Thursday

[Bosco 1]

Ppl gave Private a hard time here because of the way she behaved. I'd be more sympathetic if ppl gave her shitt for nothing but they didn't.

I'd be more sympathetic if criticism of behavior was more consistant over all and not limited to those less liked.

Looking in the mirror?

I've said that many times, but as long as it keeps being thrown out that some favored folks leave because of unfavored others, it's fair game.

And Private has posted other reasons elsewhere. If JP posts or posted other reasons elsewhere, I would acknowledge them.

Your acknowledgment is not required.

Thanks for letting me know dear. Can you tell me what is not required while you are at it since you love to inform us all of the hows and whats?

Tell us again why people leave because of other people, Bosco. When I do the same, you object. Apparently, you claim some monopoly on the subject, dear.

I didn't object. I pointed out that she has stated other reasons elsewhere.

[Sofiyya 1,687]

No, I'm not looking in the mirror, but, if I did, I would love what I see. If it's not clear to you by now that I am not one iota affected by your's or anyone else's self-righteousness perception of me, let me state it clearly - I am not.

I spoke to Private off the boards. Your repeated expressions of why JP left can be taken with a grain of salt, and have been, just as my stated reasons for why Private left can be. Take it or leave it. I don't care.

Edited March 2, 2007 by Green-eyed girl

[mybackpages 0]

I'm sorry if this offends... but the last post is an exact example of why many do not post. I agree, Jenn, that it would be more beneficial to all concerned on this entire forum if everyone could post without hesitating.

Again, I apologize. I have no problem with the poster, just the post.

Of course I understand exactly what you mean and take no offense. I hestitated to post it at all because I know darn well, the ramifications of my post...but sometimes i am so frustrated by the statements that are posted on this board all the time based soley on one's own perception of things.

[Sofiyya 1,687]

I'm sorry if this offends... but the last post is an exact example of why many do not post. I agree, Jenn, that it would be more beneficial to all concerned on this entire forum if everyone could post without hesitating.

Again, I apologize. I have no problem with the poster, just the post.

Of course I understand exactly what you mean and take no offense. I hestitated to post it at all because I know darn well, the ramifications of my post...but sometimes i am so frustrated by the statements that are posted on this board all the time based soley on one's own perception of things.

All we have is our own perception of things. We see all the time that any one statement is taken a multitude of ways by each person reading it. Without face to face clues, much is missing, and that is true for all of us.

[brnidokiegurl 0]

( based soley on one's own perception of things. All we have is our own perception of things.) I almost posted the same thing, ALLl we have is our own perceptions and for even the newer ones they have less to base it on. If someone came on new today, what would they learn, an argument based on who left and why.

[Sofiyya 1,687]

It appears that, on occasion, the air must be cleared.

[doodlebug 3]

Isn't it kind of taboo to bring what people post in other boards into this board? I know I'd be mortified if some of the personal things I've posted elsewhere were posted here. I don't post those things here for a reason. Seems like an invasion of privacy of some sort..no pun intended.

[brnidokiegurl 0]

THe air shouldnt get so stale then, this is everyday.......

[peezey 0]

Isn't it kind of taboo to bring what people post in other boards into this board? I know I'd be mortified if some of the personal things I've posted elsewhere were posted here. I don't post those things here for a reason. Seems like an invasion of privacy of some sort..no pun intended.

No one else brought it up but her.

[doodlebug 3]

Isn't it kind of taboo to bring what people post in other boards into this board? I know I'd be mortified if some of the personal things I've posted elsewhere were posted here. I don't post those things here for a reason. Seems like an invasion of privacy of some sort..no pun intended.

No one else brought it up but her.

Well a few have brought it up on this thread and I believe someone started a thread about belief.net in the MENA section that sprouted it all. Had she mentioned her membership there prior to that thread being started, 'cause if she did I certainly don't recall it.

[doodlebug 3]

Isn't it kind of taboo to bring what people post in other boards into this board? I know I'd be mortified if some of the personal things I've posted elsewhere were posted here. I don't post those things here for a reason. Seems like an invasion of privacy of some sort..no pun intended.

No one else brought it up but her.

Well a few have brought it up on this thread and I believe someone started a thread about belief.net in the MENA section that sprouted it all. Had she mentioned her membership there prior to that thread being started, 'cause if she did I certainly don't recall it.

ugh I can't edit my post but here's the thread:

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...53563&st=15

peezy you asked about belief.net and bosco indicated that private was a member and that there had been outlandish posts. I guess I'm missing where private had brought it up. Was that in an earlier thread?

[Together4ever 1]

Must we argue about why ppl leave? Who cares why they left. It was their personal choice.

Thanks Moody. You summed it up. Its the CHICKEN PICKIN that makes a lot of people here nutty and turns them off. Pick pick pick pickety pick pick. When people begin a debate about someone else's private life on a public forum when they're not even present is just icky to me, whether said blah blah was stated in thread xyz to so-and-so, blah blah blah. TA DA! MY OPINION HAS NOW BEEN STATED TOO! (tongue-in-cheek) And I regret I got sucked in again. I'm out of this thread... no more of this for me.

[Bosco 1]

Things I read were not on B-net although someone pointed B-net out to me after that post thinking that is what I was referring to; it was not.

However, since B-net has been now mentioned by name, I suspect others will soon know what is being referred to.

[Sofiyya 1,687]

Things I read were not on B-net although someone pointed B-net out to me after that post thinking that is what I was referring to; it was not.

However, since B-net has been now mentioned by name, I suspect others will soon know what is being referred to.

How will others know?

[Bosco 1]

Things I read were not on B-net although someone pointed B-net out to me after that post thinking that is what I was referring to; it was not.

However, since B-net has been now mentioned by name, I suspect others will soon know what is being referred to.

How will others know?

Because now that the forum has been named, they can look it up themselves.