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LookGod   0

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I need to break it down now..firstly my wife is older than me.I'm 30 she's 54 years old..and she can't conceive again cos she's over menupause..and no one on earth Wil ever believe 54 years old woman abuse me..and even if I Wil report her no strong evidence..and to God who made me I entered the marriage on good faith..don't know what to do now and she doesn't want me to go back home

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Alaska2012   462

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What's her ability to conceive or not got to do with this? I assume you knew all along how old she was. You can either stay and take the abuse or put your big boy pants on and go home.

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Dohan   133

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Age and ability to have a child have no importance here. If you are really being abused, you call the cops and you report it. If she beats you or abuses you in a physical or sexual way, you go to the hospital and have it recorded. I truly hope you get out of this unhealthy and dangerous environment.

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blest.but.strest   50

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I need to break it down now..firstly my wife is older than me.I'm 30 she's 54 years old..and she can't conceive again cos she's over menupause..and no one on earth Wil ever believe 54 years old woman abuse me..and even if I Wil report her no strong evidence..and to God who made me I entered the marriage on good faith..don't know what to do now and she doesn't want me to go back home

Either you get out of the situation and call the authorities to report the abuse, or stay in the situation and take the abuse.

If I was you, I would get out and report the abuse.

I am not too sure to understand why you mentioned that she couldn't conceive/menopause ??

Do you have a specific question you would like to ask?

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Ban Hammer   13,408

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multiple posts removed for being non constructive.
post constructive advice to the op or don't post.

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USE THE REPORT BUTTON INSTEAD OF MESSAGING A MODERATOR!

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Neldreemz   13

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It seem you did not take the time to really get to know your wife! Her not being able to conceive must obviously be an issue for you. Did you know before you married that she could no longer have children? That is most definitely a conversation you have before marriage. And abuse can be believed if it is documented and proven. What have you been doing each time these abuses happen? Have you been seen by a doctor for any medical care, have you discussed abuse with maybe her family, any neighbors have heard arguments, or maybe church members or leaders you have confiding in about your abuse, have the police ever been notified? You have to do more than complain. As a priority, you have to get out if you are seriously being abused!

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Boiler   45,695

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Not sure what the objective is, you can leave anytime.

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

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kkk1   42

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Not sure what the objective is, you can leave anytime.

He is running two different threads. In first he mentioned that he has been here 78 days. Here I am making an assumption, since he is being in middle of AOS process and do not wan to loose his visa status and despite of being abused he is accepting to stay with her. So basically he need kind of assurance that if he leave he won't loose his visa status;for which in his first post one of our moderator suggested him to look VAWA 7. Hope he look into it.

Boiler Grand Master

Boiler   45,695

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Ahhh

A K1?

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

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kkk1   42

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I need to break it down now..firstly my wife is older than me.I'm 30 she's 54 years old..and she can't conceive again cos she's over menupause..and no one on earth Wil ever believe 54 years old woman abuse me..and even if I Wil report her no strong evidence..and to God who made me I entered the marriage on good faith..don't know what to do now and she doesn't want me to go back home

FIRST OF ALL YOU NEED TO HELP YOURSELF.

Now other things regarding your visa thing you already got suggestion about VAWA as one of our moderator suggested. When you go for interview they give pamphlet to read which clearly mention do not tolerate any kind of abuse and has helpline in it. We do not know where exactly you are. Goggle local helpline for domestic violence; you will find some which is close to you. If you have mark as proof to show to cops when they shows up; good for you ( in case you want to report).

Stay calm you can't do anything about ages. If she is abusive she will be abusive you can't change it. Good luck.

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TBoneTX   45,551

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Parallel threads have been merged. Please avoid creating new threads on the same topic.

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06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

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01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

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Pitaya   2,577

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~The OP has received adequate responses, this thread has run its course, and is now closed to further comment.~

~This topic is not to be re-started or referenced in another thread or posting.~

Pitaya

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