Am I offered - not

But people do offended calling them - dear - strange isn't it - but stay bless stranger

We are all strangers & I appreciate and respect and value every ones time and advice ! It was helpful through out the journey & will be in future too!

I think we should commenting any further about that matter & back to business

Cheers

[Miki28 91]

U apparently called me lazy ! Am I offered - not

But people do offended calling them - dear - strange isn't it - but stay bless stranger

We are all strangers & I appreciate and respect and value every ones time and advice ! It was helpful through out the journey & will be in future too!

I think we should commenting any further about that matter & back to business

Cheers

Ehm. Not sure where you got the part where I - personally - called you lazy. All I said was that people given you such "advice" of "do research before asking this" after you asked for something that is all over this thread. This thread is FULL of timelines & lots of people spend tíme updating their signatures. That was only explanation I had for why some others given you "such advice". Never called you lazy, never said ANYTHING to you. So move on. Good Luck to you.