Fiancee visa... wants to go home

[JoeMama 0]

Talk about "assumptions"!

[CountryBoy 0]

Well maybe one day all of us can achieve the loving relationship you have with your partner. Where are your statistics that too many people see the fiance process as a means for dating? Relationships fail even between two people from the same country. Is this your first relationship? Probably not. Why did your others fail? Did you want to leave? Im sure if you gave this forum a few sentences of your past relationships we'd have your ex's accused and hung based on your biased post. You have no clue whether or not they were in love! You assume.

This thread just goes on and on for you doesn't it? It seems that noone can post to it without you adding your two cents. Considering your judgemental attitude and inability to look at the situation from both sides without knowing more about the specifics of it I am going to ASSUME that you have much experience with FAILED RELATIONSHIPS and are currently working on your next one.

[JoeMama 0]

Well maybe one day all of us can achieve the loving relationship you have with your partner. Where are your statistics that too many people see the fiance process as a means for dating? Relationships fail even between two people from the same country. Is this your first relationship? Probably not. Why did your others fail? Did you want to leave? Im sure if you gave this forum a few sentences of your past relationships we'd have your ex's accused and hung based on your biased post. You have no clue whether or not they were in love! You assume.

This thread just goes on and on for you doesn't it? It seems that noone can post to it without you adding your two cents. Considering your judgemental attitude and inability to look at the situation from both sides without knowing more about the specifics of it I am going to ASSUME that you have much experience with FAILED RELATIONSHIPS and are currently working on your next one.

Amen brother!

[JenT 0]

Well maybe one day all of us can achieve the loving relationship you have with your partner. Where are your statistics that too many people see the fiance process as a means for dating? Relationships fail even between two people from the same country. Is this your first relationship? Probably not. Why did your others fail? Did you want to leave? Im sure if you gave this forum a few sentences of your past relationships we'd have your ex's accused and hung based on your biased post. You have no clue whether or not they were in love! You assume.

This thread just goes on and on for you doesn't it? It seems that noone can post to it without you adding your two cents. Considering your judgemental attitude and inability to look at the situation from both sides without knowing more about the specifics of it I am going to ASSUME that you have much experience with FAILED RELATIONSHIPS and are currently working on your next one.

Amen brother!

[DA BOMB 1]

Well maybe one day all of us can achieve the loving relationship you have with your partner. Where are your statistics that too many people see the fiance process as a means for dating? Relationships fail even between two people from the same country. Is this your first relationship? Probably not. Why did your others fail? Did you want to leave? Im sure if you gave this forum a few sentences of your past relationships we'd have your ex's accused and hung based on your biased post. You have no clue whether or not they were in love! You assume.

This thread just goes on and on for you doesn't it? It seems that noone can post to it without you adding your two cents. Considering your judgemental attitude and inability to look at the situation from both sides without knowing more about the specifics of it I am going to ASSUME that you have much experience with FAILED RELATIONSHIPS and are currently working on your next one.

Until the OP confirms that the beneficiary is NOT being held in America against her will I can only go by whats written. You say look at the situation from both sides but how can you? Do you know the USC in this OP? As far as being judgemental - I was told I would crucify the benificiary if the USC bought her a ticket home which is absurd considering Im the one that gets sweet comments such as yours for going against the grain in a thread. This is a forum..you post something, I put my two cents in. You post something directed toward me I'll definately respond. Seems like you're the one who wants me here. xxx

[We_Destiny 1]

Well maybe one day all of us can achieve the loving relationship you have with your partner. Where are your statistics that too many people see the fiance process as a means for dating? Relationships fail even between two people from the same country. Is this your first relationship? Probably not. Why did your others fail? Did you want to leave? Im sure if you gave this forum a few sentences of your past relationships we'd have your ex's accused and hung based on your biased post. You have no clue whether or not they were in love! You assume.

This thread just goes on and on for you doesn't it? It seems that noone can post to it without you adding your two cents. Considering your judgemental attitude and inability to look at the situation from both sides without knowing more about the specifics of it I am going to ASSUME that you have much experience with FAILED RELATIONSHIPS and are currently working on your next one.

I CONCOUR, Mrs Billy Silly seems to be an over opinionated brat .

IMO her obviously costumed picture appears to be a true representaion of her appititude to lifes situations ( a cartoon character performing in a one woman (girl) slap-stick comedy of a clown ), compulsively statng her overly judgemental views , in every thread like a spammer. She's full of opinions, and when she blindly attempts to answer questions, she usually guesses the wrong answer.

