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Harmonia   211

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If your families know you are engaged, realistically USCIS is just going to look at photos of them. No one is going to call them and ask "are they engaged or married?" But it may help to get letter (affidavits) from your family members saying they know you as a couple and its a real relationship. It would be weird if they talk about the engagement and not marriage.

The other proof you have looks good. Keep going and documenting everything you can. It is a big age difference but USCIS can't discriminate on age. You just need proof to overcome the red flag of the age difference.

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cdneh
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There are people in the world who do not see childbearing and childrearing the be all end all. Some people do not want children.

Cathi
Cathi

What is with the judgmental posts? Just because you don;t agree with the age difference is no reason to be condescending. They cannot be denied based on age alone, it's discrimination. As long as they

mallafri76
mallafri76

I doubt that the fact that you won't be able to have kids because your wife is "too old" will be that big of a deal to USCIS. Lots of people make an active choice not to have kids. I've known my whole

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caliliving   606

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I doubt that the fact that you won't be able to have kids because your wife is "too old" will be that big of a deal to USCIS. Lots of people make an active choice not to have kids. I've known my whole life that I didn't wanna have kids and everyone kept telling me to wait till I'm older, wait till I find the right person etc etc.... I'm now 40, married to the love of my life and guess what... Still don't want kids. :) The question might come up at your interview though, so you're gonna want to prepare for it.

I think the biggest hurdle for you to overcome will be the fact that her family doesn't know that you're married. That might be a deal breaker for USCIS so I would suggest she tells her family and then you have that "issue" out of the way.

I would also think that with the age difference you have, US immigrations will be looking more closely at your bona fida evidence. But you seem to have a lot there with joint accounts, insurance etc. How about wills and life insurance? Maybe you wanna look into that too.

Speaking from experience, when you have a couple that's outside the norm, like you and your wife and like me and my husband, they will look at your case more closely and they will be wanting stronger bona fida evidence than they would normally want from the "normal" couple. Is that unfair? Sure it is but it's the way it is so you might as well prepare for it.

Hey i am just wondering how you guys are outside the norm? what makes you guys different? He is from Sweden so I would not consider that outside the norm as any 1st world (VWP) country are low fraud countries which helps adjust.

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If your marriage is a genuine union of mutual love, you should have nothing to be afraid of. Remember USCIS is their to eliminate fraud marriages but not sophisticated ones. You may need to work extra hard on gathering more evidences to make your argument more persuasive and that's it. No matter how big your age difference is, whether you can have kids or not, those are your personal businesses and can not be a reason for the USCIS to deny your case. Come on people, just because this case seems "unusual" doesn't mean they should give up and start thinking about moving back to Turkey. If you don't know how to fight for your rights, justice can't be with you no matter where you live. Wish you all the best!

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If your marriage is a genuine union of mutual love, you should have nothing to be afraid of. Remember USCIS is their to eliminate fraud marriages but not sophisticated ones. You may need to work extra hard on gathering more evidences to make your argument more persuasive and that's it. No matter how big your age difference is, whether you can have kids or not, those are your personal businesses and can not be a reason for the USCIS to deny your case. Come on people, just because this case seems "unusual" doesn't mean they should give up and start thinking about moving back to Turkey. If you don't know how to fight for your rights, justice can't be with you no matter where you live. Wish you all the best!

If you are right i'll pray for you sir.. Thank you so much..
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Guys thanks for everything.. We approved. IO said age doesn't matter you have pretty wife. Ahe said im approving you but she didn't take my passport or i94. I asked her she said we don't need them. You are gonna get your green card after two weeks.. I'm still affraid they might deny me.. Is that ok she didn't give me nothing.. Please answer..

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Answered in OP's other thread.

Congratulations!

This thread is now closed in favor of OP's other thread (see the Case Progress subforum).

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

 
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