K1; Will my waiver be accepted? :( long posting..i need help..

[Pierisangelika 0]

This is my little story..

I met my fiance in an online game, I was stuck in a stressful, unhealthy marriage and I was with a child. He was there initially as an only friend I trusted, and we became very close he became the one who I'd turn to when I had problems. He saved me when I was depressed and suicidal..

The amazing thing we shared was that during those times he was my counsellor,and I was his.. We were supporting each other through life without realizing it.. I decided to stand up to my ex husband and asked him for divorce. It didn't go down smooth but I ran to my home country and everything was finalized.. Kind of.

Oliver came over to Korea to finally meet me.. We met in December 2014 (6months after we decided that we were exclusive) it was amazing.. We cried I never loved anyone before and it's amazing when you know you love someone to death. I felt alive.. We immediately clicked. He stayed for two months and that's when we got engaged.. We bought rings and we were waiting for the final divorce certificate to marry in Korea..

Then.. My ex's lawyer slowed down my divorce process and I received the certificate after he left.. We were so devastated we couldn't get married...

We spent a lot during the 2months and he couldn't come back to get marry me, he had to continue with his job, education, etc..

He resorted to filing k1 and k2 visa for me and for my son in May 2015. Since then 6months have passed smoothly.. We filed our packet properly he paid for my petition and interview and I have my interview dates.. interview date is next week nov-05-2018.

I have one problem though..

He knew this and we are both concerned.. At this very moment on skype he's telling me that he loves me and he knows my interview will go fine and how he will take care of any waiver.. He'd do anything to take me home..

But I know that I will need a waiver.. And I am not even sure it will be approved..

My background)

My mom and dad are divorced..dad ran to usa with some professional visa and mother (who is not suitable to be called a mother) decided to leave me with my father when I was 16. I was told we were taking a vacation to stay at my gran's..

That's where the nightmare began.. She arranged a school and left...just like how she left me when I was 4..

I was always told by mother and my father that they have filed for Greenland and it will take years and all I had to do was studying in school and going to college..

College.. I graduated high school with honors..all my friends were going to Harvard, MIT, Swarthmore, etc,.. I only found out during a college tour that I am not even an international student and my passport had a visa that is b1/b2.. A tourist visa.

I was hopeless.. I didn't apply for a four years.. I asked my father and relatives what have they done, they would still lie to me and told me that it is still in the system and that I even have my tax ID.. I didn't know anything about government at the moment.. I enrolled in high school not knowing a single English word and it was hard to advance to ap classes and graduate.. I didn't have the capability to research the laws of government..

I trusted my family and I was burnt.

I stayed in usa since 2001 (16years old) and left on 2007 April. I was 22.

I was not deported and I left on my own will when I had the means to leave the country.. In doing so desperately, I got into a relationship without love.. I am so ashamed by it.. I just wanted to leave, wanted to forget everyone and I wanted to cut contacts with my family.. I hated them deeply. I wanted to go to college.. I wanted to be successful.. I wanted to stay with my ex be but I was so ashamed that I was illegal.

So I left..

I know I stayed in US for 4 years (taking away the two years when was a minor) and I know I definitely got 10years bar, although it was not specified in the passport.

I never attempted to enter us for the past 8years..

I never wanted anything to do with US..

It was worrisome once I found out my friend I'm falling for is from the US..

I was devastated once I fell in love and found out there maybe a chance I may not be with my only love because of the past I could not control.

Why couldn't I stand up to my parents?

Why is this happening to me..

I'm so stressed..

I feel like I will not be able to answer with calm emotions when the consular asks a lot of questions.

I am afraid I will be straight away rejected or my waiver rejected..

Please help.. Does my case (4years overstay) sound so horrible the US government may not allow me to live with my husband? :'(

We rather die than to stay apart..

The only thing that keeps us alive was each other..

He came over again earlier this month for two weeks and that was because I miscalculated the interview date..

He was going to support me at the interview.. Now I know I'm going alone.. I'm all scared and anxious.

I'm helpless...

Can anyone share their similar experiences.. Or anything..

Thank you for even reading my post..

[milimelo 4,535]

2 more years and you'll be over the 10 yr ban. That may be the time to immigrate unless your husband can do the I-212 and/or I-601 waiver. You'll hear about them at your interview if you qualify.

[Pierisangelika 0]

2 more years and you'll be over the 10 yr ban. That may be the time to immigrate unless your husband can do the I-212 and/or I-601 waiver. You'll hear about them at your interview if you qualify.

Thank you for your kind reply, do you think I will need i212? Because I wasn't ordered to leave.. Or had any notifications whatsoever..

I read the forms but it only confuses me more :'(

2 more years and you'll be over the 10 yr ban. That may be the time to immigrate unless your husband can do the I-212 and/or I-601 waiver. You'll hear about them at your interview if you qualify.

Thank you for your kind reply, do you think I will need i212? Because I wasn't ordered to leave.. Or had any notifications whatsoever..

I read the forms but it only confuses me more :'(

[NigeriaorBust 4,087]

There is another site that deals more with people needing waivers immigrate2us.net they have samples and more users that have issues with their immigration. We can help with the normal stuff but not a lot of people here are needing waivers.