Magna Cum Laude you are not , There are probally millions of post that you can study from to gain knowledge about immigration subject matter, the answers are in front of your face like multiple test questions ( with a cheat sheet) , and you always seem to pick (guess) the wrong answer. Like Country Boy said " you have much experience with FAILED RELATIONSHIPS and are currently working on your next one" . For your sake I hope you are not applying your vast pool of immigration wisdom to your own petition. If you are, your in for long ride and alot of lonely months . if you have any scence, and are not applying and utilizing your immigration knowledge to your case, then you are a sabateur .

Listen lil Missy, if you don't learn how to keep quite and play nice, your going to get a time-out, and a letter will be sent home to your parents .

True widom comes from knowing when to speak and knowing when to keep quite.

[DA BOMB 1]

Well maybe one day all of us can achieve the loving relationship you have with your partner. Where are your statistics that too many people see the fiance process as a means for dating? Relationships fail even between two people from the same country. Is this your first relationship? Probably not. Why did your others fail? Did you want to leave? Im sure if you gave this forum a few sentences of your past relationships we'd have your ex's accused and hung based on your biased post. You have no clue whether or not they were in love! You assume.

This thread just goes on and on for you doesn't it? It seems that noone can post to it without you adding your two cents. Considering your judgemental attitude and inability to look at the situation from both sides without knowing more about the specifics of it I am going to ASSUME that you have much experience with FAILED RELATIONSHIPS and are currently working on your next one.

I CONCOUR, Mrs Billy Silly seems to be an over opinionated brat .

IMO her obviously costumed picture appears to be a true representaion of her appititude to lifes situations ( a cartoon character performing in a one woman (girl) slap-stick comedy of a clown ), compulsively statng her overly judgemental views , in every thread like a spammer. She's full of opinions, and when she blindly attempts to answer questions, she usually guesses the wrong answer.

Magna Cum Laude you are not , There are probally millions of post that you can study from to gain knowledge about immigration subject matter, the answers are in front of your face like multiple test questions ( with a cheat sheet) , and you always seem to pick (guess) the wrong answer. Like Country Boy said " you have much experience with FAILED RELATIONSHIPS and are currently working on your next one" . For your sake I hope you are not applying your vast pool of immigration wisdom to your own petition. If you are, your in for long ride and alot of lonely months . if you have any scence, and are not applying and utilizing your immigration knowledge to your case, then you are a sabateur .

Listen lil Missy, if you don't learn how to keep quite and play nice, your going to get a time-out, and a letter will be sent home to your parents .

True widom comes from knowing when to speak and knowing when to keep quite.

Its QUIET...not quite. Sense...not scence. Sticks and stones? You have to revert to childish behavior just because you dont like what you read? Not to mention - attempting to mask your immaturity with bad grammar makes you appear foolish. My need to be accepted does not outweigh my honest OPINION on a subject. I dont have a burning desire to fit in with a click of posters who find it necessary to overanalyze the personal love lives of persons who inquire on this forum.

Meanwhile, there's a girl sitting somewhere in America who wants to return home to the Phillipines...hey, shame on her....she made her bed so lie in it? She should've known better? She's rotten because she never loved him? Why dont you get off my leg and contribute an actual opinion to this thread.

[JoeMama 0]

Well maybe one day all of us can achieve the loving relationship you have with your partner. Where are your statistics that too many people see the fiance process as a means for dating? Relationships fail even between two people from the same country. Is this your first relationship? Probably not. Why did your others fail? Did you want to leave? Im sure if you gave this forum a few sentences of your past relationships we'd have your ex's accused and hung based on your biased post. You have no clue whether or not they were in love! You assume.

This thread just goes on and on for you doesn't it? It seems that noone can post to it without you adding your two cents. Considering your judgemental attitude and inability to look at the situation from both sides without knowing more about the specifics of it I am going to ASSUME that you have much experience with FAILED RELATIONSHIPS and are currently working on your next one.

Until the OP confirms that the beneficiary is NOT being held in America against her will I can only go by whats written. You say look at the situation from both sides but how can you? Do you know the USC in this OP? As far as being judgemental - I was told I would crucify the benificiary if the USC bought her a ticket home which is absurd considering Im the one that gets sweet comments such as yours for going against the grain in a thread. This is a forum..you post something, I put my two cents in. You post something directed toward me I'll definately respond. Seems like you're the one who wants me here. xxx

It's "definitely"...not "definately". Thought I'd toss my 2 cents into the spelling bee competition!

