Denied in Indonesia

[Darrinos 6]

_{Wow... that's SO much better! Thanks!}

[Amhara 460]

And where do I find the definitions to all of these crazy acronyms and abbreviations? POE, NIV, AOS, NOA.... makes my head hurt!

POE = Port of Entry = Which airport the customs officers inspected the incoming immigrant at

AOS = Adjustment of Status for K-1 applicants OR Affidavit of Support for spousal visas

NOA = Notice of Action = the paper you get when the USCIS receives your case

Start with the tab at the top that says "Guides"

[Expat1 971]

Amhara, thanks for the suggestions. Some of your questions were things I had not considered. You also said "Thank goodness for neutral third countries!" What do you mean by this?

Expat1, YES, it's frustrating for sure, but we have no choice but to play along. You said I'll have to "date her in her own country". What do you mean by that? I agree, going to Indonesia is definitely not a bad thing...such a beautiful place. Although I have visited her once, and hope to do so again in a few months, we do most of our "dating" via Skype. It's fun to go shopping, ride in the car, etc., without the traffic! Nothing, however, can replace being there, and even though we talk everyday, I miss her like crazy!

This woman is simply remarkable, and whatever I need to do, that's what I'll do to spend my life with her. Sounds like there may be many challenges on the road ahead, but again, if that's what it takes to be with this angel of a woman, point me toward heaven! I'll find the way. I appreciate everyone's comments so far. You've truly been helpful and kind.

Darrinos

<grin> we never actually dated but if we had it would have had to be in Indonesia (or any number of third countries). Pen pal'd for a couple of years and just took the jump and got married over there on the first trip over.

That was 9 years and two kiddos ago. Turned out to be worth the risk.

Good luck and wish both of you the best

[Darrinos 6]

Well, we're stepping out in faith for sure. Technology has made this type of a relationship so much more viable, but in some ways more difficult. We Skype every morning (hers) and sometimes mine too. While it's nice to see her every day, it makes me want to hold her and be with her even more... and the same goes for her too. It's a difficult road, but then again... she's all there is in my eyes.

Again, thank you all for your advice. Hopefully soon, you can add Tricia and Darrin to the list of successful visa seekers who braved the system and were married!

[Darrinos 6]

I'm hoping that someone can go through the process with me so that I understand it and I can explain it to my love. I read through the guide on the process for the K1 visa. Sure, it's a lot of paperwork, but no big deal. I send in all of the information listed and required, and then I receive a notice (NOA) which basically means that it's time for her appointment. She will need to have her health exam complete by then. After this, as long as everything has been provided, she should receive her approval. I am not required to be present for any of these interviews, correct? I just want to make sure I understand the process. Lastly, how often are fiancé visa's denied? After being denied her tourist B2 visa, she worries that she won't get her fiancé visa. I've told her that it is not common for this to happen, but she feels that she's been "blacklisted" now and will have difficulty with the K1. I would appreciate some input from people here concerning this. I want to be realistic, but at the same time I don't want her to worry.

Thanks so much...

Darrinos

[MacUK 983]

If a B-2 is denied due to immigrant intent that doesn't matter for a K-1 where the immigrant intent is what that visa is all about.

[Darrinos 6]

Yes, that was my point that I explained to her, but she is now just afraid that they won't approve anything for her. It breaks my heart to see her have such fear. Thanks for your reassurance.

[blooms 63]

Yes, that was my point that I explained to her, but she is now just afraid that they won't approve anything for her. It breaks my heart to see her have such fear. Thanks for your reassurance.

Hi,

B2 visa denial will not affect I-129F petition. One is a non-immigrant and one is for immigrating.

Different processing entirely.

However, y'all need to be free to marry when you petition her. Divorce decrees will be requested.

My B2 visa was approved when the I-129F petition was still pending. But I did come back to Indonesia as scheduled.

She can try and try again as much as she wants. When you go for an interview, there are up to five officers interviewing in different windows. You can hear everybody being interviewed. That being said, some officers are unfriendly, but some are friendly and little bit laid back.

If she can prove strong ties with Indonesia, she can always re-apply.

Ever considered meeting somewhere else? Otherwise, come back to Jakarta to visit.

Blooms