help me please im very sick on this [merged threads]

[BlueSteel 3]

I went through an internal Mexican immigration check, on a bus between Mexico and Oaxaca. They do NOT mess around, quite instructive.

What they check for? I went to a cruise to Ensenada and they didn't ask me anything.

[Boiler 46,107]

Passport, visa. the guy in front had left his at the Hotel and got hauled off.

[BlueSteel 3]

hello friends :

all know that i married my wife from 2009 and we get denid and 2 times too , my wife had cancer i take her here for redoitherapie and chimo after 3 month doctor say that all what we have here in my country can't help , she is now in usa in hosptel for cancer doctor say she will die in 3 to 6 months and i only watch her on skype dieing .... very bad feeling consulat close door on my face and i really want go see her befor she die . i really dont know what i can do .

help me for god please help me i only have u here ?

Why was your visa denied? I'm a CBPO.

[couscous10 0]

i get today this from hosptel and they told me that they send same to consul

and they told me they try to make my lastof my wife wish become ture because she will die soon

im sure consul will close door on my face i know they dont belive for all this .

i really dont know what to do , if i go to consulat they will took my money and tell me no

if i say hosptel keep calling me what i can do tell me im so sick . i m here just because i know u all my familly i said to u you .

[Transborderwife 4,666]

All that you can do is try, however the consoul is not required to look at your proof. I'm sorry that this is happening

[couscous10 0]

thanks pary for her

[HFM181818 750]

this 'letter' does not provide any proof that you would leave the United States; it only offers a reason to go the US (aside from some other problems)

[Ebunoluwa 6,136]

This is very heartbreaking, I hope you will be able to visit her though I have no solution to offer !

I hope your wife will survive the cancer and she is in my prayers.

[couscous10 0]

thanks alos

[Razden 5]

So sorry about your wife's Heath I nearly cry when I read your story and my prayers to you and your wife and hope her dreams come ture and you get to be with her ....

[HFM181818 750]

While many will weep and claim to be sympathetic, none of that matters as far as the OP ever getting a tourist visa....everyone who applies for a B2 visa must convince a CO that they will LEAVE the USA after a visit of appropriate duration....that is what the laws states...there is nothing in the law about awarding a visa to someone who may (or may not) have some overwhelming need (or desire) to go to the US....because our border controls once an alien has been admitted are essentially non-existent, COs want to be 101% certain that the applicant will abide by the terms of the visa about to be granted...any doubts are resolved against the applicant, again, according to US law.

Now, if our dysfunctional Congress had legislated some real, enforceable controls over visitors (such as not granting extensions like candy, disallowing all forms of AOS, and making people inadmissible if they overstay by as little as 1 day), then perhaps more people might be given an object of trust....but trust does not come easy...and while many applicants want the COs to be sympathetic, the fact remains that any CO who issues a visa based on sympathy should have their consular commission taken away....there is just no upside to doing such a thing in today's lack of control environment.

Now, if someone could be admitted for, say, 30 days, and if that person did not depart the country, was then rendered PERMANENTLY INELIGIBLE to receive any type of visa in the future for the rest of that person's life, then perhaps more responsible people might be given at least a one shot opportunity to visit my country.....but today, that is not the current state of affairs....thus, any applicant must overcome 214b before being given a visa, no matter what the reason(s) they offer for traveling TO the US.

Edited November 18, 2015 by HFM181818

[couscous10 0]

i did posted my problem here and no one help , every one say samthing diff to others !!!!! really is very sad my wife is so so sick and me too and consulat ignor me and her . im thinking to send letter to ambassdour here for meeting .

what do you think for this .?

im thinking after this to talk to humain right and cnn and others news for telling them how is very good this !!! i will tell them about how much pain we pay only because we love each other in one country did not belive for love .

i need advice or help please god be will all

[Adil & Jeanne 296]

sent you a personal message

[Adil & Jeanne 296]

this man needs the help of this commuunity

he and his wife were living in morocco for over 2 years after visa was denied

she has returned to the US for treatment for cancer and the doctors have sent him a letter to come to her as she is dying

he has a decent job and owns a house in Morocco with no intention now to stay in US as his wife will be gone

what can he do to get to her before she passes away

any help to Abdou will be greatly appreciated

[Happytobe 164]

The only thing I can think of is to contact her congressmen/senators.... They've seemed to have tried everything else... I wish you the best of luck, sir.