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So I have been lurking around different forums and am wondering about something in my case.

I didn't think about it much before since I am extremely in love with my fiance but we really haven't known each other that long in comparison to the traditional standards of timelines people follow for marriage.

We met online exactly a year ago this day and then met in person this June where he stayed in the US with me for almost 2 months.

This is what I explained in my I-129f application. I didn't attach a separate sheet explaining how we met because it fit in the lines that were given to me on the form itself.

Now looking back I am worried that this might be a red flag?

We are also pretty young... I am 21 and he is 18.

I have been telling myself it should be okay since London is a low-fraud country and other then that my petition is well put together and had a lot of evidence.

What do you guys think? Am I just being paranoid, or do you think it's possible they may deny my I-129f petition based on this?

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K-1 Visa~
9/28/2015 - I-129f Packet Mailed to Texas Lockbox
10/1/2015 - NOA 1 Email - I-129f sent to California Service Center
10/8/2015 - NOA 1 Hard Copy
10/27/2015 - NOA 2
11/21/2015 - Packet 3 Received
1/08/2916 - Medical! Lots of jabs >.>
2/23/2016 - APPROVED!
6/20/2016 - POE
7/29/2016 - Married ❤️

~*Approval 146 Days from NOA1*~


AOS ~
9/9/2016 - AOS/AP/EAD packet mailed to Chicago Lockbox
9/11/2016 - Delivered to Chicago Lockbox
9/20/2016 - Received Text/Email NOA1
9/23/2016 - Hard Copy NOA1s
10/12/2016 - Biometrics Appointment
11/04/2016 - AP Status "Approved" EAD "Date of Birth Updated"
11/18/2016 - Received EAD/AP Combo Card!
12/23/2016 - Received Green Card

~*Green Card 95 Days from NOA1*~

 

ROC~

10/12/2018 - Mailed ROC Packet

11/8/2018 - NOA-1 

7/5/2019 - Biometrics

~*STILL WAITING 607+ Days since NOA*~

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There's no minimum duration of relationship requirement - only that you've actually met two years prior to filing the I-129f.

It's no big deal, although you are quite young. :) I imagine you'll have a harder time with your parents than you will immigration. Good luck.

* I-130/CR-1 visa by Direct Consular Filing in London
3rd May 2013 - Married in London

7th May 2013 - I-130 filed
4th June 2013 - NOA2 (approved)
16th July 2013 - Interview (approved)
30th July 2013 - POE San Francisco
29th August 2013 - 2 year green card arrived

 

* How? Read my DCF London I-130 for CR1/IR1 Spouse Guide

* Removal of Conditions (RoC) via California Service Centre
1st May 2015 - 90 day RoC window opened
6th May 2015 - I-751 filed (delivered 8th May, cheque cashed 18th May)
7th August 2015 - Approved / GC production

27th August 2015 - 10 year green card arrived

* Naturalisation (Citizenship) via Phoenix Lockbox

* San Francisco Field Office:
1st May 2016 - N-400 window opened
20th August 2016 - N-400 filed

26th August 2016 - NOA1
13th September 2016 - Biometrics

12th January 2017 - Biometrics (again)
30th May 2017 - Interview (approved)
7th June 2017 - Oath

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There's no minimum duration of relationship requirement - only that you've actually met two years prior to filing the I-129f.

It's no big deal, although you are quite young. :) I imagine you'll have a harder time with your parents than you will immigration. Good luck.

There's no minimum duration of relationship requirement - only that you've actually met two years prior to filing the I-129f.

It's no big deal, although you are quite young. :) I imagine you'll have a harder time with your parents than you will immigration. Good luck.

Haha thank you! I feel a bit better now. I know there is no actual written requirement but I was worried they may find it suspicious or something.

Thankfully my parents are very supportive in the process! When I told them I wanted to get married and have my fiancé move over hear my mom just told my dad "I told you so!" He fits in very well here :)

Actually compared to many on here that is a long courtship.

Really? I guess I just had stumbled upon people who had known each other for a long time then!

