IR1 Visa category questions and dilemma

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HAPPY NEW YEAR to all. Hope each and everyone will have a joyful holiday celebration. I am making a follow up question regarding my status with my

my wife. I am considering all the possible scenarios and I want to ask the following questions:

1.) My wife did not pursue the divorce papers. We are 3 months separated and 1 month no communication from her. As of now I plan to stay here in

Virginia for 1 more year and eventually transfer to California to have a new life. Can anyone tell me what's the best way to deal with my separation

before I transfer?

2.) If she will try to ignore me nor totally stop communicating with me, what will be the impact on our divorce in the future. My concern is this THAT SHE

WILL TRY TO IGNORE ME UNTIL THE TIME IF I PURSUE THE DIVORCE PAPERS TO GIVE ME HARD TIME. Is there a law that states if the two

spouses are not living together for 10 years then that will be a basis for automatic divorce?

As of now, my mind has made up that I need to focus on with my life, to go on and start all over again. I made a mistake in marrying her and a BIG LESSON

for me to learn in the future. All I want is before I move on somewhere else, I need have peace of mind. Any suggestions will greatly be appreciated.

[nane1104 146]

I'm not an expert but if you file for divorce, she will be served with the papers and there is only so much she can do to slow down the process.

Maybe she is just waiting for you to take action to save herself some money.

I'd consult with a divorce lawyer and get the ball rolling. Chances are, she will just sign and you both can move on with your lives.