OH WHAT A MERRY CHRISTMAS

[qtime 24]

My wife's ten year green card was denied. What a great Christmas Present. You should have seen her look when she opened her letter last night. It was priceless. She still can not believe it. I told her it was going to be denied, but she wanted to listen to her friends that told her it would not be denied. The letter stated due to the failure of your husband to appear for the interview your ten year green card has been denied.

She listened to her friends and I was hoping she would. I tried to tell her that it would be denied due to me not going to the interview and she kept on saying her friends told her they would not.

Priceless.

I feel sorry for her three daughters who are in tears right now not the Christmas present they were hoping for.

I was requested to go to the interview on two times and both time I informed them I did not want to attend and informed her friend who is a lawyer that I did not have to go. Her friend, the lawyer said I was required too. I asked him if he was on drugs because I told him by law I did not have to and nobody could force me to go.

What a surprise on her face when I told her I told you so.

Priceless

Yes Virginia their is a Santa

Edited December 24, 2015 by qtime

[Marco&Bettina 502]

My wife's ten year green card was denied. What a great Christmas Present. You should have seen her look when she opened her letter last night. It was priceless. She still can not believe it. I told her it was going to be denied, but she wanted to listen to her friends that told her it would not be denied. The letter stated due to the failure of your husband to appear for the interview your ten year green card has been denied.

She listened to her friends and I was hoping she would. I tried to tell her that it would be denied due to me not going to the interview and she kept on saying her friends told her they would not.

Priceless.

I feel sorry for her three daughters who are in tears right now not the Christmas present they were hoping for.

I was requested to go to the interview on two times and both time I informed them I did not want to attend and informed her friend who is a lawyer that I did not have to go. Her friend, the lawyer said I was required too. I asked him if he was on drugs because I told him by law I did not have to and nobody could force me to go.

What a surprise on her face when I told her I told you so.

Priceless

Yes Virginia their is a Santa

Why would you want your wife's 10yr GC denied?

[Deagle 508]

What's the point of your post?

[FarrahIdir 46]

Why would you want your wife's 10yr GC denied?

I was thinking the same but didn't want to ask..lol.

[kalbitang 6]

maybe he is mr.scrouge ?

[Zedayn 485]

My wife's ten year green card was denied. What a great Christmas Present. You should have seen her look when she opened her letter last night. It was priceless. She still can not believe it. I told her it was going to be denied, but she wanted to listen to her friends that told her it would not be denied. The letter stated due to the failure of your husband to appear for the interview your ten year green card has been denied.

She listened to her friends and I was hoping she would. I tried to tell her that it would be denied due to me not going to the interview and she kept on saying her friends told her they would not.

Priceless.

I feel sorry for her three daughters who are in tears right now not the Christmas present they were hoping for.

I was requested to go to the interview on two times and both time I informed them I did not want to attend and informed her friend who is a lawyer that I did not have to go. Her friend, the lawyer said I was required too. I asked him if he was on drugs because I told him by law I did not have to and nobody could force me to go.

What a surprise on her face when I told her I told you so.

Priceless

Yes Virginia their is a Santa

At first I was confused...until I read this post: http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/514532-refusing-to-go-to-roc-interview/?p=7243000

[minions2 24]

why wont she let you go with her?

[Dualie 185]

At first I was confused...until I read this post: http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/514532-refusing-to-go-to-roc-interview/?p=7243000

As soon as I read the OP's post I remembered this one. Thank you Zedayn for digging it up. She basically admitted to a scam marriage so the OP refused to be involved in anything to allow it to continue legally. He submitted documentation stating as such and told the wife she was on her own to get the 10 year green card. Sounds like she got the wake up call.

[kris&me 572]

so why not buy the ticket to send them all home?

Really sorry for this happening to you

but the kids don't deserve this

[Maritah 101]

She got what she deserves. The kids? well their mother must think before to use a person for a scam marriage, so there you go. OP did not put them in that situation, was their mother, so it's fair that OP to walk away of this ugly situation because he did everything he could without compromising himself.

Well done OP.

M.

[kzielu 1,149]

Thanks for coming back with the rest of the story qtime ! Glad to read it.

[deleted this acco 44]

seems like they are still living together so if she doesn't submit she gets nothing. U see he has known her for nearly 10 years now she's s fraud.

[belinda63 3,033]

seems like they are still living together so if she doesn't submit she gets nothing. U see he has known her for nearly 10 years now she's s fraud.

No they haven't lived together for more than a year is my understanding. Where do you get that he has know her for nearly 10 years? She met him, conned him for a green card so she could provide a better life for her children, and the marriage broke up when he found out about this.

[Villanelle 4,122]

Okay so 'fair to him to walk away from the situation'... but the way Im reading it he didnt walk away. He said 'You should have seen her look when she opened her letter last night' and referenced the children crying.

That to me reads as if they are all still living together... I mean is it just me or am I inferring too much?

So thats not walking away. Thats not finding out you were the victim of a scam and closing the chapter and moving on/filing for divorce etc. Thats him taking a passive aggressive approach. Thats him basically saying I choose to stand here and do nothing and let things fall apart/play out all around me. My unsolicited advice- drop the passive part.

[Chris and ZhiJia 146]

Okay so 'fair to him to walk away from the situation'... but the way Im reading it he didnt walk away. He said 'You should have seen her look when she opened her letter last night' and referenced the children crying.

That to me reads as if they are all still living together... I mean is it just me or am I inferring too much?

So thats not walking away. Thats not finding out you were the victim of a scam and closing the chapter and moving on/filing for divorce etc. Thats him taking a passive aggressive approach. Thats him basically saying I choose to stand here and do nothing and let things fall apart/play out all around me. My unsolicited advice- drop the passive part.

Without a justified reason he cannot force her out of his home, He previously tried to file a restraining order on her, but I don't believe that the reasons were enough, and maybe it was denied. Because his home is her home, she can come and go as she wishes. They never had an abusive relationship, just a relationship built under the false pretenses of the wife.