How Foreign Women View Western Men For Relationships

[Janelle2002 3,865]

I hope I have debunked the fantasy that a man can fly into any foreign country and easily find his dream girl within a short amount of time. The reality is that meeting foreign women can be just as laborious as meeting women in your own country, and thats not including the monetary cost of travel. The rewards are far greater, of course, but traveling to an unknown land to develop a sexual and emotional connection with a woman who shares a completely different culture than you is no easy task, and should not be viewed as such.

It doesnt help our cause that foreign women view us as a less worthy long-term partner than a local man. You may be wondering how can that be, with countless stories of mail-order brides and international couples meeting on the internet, but there are several points to consider.

A foreign girl in her prime can get top local guys

There is no need for a hot 21-year-old Russian girl to pursue a long-term relationship with an American man who doesnt speak Russian, doesnt have local connections, and doesnt have any long-term roots instead of dating a high-value Russian man that she can easily get. Even in the poorest countries of the world, the most beautiful women have multiple strong options, and when you get into the 8 and 9 range, you will find it quite challenging to maintain a relationship with her since she has so many high-value local men in her orbit.

Lets do an example. Say that you studied Spanish in high school and later as an adult met a Colombian girl who moved to your city. She speaks no English. She is quite pretty, but not higher than what you can normally get. You begin dating her and appreciate her feminine qualities and exotic nature, but local girls above her beauty range still give you tons of attention, while the emotional connection with the Colombian is stunted because of not being able to communicate properly with her. How long will you date the Colombian for the novelty factor before easing back into your previous routine?

Purely sexual relationships are easy to create but hard to maintain

Its not that difficult to have sex with a foreign girl who happens to be interested in foreign men. If shes never met an American man before, and you approach her with good game, she may put out for you much faster than the local guy. This sexual experience will be very valuable to her, but then the reality of the situation will hit: a relationship with a foreign guy isnt that great. Hes isolated from the local scene and probably doesnt have a car or other badges of high value. He doesnt have a local sense of humor, doesnt share an interest in local movies and music, and doesnt have much going on besides having a job, a fact that is less important since her standard of living is ever increasing.

Even worse, speaking in English all the time is tiring. A girl wants a relaxing or exciting relationship, not one where she has to exert her brain, and if the girl is pretty enough, she can get a guy on your level who not only is from her culture, but speaks the language and has more local perks that add weight to the relationship. Therefore its very rare that relationships in my experience last more than two months with a high-value young girl. She will my brains out for that time and then move on to something more suitable for her needs.

Lower value foreign girls are more willing to pursue relationships

If Im an 8 out of 10 in a foreign country and date a young girl who is also an 8, the relationship wont last long. Shell get tired or bored and move on to easily date a local guy. But the lower value a girl is (e.g. a 6), the more likely she will try to lock me down. The reason for this is simple: she can not get a local guy in the 8 range, so I am the best shes ever likely to get. The fact that Im not local is a lower concern than the fact that Im the highest value she can land based on her lower beauty level.

If you have low or modest standards, establishing a relationship with foreign girls can be quite easy and pleasurable. She will see you as a long-term partner and not get bored after a month or two. She wont stray or give you bullshit. She may even start to increase her English studies to prepare for a lifelong partnership with you. Let that sink in for a second: shes ready to throw her own language and culture under the bus to be with a man who is the highest in value shes been able to get.

Slightly older women have given up on local men

Another potential avenue in your search are women who are 25 and older. If a woman in a place like Eastern Europe or South America is single at this age, she is becoming desperate for a man and wants to secure the highest value she can. Even if she was a 9 in her youth, she will now be accessible to the foreign man for a long-term relationship, simply because she has failed with the local men due to being deficient in some way.

The 8 or 9 who wouldnt want a relationship with you when she was 21 and getting tons of attention from local men will now strongly consider marrying you at 28 when all that attention has dried up and you are her best option (does that strategy sound familiar to you?). Unfortunately for me, I do not enjoy the company of women over 25, so I try to limit my dealings with them, but this would be a target pool to select from especially since theyre done ###### around and desperately want to start a family. As long as you dont mind being ####### number twenty while having to wait for sex much longer than the sexy Spanish man she met during her last trip to Majorca, shes all yours.

Conclusion

When it comes to my dealings with foreign women, I follow this prescription:

If a girl is high value (young and very beautiful), extract as many instances of sex from her as possible and enjoy the ride.

The reason is because I know I wont be able to hold onto her for more than a couple months before she starts to crave a local guy. If she wants to try to lock me down, she can, and I wouldnt mind a mini-relationship with her, but she has so many options from a respectful local pool that I am satisfied at only having the short-term sexual rewards, especially at my advanced age.

