ROC in process,but my wife want to give me a Divorce

[N and J 88]

There's nothing as worse than a woman trying to be In charge. Im sorry you going thru all of these. But my advice is if you can still hang in the marriage until you get approved, then do it. If you think she might call a police on you or filed a restraining order against you, then move on and cancel this present petition then file again with waiver. It is really going to be tough. You going to get interviewed and most possibly a stoke interview. Make sure to have (sufficient!!!!!) documents to convince the I/O. Do not let her call the immigration on you. They are as worse more than police. You want to live in US? They determined if that is going to happen. Keep up with prayers and heads up. You love your wife and that's why you with her not just for green card.

Nothing like a man who thinks he could be in charge. Ever hear of 50/50? And that's nice tell him to commit fraud by hanging in his marriage until he can get his green card. Makes me wonder how and why you got here.

Does this link sounds familiar?

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/594599-fraudulent-marriage/

Interesting ?

[CplusC86 22]

There is nothing worse than when a woman is in charge? What a messed up discriminating kind of comment is that?

For the love of God wake up and join the 21st century.

There's nothing as worse than a woman trying to be In charge. Im sorry you going thru all of these. But my advice is if you can still hang in the marriage until you get approved, then do it. If you think she might call a police on you or filed a restraining order against you, then move on and cancel this present petition then file again with waiver. It is really going to be tough. You going to get interviewed and most possibly a stoke interview. Make sure to have (sufficient!!!!!) documents to convince the I/O. Do not let her call the immigration on you. They are as worse more than police. You want to live in US? They determined if that is going to happen. Keep up with prayers and heads up. You love your wife and that's why you with her not just for green card.

[TBoneTX 45,522]

Stick to the OP's situation, please.

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[Anitafeliz 1,133]

There's nothing as worse than a woman trying to be In charge. Im sorry you going thru all of these. But my advice is if you can still hang in the marriage until you get approved, then do it. If you think she might call a police on you or filed a restraining order against you, then move on and cancel this present petition then file again with waiver. It is really going to be tough. You going to get interviewed and most possibly a stoke interview. Make sure to have (sufficient!!!!!) documents to convince the I/O. Do not let her call the immigration on you. They are as worse more than police. You want to live in US? They determined if that is going to happen. Keep up with prayers and heads up. You love your wife and that's why you with her not just for green card.

[Caykay1 71]

You can continue the process without your wife's help. Even though she can't legally put you out of the house without serving you eviction notice, you know our people. She will make your life miserable and not just her, but the Ghanaian community in your area if she is a Ghanaian also. It is best you get your importance paperwork,move out and get a lawyer . It is not going to be cheap. Nothing is cheap here.

But if you are looking to resolve your issues since your main issue was you been allowed to be the man of the household, then counseling will be the other option.There is a big Ghanaian community that can talk to you and your wife is you want to consider that option. Problems such as yours are becoming in the Ghanaian-American community.PM if you want to be connected to them.

Good luck to you!

Where is the Ghanaian community?

[sasafan 3]

Well , my thoughts to you now from being in similar situation year ago , but what really happened that i stopped her from being the man and gave the respect to the woman side of her which she didnt like , just keep copies of everything you sent even if she cancelled later , get divorce and file roc waiver , i have read for ppl here denied citizenship years later and told they got 10 y card by mistake as spouse filed for divorce durin roc jointly . She wont prevent you from getting a permenant green card

[IcezMan_IcezLady 582]

Where is the Ghanaian community?

You live in Worcester, you should know the community there.

But there's a worldwide community also.

[Meedada 0]

Essien, sorry to hear this from you.

I have head this since 10 years...I don't know why our ladies do this.

However an advice for you. Do the following before its too late.

Fix a time for yourself less than 2 weeks anD get these done.

1. Read this carefully. .http://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/divorce-your-conditional-residence-status-how-file-divorce-waiver-with-form-i-751.html

2. Make sure you gather all your marriage documents, the one you have here.

3. Get the once you have back home as well in the near future if posible now.

4. Demonstrate that you were well married. Evidence from back home. If it was green card who did what who won it all these.

5. Demonstrategic that she changed when she came here. If you have evidence of all these it will help you a lot.

7. Also, you need evidence on the grounds of divorce. ..you can ask her and record her just for keeps..it's tricky though cos you have to let the person know you are recording her..but if I am you no. I will record and use it during an extreme case when everything is not working my way.

8. You need an attorney immigration attorney ...

Suggestion on attorneys

1. Look for attorneys that will voluntary assist .free bono or volunteering ..if you don't have the money.

2. Sacrifice and raise funds to pay.

3. You can call catholic charities and ask them if they have services for people who seek for immigration attorney. They organise workshops for people who want to be fill for citizens and you pay a small amount to get an attorney to review all your documents. But I am not sure of this particular situation. You have to call them.

Remember here USA protects the ladies. Its just like a police man enforcing the law but he or she is not above the law. So remember she is not above the law she cannot use that to emotionally disturb you and have you struggle. People don't know it is an offence.

Whiles you getting the above done, make sure you Hamble yourself.

1. Don't ever try to abuse her in anyway not even emotionally. .

2. Just be a master and slave and tell her you need sometime to do as she wish.

Let me give you some hope.

If you sacrifice and spend time on the above for two weeks whiles you get your as kicked by your wife...

You can have the US government send your wife back home while you stay here after the divorce .

It is very disturbing to marry for 5 years back home and when you try to make things good for all, then the wife turns the back...

Again how did you even get the green card? Is it by lottery who won and who sponsored? Do you have kids with her? Where are they?

