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Yeah, because I want a woman from a different race to tell me she's curious about dating a black man. It's flat out saying there's something different about you, when there isn't. Last time I checked we all belong to the human race, which makes us all equal and the same species.

You read that as an insult. Why though I wonder - it wasn't intended to be one.

Folks are different everywhere. You've travelled and you know that. They look different, different beliefs, different values, different experiences, different family arrangements, the list is endless.

Skin color is a difference but it is one of the least important of those differences. Dating is how you get to know someone - what triggers a person to step outside of their own little world if not curiosity? In my view more people should.

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You read that as an insult. Why though I wonder - it wasn't intended to be one.

Folks are different everywhere. You've travelled and you know that. They look different, different beliefs, different values, different experiences, different family arrangements, the list is endless.

Skin color is a difference but it is one of the least important of those differences. Dating is how you get to know someone - what triggers a person to step outside of their own little world if not curiosity? In my view more people should.

Ok, I'll try this.

It is an insult(albeit you may not have known it at the time) because once again you're talking about two very different things.

I've traveled and dated more than a few women from different races and cultures. Never once was I curious about them. I saw them as women, that's all. If I'm attracted to them, it's because they're attractive to me. But I'll tell you why black people take this as an insult when you use the word curious.

White people are like Visa cards with an unlimited amount of credit. You're accepted everywhere all over the world. Men and women of another race have very little if any problems when it comes to bringing a white person home to meet the parents. In some cases, it's seen as an upgrade from your own race.

Black people are like personal checks. Not too many accept us and if one bounces, we're done for. All the places I've been and it's like either we're coveted like the newest pair of shoes or we're regarded in disgust. Not the best place to be. Can't tell you how many were curious enough about me to try and talk to me, but when it came to meeting the parents, that evaporates real quick.

I was never curious about Islam or German culture. I was attracted to the women that happened to be German and Malaysian. When black people hear "you're cute for a black person or I'm curious about what it's like being with a black person", it's like saying we're somehow inherently different from other human beings.

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"Oppressive language does more than represent violence; it is violence; does more than represent the limits of knowledge; it limits knowledge." -Toni Morrison

He who passively accepts evil is as much involved in it as he who helps to perpetrate it.

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Ok, I'll try this.

It is an insult(albeit you may not have known it at the time) because once again you're talking about two very different things.

I've traveled and dated more than a few women from different races and cultures. Never once was I curious about them. I saw them as women, that's all. If I'm attracted to them, it's because they're attractive to me. But I'll tell you why black people take this as an insult when you use the word curious.

White people are like Visa cards with an unlimited amount of credit. You're accepted everywhere all over the world. Men and women of another race have very little if any problems when it comes to bringing a white person home to meet the parents. In some cases, it's seen as an upgrade from your own race.

Black people are like personal checks. Not too many accept us and if one bounces, we're done for. All the places I've been and it's like either we're coveted like the newest pair of shoes or we're regarded in disgust. Not the best place to be. Can't tell you how many were curious enough about me to try and talk to me, but when it came to meeting the parents, that evaporates real quick.

I was never curious about Islam or German culture. I was attracted to the women that happened to be German and Malaysian. When black people hear "you're cute for a black person or I'm curious about what it's like being with a black person", it's like saying we're somehow inherently different from other human beings.

Why would you think that same person would not say the same thing to someone else?

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White people are like Visa cards with an unlimited amount of credit. You're accepted everywhere all over the world.

Black people are like personal checks. Not too many accept us and if one bounces, we're done for.

I was never curious about Islam or German culture. I was attracted to the women that happened to be German and Malaysian. When black people hear "you're cute for a black person or I'm curious about what it's like being with a black person", it's like saying we're somehow inherently different from other human beings.

Man you are about the worst and most blatant racist I have ever seen.

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Why would you think that same person would not say the same thing to someone else?

Did you tell your wife you were curious about her because she was different and that's where your interest came from? Not an attack, just asking.

Man you are about the worst and most blatant racist I have ever seen.

Tell me anything that I said was racist or remotely wrong. Unless you want to share all the stories about the grief you've experienced. To be clear, I do know that in some cases, some races of people are all about their own and a white person wouldn't be able to just waltz in and gain approval. But in terms of who this happens to more, white or black, it's not even close.

“Hate is too great a burden to bear. It injures the hater more than it injures the hated.” – Coretta Scott King

"Oppressive language does more than represent violence; it is violence; does more than represent the limits of knowledge; it limits knowledge." -Toni Morrison

He who passively accepts evil is as much involved in it as he who helps to perpetrate it.

Martin Luther King, Jr.

President-Obama-jpg.jpg

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Did you tell your wife you were curious about her because she was different and that's where your interest came from? Not an attack, just asking.

