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Sercaned   2

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Hello.. My wife is us citizen and 32 year older than me. But we are really in love. We have every proof. Tax returns bills insurance. Even i had wreck with her car that paperwork i have. We have pics with her family, friends and everything. But we didnt have wedding because she didnt want to tell her family. They just know we are engached. That's because she wasn't lucky. She got married 3 times and her ex husbands left her. If uscis take me back she cant explain to her family. Can you answer me what happens? Because i heard some officers direct says no this is fake marriage. I can even proof our relationship in here

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cdneh
cdneh

There are people in the world who do not see childbearing and childrearing the be all end all. Some people do not want children.

Cathi
Cathi

What is with the judgmental posts? Just because you don;t agree with the age difference is no reason to be condescending. They cannot be denied based on age alone, it's discrimination. As long as they

mallafri76
mallafri76

I doubt that the fact that you won't be able to have kids because your wife is "too old" will be that big of a deal to USCIS. Lots of people make an active choice not to have kids. I've known my whole

JFH Grand Master

JFH   12,191

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Where are you currently located and where is your wife? I'm confused as to which stage of the process you are at.

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Timeline in brief:

Married: September 27, 2014

I-130 filed: February 5, 2016

NOA1: February 8, 2016 Nebraska

NOA2: July 21, 2016

Interview: December 6, 2016 London

POE: December 19, 2016 Las Vegas

N-400 filed: September 30, 2019

Interview: March 22, 2021 Seattle

Oath: March 22, 2021 COVID-style same-day oath

 

Now a US citizen!

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QueenComley   295

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If you are not married yet why are you posting in the Adjustment of status (green card) from family based visa forum? Im so confused!

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Dohan Rising Star

Dohan   133

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It seems the OP is married but the wife has not told her family because of her previous marriages falling apart. But I am not sure what is the question. Big age difference is a red flag, yes. But you should have plenty of evidence to show your marriage is real and be prepared they might separate you during interview and ask questions to make sure it's a real marriage

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Transferred? No

Consulate: Mumbai, India

 

Met at University in UK: 2010

Engaged in India: 03/31/2014

I-129F Sent: 06/20/2014

NOA1: 06/25/2014

NOA2: 12/16/2014

NOA2 Hardcopy Received: 12/23/2014

Case Sent to NVC: 12/23/2014

NVC Case Number Assigned: 01/05/2015

Case Sent to Consulate: 01/08/2015

Case "Ready" at Consulate: 01/09/2015

Applied for PCC: 01/20/2015

PCC in hand: 02/23/2015

Medical: 01/23/2015

Completed DS-160 and paid visa fee: 02/20/2015

Interview: 03/13/2015 APPROVED :)--> Same day went into AP

Visa "issued" on CEAC webstie: 03/16/2015

:goofy: :goofy: Visa in hand! 03/18/2015 :goofy::goofy:

POE: 06/04/2015 :dancing: :dancing: :dancing:

AOS Journey

06.11.2015- City Hall Wedding

06.29.2015- Mailed AOS Package

07.01.2015 - Package Delivered at Chicago Lockbox

07.02.2015- Date Received as per USCIS

07.09.2015- NOA1 for EAD/AP

07.24.2015- RFE :ranting:

08.13.2015- USCIS accepted RFE response

09.08.2015- EAD received

Waiting for the interview :clock:

12.19.2015 WE GOT THE GREEN CARD IN THE MAIL!!!!! No interview :)

ROC

10.25.2017 ROC packet received by VT Service Center

11.02.2017- Received NOA dated 10.26.2017

11.29.17- Completed Biometrics

Waiting for the interview :clock:

 

 

Sercaned Apprentice

Sercaned   2

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Guys we are married. She just doesn't wanna tell her family. That's it. After interview we are gonna have big wedding party.. We are afraid because of they can deny us.. My question is can they? (even though i have tons evidences)

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Guys we are married. She just doesn't wanna tell her family. That's it. After interview we are gonna have big wedding party.. We are afraid because of they can deny us.. My question is can they? (even though i have tons evidences)

They sure can. Depends on your case.

The immigration process caused me PTSD.

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Deagle   508

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So what am i gonna do?.. How is she gonna move to my country?.. We don't have any chance to stay together? You mean that?..

No I dont mean that at all. You asked if they can deny you and I said yes they can. What you can do is to gather every evidence you have to prove your marriage your marriage is real.

