Divorce

[IcezMan_IcezLady 582]

Sorry for what you are going through. However, I agree with CaryH. You probably had a gut feeling about him but ignored it. We all do it.

You said you've moved on but your post sound like you are very bitter and angry, which is expected, but dont let that become your new image.

Don't allow this man to create a monster out of you. Bitterness and anger does you no good. It only gives you wrinkles and makes you look older.

Don't waste your energy on him. Sounding bitter only makes it appear that you would take him back if he came back.

And don't project that negativity onto your son. If he believes his dad is a superman, go along with it. He will grow and find out who his dad was. You two are his first role models, don't taint one side of the coin for him. Do what you have to legally do.

I wish you all the best.

[pch1 64]

Sorry for what you are going through. However, I agree with CaryH. You probably had a gut feeling about him but ignored it. We all do it.

You said you've moved on but your post sound like you are very bitter and angry, which is expected, but dont let that become your new image.

Don't allow this man to create a monster out of you. Bitterness and anger does you no good. It only gives you wrinkles and makes you look older.

Don't waste your energy on him. Sounding bitter only makes it appear that you would take him back if he came back.

And don't project that negativity onto your son. If he believes his dad is a superman, go along with it. He will grow and find out who his dad was. You two are his first role models, don't taint one side of the coin for him. Do what you have to legally do.

I wish you all the best

Nicely said...well done!