Tell me anything that I said was racist or remotely wrong. Unless you want to share all the stories about the grief you've experienced. To be clear, I do know that in some cases, some races of people are all about their own and a white person wouldn't be able to just waltz in and gain approval. But in terms of who this happens to more, white or black, it's not even close.

That's the first thing I told her - LOL

Why else would I send a random hello email to somebody I had never met? My original intention was definitely not sex or marriage. Especially marriage.

Generalizing is bad dude. We all have to remember that every single person is individually different.

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That's the first thing I told her - LOL

Why else would I send a random hello email to somebody I had never met? My original intention was definitely not sex or marriage. Especially marriage.

Generalizing is bad dude. We all have to remember that every single person is individually different.

https://www.quora.com/How-do-black-girls-feel-when-theyre-complimented-with-Youre-pretty-for-a-black-girl

It's not generalization. But experience. And like I said, being a white person adds a different spin to it. My wife has experienced it as well and can say the same thing.

“Hate is too great a burden to bear. It injures the hater more than it injures the hated.” – Coretta Scott King

"Oppressive language does more than represent violence; it is violence; does more than represent the limits of knowledge; it limits knowledge." -Toni Morrison

He who passively accepts evil is as much involved in it as he who helps to perpetrate it.

Martin Luther King, Jr.

President-Obama-jpg.jpg

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https://www.quora.com/How-do-black-girls-feel-when-theyre-complimented-with-Youre-pretty-for-a-black-girl

It's not generalization. But experience. And like I said, being a white person adds a different spin to it. My wife has experienced it as well and can say the same thing.

Based on that report we reviewed together your experiences and the conclusions you have reached from them do not match those of the majority of the black community.

I say someone is pretty I really dont feel any urge to add "for a......." whatever to that sentence. Who does that?

ANY girl would take that personally and any dude who has to google that to figure it out is a moron. LOL SMH @ the smack I would rightly deserve if I popped something like that out to my wifey.

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Based on that report we reviewed together your experiences and the conclusions you have reached from them do not match those of the majority of the black community.

I say someone is pretty I really dont feel any urge to add "for a......." whatever to that sentence. Who does that?

ANY girl would take that personally and any dude who has to google that to figure it out is a moron. LOL SMH @ the smack I would rightly deserve if I popped something like that out to my wifey.

Then I'll ask. What do you know of the majority of the black community? I mean, being black, growing up in a black household, going to a majority black school, dating black and foreign women, and having a wife who has said the exact same thing that I'm talking about, please enlighten me.

“Hate is too great a burden to bear. It injures the hater more than it injures the hated.” – Coretta Scott King

"Oppressive language does more than represent violence; it is violence; does more than represent the limits of knowledge; it limits knowledge." -Toni Morrison

He who passively accepts evil is as much involved in it as he who helps to perpetrate it.

Martin Luther King, Jr.

President-Obama-jpg.jpg

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Then I'll ask. What do you know of the majority of the black community? I mean, being black, growing up in a black household, going to a majority black school, dating black and foreign women, and having a wife who has said the exact same thing that I'm talking about, please enlighten me.

You read the same reports and studies I read. (Or posted, dunno if you read em or not) I'm assuming that the questions were honestly answered. Many reflect what you say, but the majority do not.

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You read the same reports and studies I read. (Or posted, dunno if you read em or not) I'm assuming that the questions were honestly answered. Many reflect what you say, but the majority do not.

The reports say that black men and women both have the lowest response time when it comes to interracial dating. Not to mentioned I've talked to several black people over the years that say the same thing. I'm not sure what you're looking for.

“Hate is too great a burden to bear. It injures the hater more than it injures the hated.” – Coretta Scott King

"Oppressive language does more than represent violence; it is violence; does more than represent the limits of knowledge; it limits knowledge." -Toni Morrison

He who passively accepts evil is as much involved in it as he who helps to perpetrate it.

Martin Luther King, Jr.

President-Obama-jpg.jpg

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"Victoria Zdrok, a Ukrainian beauty who posed for Playboy and Penthouse magazines, claims she went on four dates with Trump and told journalist Chaunce Hayden, He [Trump] would always talk about this one girl, a supermodel, and how he would give her the best orgasms of her life.

He told me he really likes this girl but he would never go out with her because he found out she was half-black, said Zdrok, according to a transcript in the August issue of Metropolis Nights magazine, He needed somebody more mainstream.

Young was born to a black mother and white father.

Trump told Hayden, I never took her [Zdrok] out . . . its total bulls - - t. She looks like a third-rate hooker."

What? ??? Being half-black disqualifies you from being a potential mate for Trump. Go figure! !!

Lololololololololol

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