[DA BOMB 1]

Edited March 5, 2007 by MRS BILLY BONG

[JenT 0]

Well maybe one day all of us can achieve the loving relationship you have with your partner. Where are your statistics that too many people see the fiance process as a means for dating? Relationships fail even between two people from the same country. Is this your first relationship? Probably not. Why did your others fail? Did you want to leave? Im sure if you gave this forum a few sentences of your past relationships we'd have your ex's accused and hung based on your biased post. You have no clue whether or not they were in love! You assume.

This thread just goes on and on for you doesn't it? It seems that noone can post to it without you adding your two cents. Considering your judgemental attitude and inability to look at the situation from both sides without knowing more about the specifics of it I am going to ASSUME that you have much experience with FAILED RELATIONSHIPS and are currently working on your next one.

Until the OP confirms that the beneficiary is NOT being held in America against her will I can only go by whats written. You say look at the situation from both sides but how can you? Do you know the USC in this OP? As far as being judgemental - I was told I would crucify the benificiary if the USC bought her a ticket home which is absurd considering Im the one that gets sweet comments such as yours for going against the grain in a thread. This is a forum..you post something, I put my two cents in. You post something directed toward me I'll definately respond. Seems like you're the one who wants me here. xxx

It's "definitely"...not "definately". Thought I'd toss my 2 cents into the spelling bee competition!

Oh, me too..

what's, not whats

judgmental, not judgemental

beneficiary, not benificiary

I'm, not Im

Are the personal attacks really necessary?

[DA BOMB 1]

Oh, me too..

what's, not whats

judgmental, not judgemental

beneficiary, not benificiary

I'm, not Im

Are the personal attacks really necessary?

"I CONCOUR, Mrs Billy Silly seems to be an over opinionated brat . "

Guess they are.

[JoeMama 0]

In all honesty, I cannot understand why people would get themselves worked over on this topic. It is certain that the original poster has 1/2 of a brain. If things were that bad with her cousin being held against her will, being abused, etc., they would've contacted the police right away to handle the situation. Looking at what she originally wrote at the start of this thread, she only asked 3 questions. 1) Anyone there can give an idea how can my cousin go back to Philippines? 2) Her man will not buy her a ticket to go back? 3) Do you think its his obligation? That was it.

How it became the guy was conducting abuse and false imprisonment out of those questions/sentences is beyond me! There are no other facts added to make the implications that have come about to this thread.

Edited March 5, 2007 by altimixdj

[TimsDaisy 0]

####### almighty - cut it the hell out. All of you.

There are a few basic options here:

1.) We don't know the whole story.

2.) We know enough of the story from the OP to know that girl should be sent home.

3.) We know enough of the story from the OP combined with collective experience to know that this girl should get some support to get over her homesickness.

And we'll NEVER KNOW WHICH IS THE RIGHT ANSWER because as with all the other "controversial" posts lately, surprise, surprise, the original poster never returned to add more information.

Now quick - someone go ahead and get in another last word about how stupid someone else is or how insensitive someone else is, or how poorly yet another someone spells/writes/conveys thoughts/whatever.

Barf, seriously, all of it, just barf.

[We_Destiny 1]

Well maybe one day all of us can achieve the loving relationship you have with your partner. Where are your statistics that too many people see the fiance process as a means for dating? Relationships fail even between two people from the same country. Is this your first relationship? Probably not. Why did your others fail? Did you want to leave? Im sure if you gave this forum a few sentences of your past relationships we'd have your ex's accused and hung based on your biased post. You have no clue whether or not they were in love! You assume.

This thread just goes on and on for you doesn't it? It seems that noone can post to it without you adding your two cents. Considering your judgemental attitude and inability to look at the situation from both sides without knowing more about the specifics of it I am going to ASSUME that you have much experience with FAILED RELATIONSHIPS and are currently working on your next one.

I CONCOUR, Mrs Billy Silly seems to be an over opinionated brat .

IMO her obviously costumed picture appears to be a true representaion of her appititude to lifes situations ( a cartoon character performing in a one woman (girl) slap-stick comedy of a clown ), compulsively statng her overly judgemental views , in every thread like a spammer. She's full of opinions, and when she blindly attempts to answer questions, she usually guesses the wrong answer.

Magna Cum Laude you are not , There are probally millions of post that you can study from to gain knowledge about immigration subject matter, the answers are in front of your face like multiple test questions ( with a cheat sheet) , and you always seem to pick (guess) the wrong answer. Like Country Boy said " you have much experience with FAILED RELATIONSHIPS and are currently working on your next one" . For your sake I hope you are not applying your vast pool of immigration wisdom to your own petition. If you are, your in for long ride and alot of lonely months . if you have any scence, and are not applying and utilizing your immigration knowledge to your case, then you are a sabateur .