~*INTENT IS DETERMINED AT POE*~

 

Forever wishing for an eye-roll reaction.

 

 

K-1 Visa~
9/28/2015 - I-129f Packet Mailed to Texas Lockbox
10/1/2015 - NOA 1 Email - I-129f sent to California Service Center
10/8/2015 - NOA 1 Hard Copy
10/27/2015 - NOA 2
11/21/2015 - Packet 3 Received
1/08/2916 - Medical! Lots of jabs >.>
2/23/2016 - APPROVED!
6/20/2016 - POE
7/29/2016 - Married ❤️

~*Approval 146 Days from NOA1*~


AOS ~
9/9/2016 - AOS/AP/EAD packet mailed to Chicago Lockbox
9/11/2016 - Delivered to Chicago Lockbox
9/20/2016 - Received Text/Email NOA1
9/23/2016 - Hard Copy NOA1s
10/12/2016 - Biometrics Appointment
11/04/2016 - AP Status "Approved" EAD "Date of Birth Updated"
11/18/2016 - Received EAD/AP Combo Card!
12/23/2016 - Received Green Card

~*Green Card 95 Days from NOA1*~

 

ROC~

10/12/2018 - Mailed ROC Packet

11/8/2018 - NOA-1 

7/5/2019 - Biometrics

~*STILL WAITING 607+ Days since NOA*~

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Mexico
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I don't think you need to be concerned, as long as you have enough evidence :) Good luck to you guys!

11/06: Husband EWI from Mexico
11/08: Started dating

11/11: Husband got deported
1/11/14: Got married
3/13/14-11/2/14:
I-130
1/26/15-3/17/15: NVC

5/28/15: INTERVIEW - denied

6/8/15: I-601/I-212 waivers received

11/17/15: I-601/I-212 waivers APPROVED

12/11/15: HUBBY HOME!! :dance:

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I've the same question comes up in my mind as well. I talked to my fiance even before we started the K1 process. And he positively told me that it was true that we haven't known each other for a very long time. But we spent 3-4 months seriously living together like actual couples did. We see each other everyday. We spend time watching favorite team on the TV every night. Compare to many other cases out there, even they dated online for years but they met their fiance in person only 1-2 times before getting married. Those can pass all the visa process then why not us?

It's not so right if someone trying to judge you from how long you have known your fiance. I think it's more important on how much you get through together. In my case it'll be only 10 months by the time I get to the interview. But I'm not going to worry about this because our relationship is so real. And we feel so right to each other then there is not reason to wait for. Once love happens it just happens.

My K1 visa journey △ ( My process took 90 days until the interview )

14 August 2015 : Mailed I-129F through USPS express service

02 September 2015 : Received NOA1 hard copy by mail.

05 October 2015 : Case number was assigned.

20 October 2015 : Packet 3 arrived in my hand.

03 November 2015 : Got Packet 4 e-mail from Bangkok embassy about the interview date.

18 November 2015 : Visa interview and it was approved!

20 November 2015 : Got documents and a passport with K1 Visa back in my hands

 

My AOS Journey △ 

11 July 2016 : Sent AOS+AP+EAD package

12 July 2016 : NOA1 for AP and EAD  / 14 July 2016 : NOA1 for AOS

26 July 2016 : Got Biometric letter

09 Aug 2016 : Biometric appointment

21 Sep 2016 : EAD New card is being produced

07 Oct 2016 : AOS case was approved. Without interview!!

13 Oct 2016 : card was mailed to me

 

My I-751 - Removing conditions Journey

20 Sep 2018 : Sent package to USCIS in Arizona

25 Oct 2018 : Got paper NOA , Notice date 20 October 2018

21 June 2019 : Received Biometric appointment

25 June 2019 : Biometric

6 August 2019 : Case was approved!

 

My I-751 - Removing conditions Journey

1 DEC 2019 : Applied online

7 DEC 2019 : Biometric appointment letter

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Ecuador
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The chief issue is not with USCIS, where the criterion is having met once in the last two years before filing, but at the consular stage, where the bona fide nature of the relationship is evaluated. "Face time" carries a lot of weight. Yours is pretty good. London is apparently not tough on this aspect.

