Drug Possession Charge...I'm sure you've heard this before...

[Boiler 45,282]

It is obligatory.

Wise, well that would not have been to do the crime, but too late now.

[AnAmericanInLove 1]

Anything promoting fraud is.

i see. thank you.

[Ontarkie 14,190]

Well if it's anything like Canada the records are not destroyed. They will tell you that because they don't want to go looking for it.

It does not matter what type of pardon, discharge or what not they are kept. You will have to to the court where it happened and pester the person to look through their records. Since it was so long ago I doubt they put them on computers and I would bet person who looked them up only checked the computer system. Not the paper trail, court records are never destroyed unless where they are stored burned down.

You(him) will need to remember the court dates the more info the better as someone is going to have to go digging for it and then (if like in Canada) get them out of what ever storage they are hidden in.

Do not be tempted to lie about it, they will find out, even if you think there is no record there is always something left behind.

[Transborderwife 4,666]

Yes, especially as we are monitored by USCIS

[Ontarkie 14,190]

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[AnAmericanInLove 1]

How exactly does the United States get authority or jurisdiction to pry into Dutch records of private citizens?

[Transborderwife 4,666]

How exactly does the United States get authority or jurisdiction to pry into Dutch records of private citizens?

If they want to immigrate absolutely it's their right.

[AnAmericanInLove 1]

I hope we are monitored. I hope I can find some information about what real people do in these situations. I wonder if the consulate officers are like, I wonder if I have this process blown way out of proportion. I don't think lying is an option anyway, because my fiance is probably the only honest person I know. I know people who are generally honest, but not all the time. This guy is honest all the time, so he'll end up just telling them anyway. That is a reason I'm marrying him. He may not be the sharpest, but he is the most honest and loyal.

Hmmmm. I took ethics, and found that there are situations when its not in your best interest to be honest.

[Transborderwife 4,666]

I hope we are monitored. I hope I can find some information about what real people do in these situations. I wonder if the consulate officers are like, I wonder if I have this process blown way out of proportion. I don't think lying is an option anyway, because my fiance is probably the only honest person I know. I know people who are generally honest, but not all the time. This guy is honest all the time, so he'll end up just telling them anyway. That is a reason I'm marrying him. He may not be the sharpest, but he is the most honest and loyal.

Hmmmm. I took ethics, and found that there are situations when its not in your best interest to be honest.

if you want an opinion from a co the poster HFM181818 is a former co.

[AnAmericanInLove 1]

oh sweet. thank you !!!

[AnAmericanInLove 1]

We heard back from the police station. Apparently, there are no records of an arrest. There are no records of a police report, and there are no written or electronic records of anything.

I thought what I had was an official court summary, but it's not, and now we have no proof of anything I've been talking about.

I feel like I'm in the strangest position.

[Villanelle 4,122]

Hmm. Well Im a bit confused here. I really want to help though.

Where exactly are you in the process? Your timeline is blank. Have you sent in the 129F? Did you get the NOA? NVC? Heres the flowchart from VJ- where are you on it?

http://www.visajourney.com/content/k1flow

[AnAmericanInLove 1]

Hmm. Well Im a bit confused here. I really want to help though.

Where exactly are you in the process? Your timeline is blank. Have you sent in the 129F? Did you get the NOA? NVC? Heres the flowchart from VJ- where are you on it?

http://www.visajourney.com/content/k1flow

Thank you for your reply. The I29F has been received. However, we now have an RFE on the way in the post. So, I have NOA1, but will have to resolve the RFE before I dream of the NOA2. lol

[Villanelle 4,122]

what was the RFE for?

[N and J 88]

It is a shame that American drug laws are so ancient. MDMA is not a drug like heroin. My goodness. Do people still believe that? Lol. I think now its a shameful crime, but in five years, it will replace our antidepressants. Ah, but that's just opinion, which matters none when it comes to protocol and the government. I have to believe there is a way through this.

http://www.maps.org/research-archive/mdma/mithoefer_etal_2012_ltfu.pdf

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/03/18/dea-mdma-study_n_6888972.html

Just so you know MDMA was used as a diet drug and an antidepressant type drug already. When they found out the harsh effects it had on the body they made it illegal and yes E today is worse than any other drug because it is no longer pure. They use household chemicals to make it. MDMA hash harsh side effects to serotonin hence why when someone comes off of it they are depressed. You have a better chance at seeing LSD make a comeback for medical treatment than MDMA so don't get your hopes up. It is still a harsh punishment for having it...but hey stranger things have happened. They may find a way to regulate the side effects.