Listen lil Missy, if you don't learn how to keep quite and play nice, your going to get a time-out, and a letter will be sent home to your parents .

True widom comes from knowing when to speak and knowing when to keep quite.

Its QUIET...not quite. Sense...not scence. Sticks and stones? You have to revert to childish behavior just because you dont like what you read? Not to mention - attempting to mask your immaturity with bad grammar makes you appear foolish. My need to be accepted does not outweigh my honest OPINION on a subject. I dont have a burning desire to fit in with a click of posters who find it necessary to overanalyze the personal love lives of persons who inquire on this forum.

Meanwhile, there's a girl sitting somewhere in America who wants to return home to the Phillipines...hey, shame on her....she made her bed so lie in it? She should've known better? She's rotten because she never loved him? Why dont you get off my leg and contribute an actual opinion to this thread.

You mention childish behavior, you Miss Lady are the epitome of childish behavior

Lets not even mention foolish, you think because spell and grammar check my opinion that makes you mature. Were you able to follow my opinion, were you able to comprehend my point, if you were the whole bit about spelling corrections is a ski in your one-woman slapstick sketch. It isyour attempt to discredit me and my thoughts and control the flow of a thread you did not start, and have a biased one-side conversation.

You mention acceptance, this is a forum containing mostly strangers, we can neither accept or reject you, I appears that you have obvious issues with acceptance and self-awareness. Were you treated badly as a child by the neighborhood kids, or maybe classmates or even by your siblings. Is your defiance a mechnism of strength or weakness.

You make the statement "I dont have a burning desire to fit in with a click of posters who find it necessary to overanalyze the personal love lives of persons who inquire on this forum." Your being a hypocrite, that is exactly what you are doing.

Let me reiterate that this is a forum of strangers, the acceptance or rejection of ideas is not a Terms of Service agreement that any of us has made. We all signed up to receive and share opionions. I am not saying that your opinion is not important or needed. I am merely giving my opinion is stating "Listen lil Missy, if you don't learn how to keep quite and play nice, your going to get a time-out, and a letter will be sent home to your parents " thats

True widom comes from knowing when to speak and knowing when to keep quite.

If your are entitled to write your opinion. Can't I?

Now addressing the post. First IMO it's a spammer. The supposed cousin started a thread about her cousin who after two weeks wantS to return home, and then the thread stater disappears. All the while your advocating calling the police and reporting a kidnapping. Do you truely believe that if a family member is in distress in a country in which other family members are present, that there only option would be posting the problem on VJ. Not sending your cousin a bus ticket to stay with you while money is raised, wired or given so they could return to there country. ( makes you say hmmm )

If that was the case my concern would be with the family not the fiance. However, I believe this thread is a spam.

Because of your extreme interest' Likely started by you for the purpose of amusement.

NOW GRAMMAR AND SPELL CHECK THIS !!!!!! and if you want to continue this conversation PM me ( I'm in the book ), lets stop being selfish and leave the public forum threads for issues other people might care about. CHECKMATE!!!!!!!!!

Well maybe one day all of us can achieve the loving relationship you have with your partner. Where are your statistics that too many people see the fiance process as a means for dating? Relationships fail even between two people from the same country. Is this your first relationship? Probably not. Why did your others fail? Did you want to leave? Im sure if you gave this forum a few sentences of your past relationships we'd have your ex's accused and hung based on your biased post. You have no clue whether or not they were in love! You assume.

This thread just goes on and on for you doesn't it? It seems that noone can post to it without you adding your two cents. Considering your judgemental attitude and inability to look at the situation from both sides without knowing more about the specifics of it I am going to ASSUME that you have much experience with FAILED RELATIONSHIPS and are currently working on your next one.

I CONCOUR, Mrs Billy Silly seems to be an over opinionated brat .

IMO her obviously costumed picture appears to be a true representaion of her appititude to lifes situations ( a cartoon character performing in a one woman (girl) slap-stick comedy of a clown ), compulsively statng her overly judgemental views , in every thread like a spammer. She's full of opinions, and when she blindly attempts to answer questions, she usually guesses the wrong answer.