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

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Filed: Other Country: China
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There's no minimum duration of relationship requirement - only that you've actually met two years prior to filing the I-129f.

The above statement is incorrect. Probably just a mistake in wording but the requirement is not that you actually met two years prior to filing. The requirement is that you've been together in person at some point in time WITHIN the two years prior to filing. The keyword is WITHIN. Not an issue in this case. I'm correcting the error for any reader who might be misled by your wording.

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To the OP, I doubt this will be an issue. Honestly I've been with my OH a year this month too and we'll be filing in December. That will also be the 3rd time that I'll have been there and we'll have spent a total of 11 weeks out of that year together. That's more than some that get granted visas so I wouldn't worry about it. Some people can only get a few weeks off work a year and they also wait until they have been doing the LDR thing years before deciding they want to marry. Where as some people decide they would rather be married sooner rather than later. As long as you love each other, have a solid relationship and have seen each other within the 2 year requirement and meet the other requirements, there is no reason your petition wouldn't be accepted.

K-1 Jan 2016 Applicant timeline.

I-129f sent to lock box 7th January 2016.
Delivered 11th January 2016.
NOA1 sent to CSC January 14th 2016.
NOA1 Hard copy January 21st 2016.
RFE email 10th March 2016.
RFE hard copy - 21th March 2016.
RFE Evidence sent- 4th April 2016.
RFE Received by USCIS- 6th April 2016.
NOA2 Received by email dated 18th April 2016.
NOA2 hard copy - April 21st 2016
NVC Recieved- May 9th 2016.
NVC number received- May 9th 2016.
DS-160 filled out - 9th May 2016.
Medical - May 18th 2016
CEAC in Transit - 11th May 2016.
CEAC update embassy received medical- may 24th 2016
Interview- June 15th 2016. - approved!!
POE- July 13th 2016 -Chicago

Married July 18th 2016. (L)

AOS

Package sent- August 18th 2016

Arrived at Chicago Lockbox- August 20th 2016.

NOA 1 - August 25th 2016 (text received 27th).

AP NOA1- 22nd August 2016 (text received 27th).

EAD NOA1- 22nd August 2016 (email received 27th).

NOA1 Hard copies received- September 1st 2016.

Bio-metrics- 20th September 2016.

Request Initial Information for I-485 - October 6th 2016.

RFIE- Affidavit Support information October 11th 2016.

RFIE- Response sent Overnight USPS. October 17th 2016.

RFIE- Delivered October 18th 2016.

RFIE- Received by USCIS October 20th 2016.

EAD- Card Being produced November 17th 2016.

AP- Approved November 17th 2016.

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: England
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Not a concern with London really and longer than a lot of other filers. Also you spent 2 months together in person, I've seen K1's where the couple have only spent a week together.

Good luck! :)

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Israel
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me and my fiance filed I-129F just a bit over a year after meeting online (and we have met once in real for 2 weeks)

i was 18 and he was 23.

and now im in the US, so im sure your chances are fine.

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K-1 Visa (CSC) AOS (MSC)

26.1.2014 - Started dating ||||||||| 15.9.2015 - Applied for SSN

17.1.2015 - Met for the first time | 21.9.2015 - Received SSN

26.1.2015 - Got engaged ||| 16.10.2015 - Got Married

6.2.2015 - I-129F sent |||||||||| 11.11.2015 - AOS/EAD/AP sent

11.2.2015 - NOA1 |||||| 24.11.2015 - NOA1

26.2.2015 - NOA2 |||||| 2.12.2015 - Biometrics letter received

17.3.2015 - Case sent to Jerusalem consulate|||8.12.2015 - Biometrics

13.4.2015 - Packet 3 |||||||||| 11.12.2015 - Online RFE notice

28.6.2015 - Medical x

8.7.2015 - Interview - Approved! :luv: |||||||||||| x

31.7.2015 - Visa in hand ||||||| x

31.8.2015 - POE LAX x

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Egypt
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So I have been lurking around different forums and am wondering about something in my case.