Good luck you can do it if you sacrifice..

In the USA the law works you don't say things and get away with it...unless the other person is not interested

[Ban Hammer 13,401]

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[Essien 0]

Essien, sorry to hear this from you.

I have head this since 10 years...I don't know why our ladies do this.

However an advice for you. Do the following before its too late.

Fix a time for yourself less than 2 weeks anD get these done.

1. Read this carefully. .http://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/divorce-your-conditional-residence-status-how-file-divorce-waiver-with-form-i-751.html

2. Make sure you gather all your marriage documents, the one you have here.

3. Get the once you have back home as well in the near future if posible now.

4. Demonstrate that you were well married. Evidence from back home. If it was green card who did what who won it all these.

5. Demonstrategic that she changed when she came here. If you have evidence of all these it will help you a lot.

7. Also, you need evidence on the grounds of divorce. ..you can ask her and record her just for keeps..it's tricky though cos you have to let the person know you are recording her..but if I am you no. I will record and use it during an extreme case when everything is not working my way.

8. You need an attorney immigration attorney ...

Suggestion on attorneys

1. Look for attorneys that will voluntary assist .free bono or volunteering ..if you don't have the money.

2. Sacrifice and raise funds to pay.

3. You can call catholic charities and ask them if they have services for people who seek for immigration attorney. They organise workshops for people who want to be fill for citizens and you pay a small amount to get an attorney to review all your documents. But I am not sure of this particular situation. You have to call them.

Remember here USA protects the ladies. Its just like a police man enforcing the law but he or she is not above the law. So remember she is not above the law she cannot use that to emotionally disturb you and have you struggle. People don't know it is an offence.

Whiles you getting the above done, make sure you Hamble yourself.

1. Don't ever try to abuse her in anyway not even emotionally. .

2. Just be a master and slave and tell her you need sometime to do as she wish.

Let me give you some hope.

If you sacrifice and spend time on the above for two weeks whiles you get your as kicked by your wife...

You can have the US government send your wife back home while you stay here after the divorce .

It is very disturbing to marry for 5 years back home and when you try to make things good for all, then the wife turns the back...

Again how did you even get the green card? Is it by lottery who won and who sponsored? Do you have kids with her? Where are they?

Good luck you can do it if you sacrifice..

In the USA the law works you don't say things and get away with it...unless the other person is not interested

Essien, sorry to hear this from you.

I have head this since 10 years...I don't know why our ladies do this.

However an advice for you. Do the following before its too late.

Fix a time for yourself less than 2 weeks anD get these done.

1. Read this carefully. .http://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/divorce-your-conditional-residence-status-how-file-divorce-waiver-with-form-i-751.html

2. Make sure you gather all your marriage documents, the one you have here.

3. Get the once you have back home as well in the near future if posible now.

4. Demonstrate that you were well married. Evidence from back home. If it was green card who did what who won it all these.

5. Demonstrategic that she changed when she came here. If you have evidence of all these it will help you a lot.

7. Also, you need evidence on the grounds of divorce. ..you can ask her and record her just for keeps..it's tricky though cos you have to let the person know you are recording her..but if I am you no. I will record and use it during an extreme case when everything is not working my way.

8. You need an attorney immigration attorney ...

Suggestion on attorneys

1. Look for attorneys that will voluntary assist .free bono or volunteering ..if you don't have the money.

2. Sacrifice and raise funds to pay.

3. You can call catholic charities and ask them if they have services for people who seek for immigration attorney. They organise workshops for people who want to be fill for citizens and you pay a small amount to get an attorney to review all your documents. But I am not sure of this particular situation. You have to call them.

Remember here USA protects the ladies. Its just like a police man enforcing the law but he or she is not above the law. So remember she is not above the law she cannot use that to emotionally disturb you and have you struggle. People don't know it is an offence.

Whiles you getting the above done, make sure you Hamble yourself.

1. Don't ever try to abuse her in anyway not even emotionally. .

2. Just be a master and slave and tell her you need sometime to do as she wish.

Let me give you some hope.

If you sacrifice and spend time on the above for two weeks whiles you get your as kicked by your wife...

You can have the US government send your wife back home while you stay here after the divorce .

It is very disturbing to marry for 5 years back home and when you try to make things good for all, then the wife turns the back...

Again how did you even get the green card? Is it by lottery who won and who sponsored? Do you have kids with her? Where are they?

Good luck you can do it if you sacrifice..

In the USA the law works you don't say things and get away with it...unless the other person is not interested

no kids yet and i came in here through marriage to my wife

[Meedada 0]

no kids yet and i came in here through marriage to my wife

well I guess you could have the upper hand.. she cannot abuse you due to marriage in order for you to lose your status. If you do the above and just sacrifice a little or get an immigration attorney online they will be willing to help trust me.

you will even get your conditional green cared waved instantly. there is hope!!! good luck and let us know how it went.

look up the links below to help you with free immigration attorneys..

https://www.temple.edu/isss/immigration/attorneys-probono.html

http://www.lawyers.com/immigration/find-law-firms-by-location/?gclid=Cj0KEQjwx7u5BRC1lePz2biJpIYBEiQA-ZeDmv_7VGJqFrbiyyL5-DQWk1WtFQHofUpGstMkhG5WFtkaAv4B8P8HAQ&ef_id=VEb-@gAABN5EqYkl:20160508190614:s

https://www.justice.gov/eoir/list-pro-bono-legal-service-providers-map

[Meedada 0]

I forgot to add this...

You can contact them as well....

www.hellerimmigration.com

heller@hellerimmigration.com