Magna Cum Laude you are not , There are probally millions of post that you can study from to gain knowledge about immigration subject matter, the answers are in front of your face like multiple test questions ( with a cheat sheet) , and you always seem to pick (guess) the wrong answer. Like Country Boy said " you have much experience with FAILED RELATIONSHIPS and are currently working on your next one" . For your sake I hope you are not applying your vast pool of immigration wisdom to your own petition. If you are, your in for long ride and alot of lonely months . if you have any scence, and are not applying and utilizing your immigration knowledge to your case, then you are a sabateur .

Listen lil Missy, if you don't learn how to keep quite and play nice, your going to get a time-out, and a letter will be sent home to your parents .

True widom comes from knowing when to speak and knowing when to keep quite.

Its QUIET...not quite. Sense...not scence. Sticks and stones? You have to revert to childish behavior just because you dont like what you read? Not to mention - attempting to mask your immaturity with bad grammar makes you appear foolish. My need to be accepted does not outweigh my honest OPINION on a subject. I dont have a burning desire to fit in with a click of posters who find it necessary to overanalyze the personal love lives of persons who inquire on this forum.

Meanwhile, there's a girl sitting somewhere in America who wants to return home to the Phillipines...hey, shame on her....she made her bed so lie in it? She should've known better? She's rotten because she never loved him? Why dont you get off my leg and contribute an actual opinion to this thread.

You mention childish behavior, you Miss Lady are the epitome of childish behavior

Lets not even mention foolish, you think because spell and grammar check my opinion that makes you mature. Were you able to follow my opinion, were you able to comprehend my point, if you were the whole bit about spelling corrections is a ski in your one-woman slapstick sketch. It isyour attempt to discredit me and my thoughts and control the flow of a thread you did not start, and have a biased one-side conversation.

You mention acceptance, this is a forum containing mostly strangers, we can neither accept or reject you, I appears that you have obvious issues with acceptance and self-awareness. Were you treated badly as a child by the neighborhood kids, or maybe classmates or even by your siblings. Is your defiance a mechnism of strength or weakness.

You make the statement "I dont have a burning desire to fit in with a click of posters who find it necessary to overanalyze the personal love lives of persons who inquire on this forum." Your being a hypocrite, that is exactly what you are doing.

Let me reiterate that this is a forum of strangers, the acceptance or rejection of ideas is not a Terms of Service agreement that any of us has made. We all signed up to receive and share opionions. I am not saying that your opinion is not important or needed. I am merely giving my opinion is stating "Listen lil Missy, if you don't learn how to keep quite and play nice, your going to get a time-out, and a letter will be sent home to your parents " thats

True widom comes from knowing when to speak and knowing when to keep quite.

If your are entitled to write your opinion. Can't I?

Now addressing the post. First IMO it's a spammer. The supposed cousin started a thread about her cousin who after two weeks wantS to return home, and then the thread stater disappears. All the while your advocating calling the police and reporting a kidnapping. Do you truely believe that if a family member is in distress in a country in which other family members are present, that there only option would be posting the problem on VJ. Not sending your cousin a bus ticket to stay with you while money is raised, wired or given so they could return to there country. ( makes you say hmmm )

If that was the case my concern would be with the family not the fiance. However, I believe this thread is a spam.

Because of your extreme interest' Likely started by you for the purpose of amusement.

NOW GRAMMAR AND SPELL CHECK THIS !!!!!! and if you want to continue this conversation PM me ( I'm in the book ), lets stop being selfish and leave the public forum threads for issues other people might care about. CHECKMATE!!!!!!!!!

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

Well maybe one day all of us can achieve the loving relationship you have with your partner. Where are your statistics that too many people see the fiance process as a means for dating? Relationships fail even between two people from the same country. Is this your first relationship? Probably not. Why did your others fail? Did you want to leave? Im sure if you gave this forum a few sentences of your past relationships we'd have your ex's accused and hung based on your biased post. You have no clue whether or not they were in love! You assume.

This thread just goes on and on for you doesn't it? It seems that noone can post to it without you adding your two cents. Considering your judgemental attitude and inability to look at the situation from both sides without knowing more about the specifics of it I am going to ASSUME that you have much experience with FAILED RELATIONSHIPS and are currently working on your next one.

Until the OP confirms that the beneficiary is NOT being held in America against her will I can only go by whats written. You say look at the situation from both sides but how can you? Do you know the USC in this OP? As far as being judgemental - I was told I would crucify the benificiary if the USC bought her a ticket home which is absurd considering Im the one that gets sweet comments such as yours for going against the grain in a thread. This is a forum..you post something, I put my two cents in. You post something directed toward me I'll definately respond. Seems like you're the one who wants me here. xxx

Me me me!

Word is 'beneficiary'......