I didn't think about it much before since I am extremely in love with my fiance but we really haven't known each other that long in comparison to the traditional standards of timelines people follow for marriage.

We met online exactly a year ago this day and then met in person this June where he stayed in the US with me for almost 2 months.

This is what I explained in my I-129f application. I didn't attach a separate sheet explaining how we met because it fit in the lines that were given to me on the form itself.

Now looking back I am worried that this might be a red flag?

We are also pretty young... I am 21 and he is 18.

I have been telling myself it should be okay since London is a low-fraud country and other then that my petition is well put together and had a lot of evidence.

What do you guys think? Am I just being paranoid, or do you think it's possible they may deny my I-129f petition based on this?

One year since you first knew each other and 2 months spent together is GREAT. I have a friend who knew her fiancé' only 6 months, went to his country and spent one week, then filed for K1 and had no problem at all.

IR-1/CR-1 Visa

I-130 Sent : 2014-09-06

I-130 NOA1 : 2014-09-08 I-130

I-130 Appr5oved : 2015-02-22

NVC Received : 2015-03-09

Received DS-261 / AOS Bill : 2015-03-20

Pay AOS Bill : 2015-03-28

Send AOS Package : 2015-04-28

Submit DS-261 : 2015-04-25

Receive IV Bill : 2015-04-14

Pay IV Bill : 2015-04-22

Send IV Package : 2015-04-28

Scanned date: 2015-04-28

Check list : 2015-06-07

Check list scanned: 2015-06-10

Sent to Supervisor 49 days after scanned: 2015-07-28

Case Complete 7 days after it went to Supervisor: 2015-08-05

Interview Appointment Letter from NVC: 2015-13-10

Case shows as READY 2015-10-19

Medical done: 2015-16-11

Interview Date: 2015-11-18

APPROVED....GOD IS GREAT!!!!! PRAISE THE LORD GOD ALMIGHTY! :goofy:

Case changed from "Ready" to "AP" on 19th, then to "Issued" on 22nd

Visa was ready for pick up November 3rd in the afternoon

VISA IN HAND! THANK YOU GOD!

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I love all of you haha thank you so much I feel so much better now!

~*INTENT IS DETERMINED AT POE*~

 

Forever wishing for an eye-roll reaction.

 

 

K-1 Visa~
9/28/2015 - I-129f Packet Mailed to Texas Lockbox
10/1/2015 - NOA 1 Email - I-129f sent to California Service Center
10/8/2015 - NOA 1 Hard Copy
10/27/2015 - NOA 2
11/21/2015 - Packet 3 Received
1/08/2916 - Medical! Lots of jabs >.>
2/23/2016 - APPROVED!
6/20/2016 - POE
7/29/2016 - Married ❤️

~*Approval 146 Days from NOA1*~


AOS ~
9/9/2016 - AOS/AP/EAD packet mailed to Chicago Lockbox
9/11/2016 - Delivered to Chicago Lockbox
9/20/2016 - Received Text/Email NOA1
9/23/2016 - Hard Copy NOA1s
10/12/2016 - Biometrics Appointment
11/04/2016 - AP Status "Approved" EAD "Date of Birth Updated"
11/18/2016 - Received EAD/AP Combo Card!
12/23/2016 - Received Green Card

~*Green Card 95 Days from NOA1*~

 

ROC~

10/12/2018 - Mailed ROC Packet

11/8/2018 - NOA-1 

7/5/2019 - Biometrics

~*STILL WAITING 607+ Days since NOA*~

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Russia
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I would not worry. This is more than most of the people that get approved. Some see each other for 1 weeks and get married. Don't worry. You are fine. 2 months together is more than enough. Without other red flags.

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Me and my husband were 19 and 20 and had known each other 15 months before filing, I spent 2 months also in the US the summer before we applied, we had no problems at all through the k1 or AOS process and got my green card without an interview :) so no need to worry!!

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