Thursday

[Bosco 1]

I'm sorry if this offends... but the last post is an exact example of why many do not post. I agree, Jenn, that it would be more beneficial to all concerned on this entire forum if everyone could post without hesitating.

Again, I apologize. I have no problem with the poster, just the post.

I don't think this is entirely fair. The implication was made that Private left as a result of the people here. Many of us frequent other forums where Private has given other reasons for leaving. MPB was simply stating what Private has stated herself elsewhere -- other reasons were involved.

[Sofiyya 1,687]

Since I brought it up, I will clear it up. There is no implication involved. Private left because of people here. Fair enough.

[Bosco 1]

Since I brought it up, I will clear it up. There is no implication involved. Private left because of people here. Fair enough.

I really don't think that is fair enough. It would be easy enough to show everyone what Private has posted elsewhere as her reasons, but I don't think that is a road we want to go down. She may have said one thing to you, but she has put out a different story in several other places.

[ya falaha! 0]

Maybe she left for both reasons.

[Sofiyya 1,687]

Since I brought it up, I will clear it up. There is no implication involved. Private left because of people here. Fair enough.

I really don't think that is fair enough. It would be easy enough to show everyone what Private has posted elsewhere as her reasons, but I don't think that is a road we want to go down. She may have said one thing to you, but she has put out a different story in several other places.

You say you know why JP left based on your personal relationship with her. I know the same based on what I know off the board about Private.

[ya falaha! 0]

Must we argue about why ppl leave? Who cares why they left. It was their personal choice.

[Bosco 1]

Maybe she left for both reasons.

I agree, which is why I stated in my first post "other reasons were involved". I think it is likely people here contributed, and in part the way GEG stated, but also because Private realized that some of the reasons she gave elsewhere had become common knowledge here.

Since I brought it up, I will clear it up. There is no implication involved. Private left because of people here. Fair enough.

I really don't think that is fair enough. It would be easy enough to show everyone what Private has posted elsewhere as her reasons, but I don't think that is a road we want to go down. She may have said one thing to you, but she has put out a different story in several other places.

You say you know why JP left based on your personal relationship with her. I know the same based on what I know off the board about Private.

And Private has posted other reasons elsewhere. If JP posts or posted other reasons elsewhere, I would acknowledge them.

[Sofiyya 1,687]

I've said that many times, but as long as it keeps being thrown out that some favored folks leave because of unfavored others, it's fair game.

And Private has posted other reasons elsewhere. If JP posts or posted other reasons elsewhere, I would acknowledge them.

Your acknowledgment is not required.

[ya falaha! 0]

Ppl gave Private a hard time here because of the way she behaved. I'd be more sympathetic if ppl gave her shitt for nothing but they didn't.

[brnidokiegurl 0]

And here it goes again, if someone left, they chose to leave. Did they leave so all could argue endless why , blame, try to figure their reasoning, come on people, get a grip. There gone end of story.

[Bosco 1]

I've said that many times, but as long as it keeps being thrown out that some favored folks leave because of unfavored others, it's fair game.

And Private has posted other reasons elsewhere. If JP posts or posted other reasons elsewhere, I would acknowledge them.

Your acknowledgment is not required.

Thanks for letting me know dear. Can you tell me what is not required while you are at it since you love to inform us all of the hows and whats?

[peezey 0]

After interacting with Private on a couple other sites my guess is she might be quite embarassed for all the inappropriate mess she's posted elsewhere that has come back to bite her. There are a couple people on VJ whose personas elsewhere might cause the same self-implosion on VJ in short order.

[Sofiyya 1,687]

Ppl gave Private a hard time here because of the way she behaved. I'd be more sympathetic if ppl gave her shitt for nothing but they didn't.

I'd be more sympathetic if criticism of behavior was more consistant over all and not limited to those less liked.

[Sofiyya 1,687]

I've said that many times, but as long as it keeps being thrown out that some favored folks leave because of unfavored others, it's fair game.

And Private has posted other reasons elsewhere. If JP posts or posted other reasons elsewhere, I would acknowledge them.

Your acknowledgment is not required.

Thanks for letting me know dear. Can you tell me what is not required while you are at it since you love to inform us all of the hows and whats?

Tell us again why people leave because of other people, Bosco. When I do the same, you object. Apparently, you claim some monopoly on the subject, dear.

[ya falaha! 0]

True.

Ppl gave Private a hard time here because of the way she behaved. I'd be more sympathetic if ppl gave her shitt for nothing but they didn't.

I'd be more sympathetic if criticism of behavior was more consistant over all and not limited to those less liked.