I am suffering from shock. Please help me

[Maria2012 16]

With respect, How does that help me? I have been here since I was 14 years old.

You owe nobody an explanation to why you want to stay. Sorry to hear about your situation. I hope things work out for you.

[Transborderwife 4,666]

You owe nobody an explanation to why you want to stay. Sorry to hear about your situation. I hope things work out for you.

Owe perhaps not, but it does help for offering advice

[Illiria 980]

Of course not but how were we to know if she hadn't said that she got here at 14. If someone moved over last month and all their support network is in their home country then moving back might be a good option.

Her lack of a completed timeline and the previous posts being so contradictory make it so hard to give good advice other than that with the small amount of evidence she has it is going to be tough and that if we don't know some factors it may be even tougher to RoC.

I wish her the best but a diy forum can only help so much.

[Boiler 45,525]

Owe perhaps not, but it does help for offering advice

True, and of course there is no requirement in the first place to do so, but if you want sensible answers then it is a good idea not to be selective in what you post.

[Maria2012 16]

Owe perhaps not, but it does help for offering advice

your question was " are you really wanting to stay in the US" - none of your business.

Edited March 7, 2016 by Maria2012

[Transborderwife 4,666]

your question was " are you really wanting to stay in the US" - none of your business.

I didn't ask that

True, and of course there is no requirement in the first place to do so, but if you want sensible answers then it is a good idea not to be selective in what you post.

Exactly

[Boiler 45,525]

your question was " are you really wanting to stay in the US" - none of your business.

If none of this is none off anybody else's business then VJ might as well cease to exist. But it begs what you are doing on here delving into other peoples business?

[NikLR 13,227]

your question was " are you really wanting to stay in the US" - none of your business.

I asked because it's relevant. Doesn't mean they have to answer either.

[NikLR 13,227]

An easier answer would have been, yes I do. The other can of worms was their issue and not the question asked.

Additionally, please don't devolve the thread and keep it on topic thank you.

[ParisHeart 19]

Save all the texts, emails, whatever you sent him trying to get ahold of him, and any replies from him and family. Also keep pic of him and the other woman.

Keep phone log of when you called him and his family, friends.

You may need it in divorce court, & USCIS.

Keep a paper trail of all with him and you.

Good luck and best wishes.

Edited March 7, 2016 by AdventureBegins

[IcezMan_IcezLady 582]

your question was " are you really wanting to stay in the US" - none of your business.

I guess it is your business to go after her??.....smh.. You can msg OP and you two can handle it.

[ParisHeart 19]

To Rosies Baby, there are things confusing here, hard to understand when you don't display your time line.

of filing were you and your husband doing with USCIS?, AOS? Citizenship?

Once the forum has better knowledge of your situation, the better we can answer you.

[JFH 12,190]

It's very confusing. In past posts she has mentioned being on a K-1 but then in others she says she overstayed and was out of status for many years. If she has been in the US since the age of 14, she didn't arrive on a K-1. There are also mentions of a son and his wife who are also in the USA. Can they offer any help? A place to stay at least? Renters insurance is mentioned somewhere but late last year she posted that they were living rent-free with his family in order to save and there was concern that lack of an official tenancy agreement could be an issue for AOS. A UK driving licence is also mentioned in one of her posts. So she must have been in the UK at some point after the age of 17 to get the licence.

I can't make any sense of the story.

Edited March 7, 2016 by JFH

[Caryh 5,206]

It's very confusing. In past posts she has mentioned being on a K-1 but then in others she says she overstayed and was out of status for many years. If she has been in the US since the age of 14, she didn't arrive on a K-1. There are also mentions of a son and his wife who are also in the USA. Can they offer any help? A place to stay at least? Renters insurance is mentioned somewhere but late last year she posted that they were living rent-free with his family in order to save and there was concern that lack of an official tenancy agreement could be an issue for AOS. A UK driving licence is also mentioned in one of her posts. So she must have been in the UK at some point after the age of 17 to get the licence.

I can't make any sense of the story.

It could just be the OP just comes here to troll. Or the OP might be a habitual fib teller. There's just too many contradictory posts by the OP to take what they're saying seriously. Although if they like to lie habitually, that could easily drive anyone off in a hurry.

[ParisHeart 19]

Seems like the OP has left, and wont reply as many have tried to assist.

Whatever the situation in life hands her, it can be overcome.

Best Wishes.