Jump to content

35 posts in this topic

Recommended Posts

Filed: Lift. Cond. (pnd) Country: Nepal
Timeline
Posted

Divorce just sucks period.. I have been there and done that and usually the child support mandated is "more than enough" to take care of the kids.. I got custody and she paid me.. and she was over 30k in arrears and I just waived it..

That said I have never seen a woman do that.. Usually it is "I want it all!".. and your legs...;)

Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Wales
Timeline
Posted

And your .....

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

Filed: Lift. Cond. (pnd) Country: Nepal
Timeline
Posted

YES! Not wanting to offend any ladies here ( but not really caring either).. I am happy not to be marrying a US citizen even after my first wife from Spain going south.. That one left me with two kids to raise while she took off with her boyfriend, thank God as I love my kids!

2nd didn't perform anything for 15 years while I tried to stick it out and then at the end when I asked "are you sure you don't want to try and make this work?" I heard "No, I just want the money".. I gave her everything but 8K and paid her out for more than a year of alimony.. I was kind, loving, always faithful.. Helped around the house etc. And wife #3 young and beautiful lasted about 18 months out of which 6 weeks were spent in Spain, 4 weeks in Prague & Dresden looking to buy a castle, 1 month in Costa Rica.. Thankfully she told me I was too nice to use for just money and that after I had taken care of her IRS problems, legal problems, etc, she just wanted to live on a beach with her friends in San Diego and could she keep the 14K ring..

Since then I haven't had a woman from 25 -40 ( I am 53) tell me "No", the young ones say "it's just a number" and I think that means since you have money I will sleep with you and live with you long enough to collect a fat check.. I don't even kiss them anymore (because where my lips go my heart follows) unless I am connected on all levels and the only one that does it for me is Usha.. She is a Dr. who gave up her job and inheritance for charity..where do you find that in the US? She doesn't want to give up her citizenship.. she just wants me... I am incredibly lucky I persisted after she blew me off as just another horny American guy hitting on her.

An 80% success ratio for US men marrying foreign women vs. a 63% chance of divorce it seems like a no-brainer to get rid of the materialistic, money crazed women who want to be treated like princesses and for you to be their personal servant..

The United States Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS) reports that “…marriages arranged through [mail order bride] services would appear to have a lower divorce rate than the nation as a whole, fully 80 percent of these marriages having lasted over the years for which reports are available.” The USCIS also reports that “… mail-order bride and e-mail correspondence services result in 4,000 to 6,000 marriages between U.S. men and foreign brides each year.”

According to studies in Germany and Switzerland you get the same types of returns...Despite the women who will say we are misogynists, using these girls, etc.. Marry the young entrenched in materialistic thinking American girl or the young honey foreign girl that is happy you help with the dishes and actually is surprised that you want to make her life easier while she reciprocates...Hmmmmm tough choice...

I know that I am sick of the gold diggers and I gave them everything voluntarily.. I can make it back in a couple of years and it is well worth it to jettison these life sucking wenches...:)

Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Ecuador
Timeline
Posted

The OP has been given the immigration-related advice that we can give, and the input is drifting, so this thread is now closed to further comments.

VJ Moderation

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

 
Didn't find the answer you were looking for? Ask our VJ Immigration Lawyers.
Guest
This topic is now closed to further replies.
- Back to Top -

Important Disclaimer: Please read carefully the Visajourney.com Terms of Service. If you do not agree to the Terms of Service you should not access or view any page (including this page) on VisaJourney.com. Answers and comments provided on Visajourney.com Forums are general information, and are not intended to substitute for informed professional medical, psychiatric, psychological, tax, legal, investment, accounting, or other professional advice. Visajourney.com does not endorse, and expressly disclaims liability for any product, manufacturer, distributor, service or service provider mentioned or any opinion expressed in answers or comments. VisaJourney.com does not condone immigration fraud in any way, shape or manner. VisaJourney.com recommends that if any member or user knows directly of someone involved in fraudulent or illegal activity, that they report such activity directly to the Department of Homeland Security, Immigration and Customs Enforcement. You can contact ICE via email at Immigration.Reply@dhs.gov or you can telephone ICE at 1-866-347-2423. All reported threads/posts containing reference to immigration fraud or illegal activities will be removed from this board. If you feel that you have found inappropriate content, please let us know by contacting us here with a url link to that content. Thank you.
×
×
  • Create New...