The immigration process caused me PTSD.

Sercaned Apprentice

Sercaned   2

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What country are you from?, how did you enter the US?, when did you file?, how do you know you have an interview?

J1 visa. From turkey. Filed september. They sent a notice for feb 16th. I have my ead card already Edited by Sercaned
Sercaned Apprentice

Sercaned   2

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I'm from Turkey. 21 years old. She is 53. In texas. We have a good story. (there is a cute story we have :)) And there we are...

and we filled on september. We went for fingerprints i got my ead card. We are married since july. . we have interview on feb 16th

What evidence do we have?

Joint water bill. Movie tickets, some item recoepts, Joint bank account (my salary goes there, that paper) 70 pictures(different places different people), car insurances, i had wreck with her car(in front of our house) that paperwork, joint tax return, call logs, text logs, facebook pic comments,facebook photos screenshots, my sisters' and mom's sharings about us(i printed all of them) some text screenshots (printed) and first day text screenshot (printed)

I mean different people with us on pics. Her family and friends etc.

If you make me calm i will be so much happy guys.. Please answer..

P.s: we missed deadline for health insurance and we have house but she bought it before me.

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TBoneTX Grand Master

TBoneTX   46,296

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*** Thread is moved from the AOS/Family-Based main forum to the "AOS from WS&T Visas" main forum -- the OP is adjusting from a J visa. ***

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

JFH Grand Master

JFH   12,191

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Were her three previous marriages to foreign men? It might look suspicious if she has married foreign men before and then divorced them when they've got their green cards.

You must love her a lot as you have given up the chance to be a father. At 53 she's not going to be giving you children. Therefore I would think you should have tonnes of evidence of how besotted and committed you both are. So you have pictures of you and her family? That's good.

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Timeline in brief:

Married: September 27, 2014

I-130 filed: February 5, 2016

NOA1: February 8, 2016 Nebraska

NOA2: July 21, 2016

Interview: December 6, 2016 London

POE: December 19, 2016 Las Vegas

N-400 filed: September 30, 2019

Interview: March 22, 2021 Seattle

Oath: March 22, 2021 COVID-style same-day oath

 

Now a US citizen!

Kastrs Experienced

Kastrs   723

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So 21 year old Turkish guy married to a 43 year old American girl, definitely be prepared for some extra scrutiny, it is NOT normal for a Turkish man to marry a woman more than 2x his age especially if you do not have similar cultural and religious backgrounds. Could you be approved sure, could you be denied sure, the main thing is to be prepared to present evidence that you are in a bona fide relationship and be prepared for all sorts of questions including ones pertaining to children. And if you are denied-I hear Turkey is a pretty great place.

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Married December 19, 2014

I-130 Petition sent January 14, 2015
NOA1 date January 20, 2015 (NSC)

NOA2 date May 28, 2015 :dance::dance::dance:

Mailed to NVC June 4, 2015

NVC Received June 10, 2015

NVC Case Number Assigned June 23, 2015

NVC AoS Invoice via Mail June 24, 2015

NVC Selected Agent Over Phone June 30, 2015 (Unable to logon to CEAC)

NVC IV Invoice via email received July 1, 2015

NVC AoS/IV Package Mailed July 2, 2015

NVC AoS & IV Fee Paid Online (CEAC is working) July 6. 2015

NVC Document Scan Date July 6, 2015

NCV AoS & IV Fee marked as paid in CEAC July, 7 2015

NVC DS 260 Completed July 8, 2015

NVC CC July 30, 2015 (24 days after scan date, about 2 months post NOA2)

Interview Scheduled on August 26, 2015

Interview P4 Email Received August 27, 2015

Medical in Islamabad September 2, 2015

Interview Date September 22, 2015 CANCELLED (Embassy is Over scheduled) :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:

Interview Scheduled on September 10, 2015

Interview Date October 14, 2015 APPROVED

Visa Issued October 16, 2015, 9 months start to finish

POE JFK October 26, 2015

GC in Hand Jan 8, 2016

RoC I-751 NOA1 August 31, 2017 (Vermont Service Center)

Biometrics October 2, 2017

I551 Stamp in Passport August 2, 2018

18 Month Extension Letter August 3, 2018

Applied for Naturalization N-400 Online July 30, 2018

Biometrics August 23, 2018

10 year GC is in production September 17, 2018

 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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