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  1. 1. How do you feel about talking about your money in public?

    • Money is something one never talks about except with family and close friends--it's a taboo subject
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    • money is best described euphemistically (i.e. "I am comfortable") but no shame in talking about it politely
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    • On a special occasion ("I just got a raise of $x")
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    • I'm proud of how much money I've earned over my lifetime and not ashamed to talk about it
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    • I'm so broke that I don't care how many people know anymore
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I've noticed a lot of people talking about their money, listing their salaries, mentioning how hard they've worked to make X, and other specific mentions of their income or assets.

My parents always said, "the more money you have the less you should talk about it." But that is a Jewish attitude, AFAIK.

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I've noticed a lot of people talking about their money, listing their salaries, mentioning how hard they've worked to make X, and other specific mentions of their income or assets.

My parents always said, "the more money you have the less you should talk about it." But that is a Jewish attitude, AFAIK.

maybe it's just a jewish attitude then :P

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yea no numbers...

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Why are there so many mentions of numbers on VJ lately? Seems weird.

And isn't it considered at all tacky to insinuate that you make more than a previously stated number, or to complain about having your taxes, or anything like that?

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I voted it's best discussed euphemistically. I was always taught that any mention of numbers is a no no.

No numbers for me either, that's TMI. I have also noticed people being very specific with numbers here lately and how much $ they make and that was a surprise for me. For me is not taboo but it's not public info either.

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The ones ive notice are some that state the numbers in getting a answer for the sponsoring part they tell all looking for some kind of a reply i think.

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Oh, another thing I've seen is "money is not a problem for me" when people talk about the cost of some of the aspects of this process.Even if money is not a problem for you, just stating that it isn't seems a bit uncouth. Why not say "I think I will be able to afford it" or something a little less....abrasively boasting? :shrug:

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well probly a range is not that bad for like they said, sponsorship.. i make between 15k-25k a year.. or something

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tu eres todo lo que me equilibra,

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I actually think that discussing money and stuff over a forum with strangers is probably better than discussing it with people you actually know, but that's just me. I voted for "I'm broke" because that's the case for me, and I really don't care who knows LOL!

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My father taught me that it's nobody else's business how much money you make. He would never even let me know how much he was making, imagine talking about it with friends or worse, strange people.

I thought it was an american thing letting people know how much money you make, since everybody seems to discuss it so openly.



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My father taught me that it's nobody else's business how much money you make. He would never even let me know how much he was making, imagine talking about it with friends or worse, strange people.

I thought it was an american thing letting people know how much money you make, since everybody seems to discuss it so openly.

That's just how my dad was too.

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One of the first questions an american will ask is what do you do? I think we mean it in a fairly innoculous way- a sincere interest in what people do for a living, but much of the world sees it as vulgar and rude. I think many here lately are using speific money issues here to promote themselves. There are people here with money who have no need to talk about it.

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:lol: Im the other broke one, or today it feels so much like that and only 5 days after payday

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YOU CANT CHANGE THE PAST BUT YOU CAN RUIN THE PRESENT BY WORRYING OVER THE FUTURE

TRIP.... OVER LOVE, AND YOU CAN GET UP

FALL.... IN LOVE, AND YOU FALL FOREVER

I DO HAVE THE RIGHT TO REMAIN SILENT, JUST NOT THE ABILITY

LIKE THE MEASLES, LOVE IS MOST DANGEROUS WHEN IT COMES LATER IN LIFE

LIFE IS NOT THE WAY ITS SUPPOSED TO BE, ITS THE WAY IT IS

I MAY NOT BE WHERE I WANT TO BE BUT IM SURE NOT WHERE I WAS

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:lol: Im the other broke one, or today it feels so much like that and only 5 days after payday

It looks like you, I mean 'we', have some more company now. :P

I still think money/salaries are something that should be kept between family and close friends though.

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