If a girl is merely cute or pretty, I could pursue a relationship knowing that I could definitely better, but possibly not maintain a relationship with better, simply due to the fact that my value as a foreign guy has limitations that arent an issue in my home country.

In the end, its important to be realistic. Just like how Ive stated that getting foreign women can entail a lot of work, we have to also understand that we wont be able to easily wife up the best of what any country has to offer. Im not upset at this for two reasons: (1) Im not willing to put the additional work in raising my local value to keep the highest quality girls, and (2) The quality Im able to get for medium-term relationships is solid even if its not the absolute top, and going higher would not bring me a large increase in happiness or satisfaction due to passing the point of diminishing return.

If theres anything Ive learned through living abroad for over five years, its that beautiful women everywhereeven in dirt poor countrieshave options. They dont have the immediate need to throw themselves on a sexy Westerner who has a marginal backstory that doesnt include permanent local roots. But thankfully, foreign women are almost always better than American women, so Im definitely not losing any sleep at the problems that my international pursuits contain.

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[Jacque67 7,328]

Hmm. Wonder if you'll get any responses to this topic.

Whatever my feelings on the matter, I must say I am disturbed to find out "you can't get laid in the US"- next read.....can't say I have experienced this problem-hahaha.

[Boiler 45,467]

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[Janelle2002 3,865]

Hmm. Wonder if you'll get any responses to this topic.

Whatever my feelings on the matter, I must say I am disturbed to find out "you can't get laid in the US"- next read.....can't say I have experienced this problem-hahaha.

"Its not that difficult to have sex with a foreign girl who happens to be interested in foreign men. If shes never met an American man before, and you approach her with good game, she may put out for you much faster than the local guy."

I mean, check this out. I didn't know there was a sex drought in the U.S. and that's why American men are going overseas. Lol the stereotyping is strong in this one. Question is, how many men believe this to be true? Besides, doesn't it all feel the same? :0)

[gradtaai 8]

First of all, lumping all foreign women, whether coming from the Laos or Copenhagen, being Russian Orthodox or Hindu, as the same only shows a very limited world view. Second, Why in the world would you even consider a relation with a "foreign girl" with the view point you have? I'm meat an potatoes, raised Southern Baptist. My wife, Buddhist, rice, fermented fish and insect eater. I've had many relationships with "my own kind". This by far the most loving and understanding relationship I have ever had. AND the sex isn't bad either.

[lostinblue 1,989]

as the same only shows a very limited world view. Second, Why in the world would you even consider a relation with a "foreign girl" with the view point you have

You nailed it ..

[Janelle2002 3,865]

I also had no idea that women over 25 is desperate and failed at relationships with local men, per the guy who wrote this, he is nuts. If he was just looking for 25 year olds why didn't he get one in the u.s. This guy is insane

Edited April 6, 2016 by Janelle2002

[Umka36 781]

Personally I don't care what adults do or the choices they make. Just don't brag, or worse complain about it if it doesn't work out.

[Jacque67 7,328]

Yuck. I foolishly clicked on the link, and saw the photo of Roosh V with some foreign woman... Thanks, Janelle-not!!!! What a jerk he is. Where on earth did you find this article???

[Jacque67 7,328]

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So you agree with the conclusions in this article????

[Janelle2002 3,865]

Yuck. I foolishly clicked on the link, and saw the photo of Roosh V with some foreign woman... Thanks, Janelle-not!!!! What a jerk he is. Where on earth did you find this article???

Random reading on relationship stuff. ..lol

[Jacque67 7,328]

Random reading on relationship stuff. ..lol

Lol. You should read some DHLawrence instead . Ha ha.

[Janelle2002 3,865]

So you agree with the conclusions in this article????

Of course he does. Make America Great. Men are entitled to hot young women who never get old, never gain weight, etc.

Funny but truest statement ever... women marry men expecting them to change, men marry women expecting them to never change. We're not sex machines. 3, 4 kids later we get tired. If you want her to look young forever, which apparently is this guy's main focus, don't have kids.

Lol. You should read some DHLawrence instead . Ha ha.

I'll try that next. Just want to get an understanding on people who purposely date foreign only, etc. Some interesting blogs and articles out there. I've never searched for a person solely on race and immigration status so I was curious

[Jacque67 7,328]

Ugg the writer of this article is a dooooosh. Sees women as merely commodities...this is the root of his problem. Lots of cool guys out there.no need to read such #######.

[Janelle2002 3,865]

Ugg the writer of this article is a dooooosh. Sees women as merely commodities...this is the root of his problem. Lots of cool guys out there.no need to read such #######.

I know. Just wanted to see my fellow VJers point of view