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For the DS-160, my boyfriend is "friend" or "other"?

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Filed: Other Country: Canada
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Trolling? Are you joking?

That's the only response you have to help me?

The only response is saying that I troll or that someone who is at home and has not job is not allowed to travel in US with her fiancé?

Thank you...

When you're from a high fraud country this is often reality.

Filed: Country: Vietnam (no flag)
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I'll go to the interview with all the press articles. The US Embassy is not required to look at the press articles. They want me to prove that I want to go to USA for real reasons and that I'll then go back to France. All the articles show that we have a real love story. That's not a fake marriage to help me to immigrate. That's more obvious that for someone who would have a normal job in France. It's not obvious to third parties looking at this. It's only obvious to you because you know your intention. It's not obvious to others. If it was obvious, we would not be having this discussion where people are telling you that you need more. People who have played the immigration game for years. It's not obvious to me.

They want me to prove that I have money for that? It's not about proving you have the money for that. It's not just that. I have all the elements for that: a letter of my fiancé saying that he is paying all, the fee of the wedding agency which organises the wedding, all the accounts of my fiancé, etc. So what. Fiance wouldn't lie for you? Making plans does not equate to you overcoming your shortcoming - no job and and no money. The visa is about you and not what your fiance can afford.

I am trying to help you.

You are very insistent that you qualify for a visitor visa without a job or money. You think that a rich fiance is a reason to grant you a visa. We with lots of immigration experience are telling you it's not. You need to focus on your ties; not your fiance's ties.

Apply and hope for the best.

Good luck.

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Aaron: I'll never need to work (thanks to my fiancé), and I'll always be at home with him. Because of that, I'll never be allowed to visit USA?

And no we don't want to marry in France. And no, we don't want to marry in Morocco (very dangerous country for a mix couple).

We want Las Vegas. Las Vegas or nothing. My fiancé already organized all, and the only thing I know is that that's a really amazing magical wedding... I also know that journalists will be there to capture the moment...

Filed: Other Country: Canada
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Journalists don't get you a visa. Vegas or nothing? I suppose getting married isn't that important to you then. This sounds like an instance when the wedding is more important than the marriage.

As well you say in your letter that your fiancé verages 3000 euros per month, that's not that much money. It's maybe an average salary in the USA for a two person household

Edited by Transborderwife
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Here, nobody helps me, everybody judges my life...

I do whatl I want, ok? If I WANT to get married in Las Vegas, nobody will break my dream...

Wow there's a stamp your foot tantrum!

Anyway who am I to judge, people on this site have been more than helpful

We all have dreams, enjoy yours

DJ

Filed: Country: Vietnam (no flag)
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Aaron: I'll never need to work (thanks to my fiancé), and I'll always be at home with him. Because of that, I'll never be allowed to visit USA? No. A visa denial would not be based on you never needing to work and always being at home. A visa denial would be based on you not showing strong ties to overcome the presumption that all visa applicants intend to immigrate. You are still focus on the wrong things even after people have advised you otherwise.

And no we don't want to marry in France. And no, we don't want to marry in Morocco (very dangerous country for a mix couple).

We want Las Vegas. Las Vegas or nothing. My fiancé already organized all, and the only thing I know is that that's a really amazing magical wedding... I also know that journalists will be there to capture the moment... If it's LV or nothing, then there are two outcomes. Don't be pissed when you fail to address the issues that people have pointed out to you and the outcome is nothing. Your choice. You are not entitled to a visitor visa. No one is entitled to a visitor visa.

Here, nobody helps me, everybody judges my life... Everyone is trying to help you. I am trying to help you. I am not nobody. No one is judging you. You are coming off as very arrogant and entitled. It seems that you feel you have a right to a visitor visa. You have been given good advice and good answers. It seems that you don't like those answers and getting angry about it.

I do whatl I want, ok? If I WANT to get married in Las Vegas, nobody will break my dream... No one is stopping you from doing what you want. However, there are rules and laws. The US has a right to regulate its border. You can not do what you WANT if don't satisfy what the US government wants. Sometimes we have to do what others want before we can get what we want. It's unreasonable to demand something you want when you refuse to address what the gatekeeper wants.

When you want to visit another person's home, you can not demand to enter. You ask for permission. Permission can be granted or denied by the homeowner. You are not entitled to enter. You politely ask for permission and follow the rules.

Edited by aaron2020
Filed: Country: Vietnam (no flag)
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So you already have a wedding organiser who's made all the bookings for your wedding before you even know if you'll be allowed to enter the country where you want to have it?

The US embassies specifically advice applicants not to make bookings before they have a visa in hand.

All it boils down to is YOU convincing a consular officer that YOU won't use a tourist visa to stay illegally in the States. It's down to one persons decision if the believe you. You might get one who approves you without question. You might get one who's annoyed that you've already been all over the newspapers and tv telling the world that you're going to the US before bothering to ask the US if that's ok.

Literally all you can do is fill the form out truthfully, go to the interview and answer their questions truthfully. They are not required to look at any letters or documents you bring along although it would be a good idea to take them in case they are asked for. There is not any single document or letter you could have that can PROVE to the embassy officer that you will return to France. Most of the decision is made based on the information on the application form and finalised by how the embassy officer feels during your interview.

Please don't take offence but you are coming across on this forum as though you feel you are entitled to your dream wedding in the US and that you feel that your fiances fame and wealth should grant you special privileges. I may be wrong but that is how your posts come across in my opinion, DO NOT take that kind of attitude with you to your interview, it will not help you get to Vegas.

Dear OP,

Unfortunately, I agree with this post.

You need to check your attitude.

Best of luck

 
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