Age difference

[Ebunoluwa 6,136]

If you are 23 y o from Tunis that came to France and not resident they will deny. If you don't have any status in France it smells fishy even to me. Not to mention co. Came to France. Did not get status. Took on us citizen who is 56 y.o. .. Do you think COs are idiots?

Before you assume it is better to ask and clarify what the status really is. I do not think OP thinks CO's are idiots nor is there any fraud in her post.

Edited February 5, 2016 by Ebunoluwa

[Sandra G. 5,047]

Don't worry about it, Immigration is seeing lately a bunch of women in their 20s getting married to men in their late 50s/60s. I won't voice my opinion what I think about it.

[dezzy&dubb 2]

You shouldn't have a problem as long as you have solid genuine evidence. It's always best to front load if there is a red flag issue. Maybe the interview questions might be a little tougher so be prepared (study the evidence you submit) also make sure you have quality evidence. Wish you the best!

[Selmaben 0]

Ok thank you everyone for your answer!

But i saw on a site that it is a red flug and i have to put more supplements to support my application,i think i am going to make tourist visa and i go to USA to spend some time with him and we make a relation album,do you think this helps?also please do you know someone in my case wich had his application approved?

Edited February 5, 2016 by Selmaben

[Selmaben 0]

Before you assume it is better to ask and clarify what the status really is. I do not think OP thinks CO's are idiots nor is there any fraud in her post.

Thank you very much

[baron555 934]

Ok thank you for your answer!

But i saw on a site that it is a red flug and i have to put more supplements to support my application,i think i am going to make tourist visa and i to USA to spend some time with him and we make a relation album,do you think this helps?also please do you know someone in my case wich had his application approved?

Your age difference is common over at the Phils.

You are both adults. Everyone needs to prove they have a legitimate relationship and one or both are not trying to commit visa fraud. Since your country is not a high fraud country (you can visit the US), extra proof is not needed.

That being said, the evidences you should present should be able to convince a total stranger, the Embassy CO. Most relationships follows a normal evolution, getting to know you stage, discussions of the future, then discussions of more intimate nature (its OK to include some lovey-dovey stuff since couples that intend to get married do that), then talk of meetings in person, talk of the visa process, talk of the move to the US, talk of life and planning for that in the US. Include snippets of all these stages.

[TBoneTX 45,284]

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[MASH 172]

I would say make sure you have lots of evidence for the interview as ur age difference will make them very suspicious

[WandY 430]

We have 21 years age difference (I'm older American male). The age difference was a big issue for our CO in Vietnam. Go for it and see what happens. It will probably be OK. Good luck!

[baron555 934]

I would say make sure you have lots of evidence for the interview as ur age difference will make them very suspicious

Suspicious of what? Say it!

Old coot gets a young hottie?

Young gold-digger gonna get his gold?

They're adults, let them have at it.

[Selmaben 0]

We have 21 years age difference (I'm older American male). The age difference was a big issue for our CO in Vietnam. Go for it and see what happens. It will probably be OK. Good luck!

Your application was not approved?

[Cathi 5,748]

If you are 23 year old male from Middle East or Africa and she is 40 y.o. female from US than the answer is yes. It will be considered a fraud. And in 99% of cases it is. Simply due to the culture, acceptance in the region. Plain and simple. If the other way around depends.

ummmmm wrong, why would age difference be fraud???????? I am 21 years older than my middle eastern husband and he has not one single problem getting his cr1 visa. Explain to me why it's fraud?

[Jamnan_n_Steve 17]

Best that you have discussed children together with your fiance so you can convince the CO you both have thought through what you each want your family life together to be. Very important if he already has 'his' family while you may be ready for chilren when he is looking forward to retirement.

Best of luck.

[Ebunoluwa 6,136]

Best that you have discussed children together with your fiance so you can convince the CO you both have thought through what you each want your family life together to be. Very important if he already has 'his' family while you may be ready for chilren when he is looking forward to retirement.

Best of luck.

Exactly right ! Important for the interview and even more so to be compatible in life down the road.

[Selmaben 0]

Best that you have discussed children together with your fiance so you can convince the CO you both have thought through what you each want your family life together to be. Very important if he already has 'his' family while you may be ready for chilren when he is looking forward to retirement.

Best of luck.

Can you please more explain, how i can proove that we discussed about children?