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Truzoe   0

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This is my situation. I got married in 2013 and have an approved i130. I'm handling my i94 so I can be able to adjust my status in america. The thing is I enter my marriage in good faith and wanted to get a job to help support my wife and her 2 kids. But I see she been text messaging differnt guys that our marriage is just business for her and she only using me. They even talked about having sex and she been going to another guy house and Lord knows what goes on. My question is what can I do in that situation if I get a divorce does my i130 become bad and will I still be able to adjust my status? Thank you.

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MacUK   983

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This is my situation. I got married in 2013 and have an approved i130. I'm handling my i94 so I can be able to adjust my status in america. The thing is I enter my marriage in good faith and wanted to get a job to help support my wife and her 2 kids. But I see she been text messaging differnt guys that our marriage is just business for her and she only using me. They even talked about having sex and she been going to another guy house and Lord knows what goes on. My question is what can I do in that situation if I get a divorce does my i130 become bad and will I still be able to adjust my status? Thank you.

What do you mean by 'marriage is just business for her'?

August 2000: We start e-mailing. I'm in Bosnia, she's in Florida

October 29th 2000: She sends me e-mail asking if I would marry her

October 29th 2000(5 seconds later): I say yes

November 2000: She sends me tickets to Orlando for when I get back

December 6th 2000: Return from Bos

December 11th 2000: Fly to Orlando, she meets me at airport

December 22nd 2000: I fly back to UK

January 3rd 2001: She flies to UK (Good times)

Mid February 2001: Pregnancy test Positive

Mid February 2001: She flies back to US

March 2001: Miscarriage, I fly to US on first flight I can get

May 2001: I leave US before my 90 days are up

June 2001: I fly back to US, stopped at airport for questioning as I had only just left

September 2001: Pregnancy test Positive again

September 2001: She falls sick, I make decision to stay to look after her as I am afraid I may have problems getting back in.

April 16th 2002: Our son is born, we start getting stuff together for his passport

March 6th 2003: We leave US for UK as family

Early April 2003: Family troubles make her return to US, I ask Embassy in London about possibilities of returning to US

April 16th 2003: London Embassy informs me that I will be banned from the Visa Waiver Program for 10 years, my little boys first birthday

June 13th 2006: I-129f sent

August 11th 2006: NOA1 Recieved

After our relationship breaks down she admits to me that she had never bothered to start the application process

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Truzoe   0

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Like she just using me. She does nt work and I pay all the bills and help her with two kids. So I'm guessing she is just waiting to get on her feet to leave.

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Shauneg Experienced

Shauneg   762

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This is my situation. I got married in 2013 and have an approved i130. I'm handling my i94 so I can be able to adjust my status in america. The thing is I enter my marriage in good faith and wanted to get a job to help support my wife and her 2 kids. But I see she been text messaging differnt guys that our marriage is just business for her and she only using me. They even talked about having sex and she been going to another guy house and Lord knows what goes on. My question is what can I do in that situation if I get a divorce does my i130 become bad and will I still be able to adjust my status? Thank you.

What kind of visa did you come here on? You were married before you came? There's no status to adjust from....you would have had a green card already.

What status are you trying to adjust from?

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TBoneTX   45,014

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*** Thread moved from AOS/Family-Based main forum to the DACA forum. ***

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

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Transborderwife   4,666

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And I'm without status currently. I had tps but stopped receiving it a couple of years ago. I'm in the process to file for daca tho

You need to stop working illegally. Without any sort of valid (or overstayed) visa you cannot adjust status.

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raven52   233

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I do not have much to say about your status.,.,.,

But, I would be finding a way to get ""rid"" of that kind of woman.,.,.,.,.it will not change.,.,.,it will get worse.

Make some kind of ""move"" before she does. Catch her ""in the act"" or something.,.,..,and file divorce.,.,.,it is just what I would do.

People deserve to be "happy".,.,you cannot achieve happiness, with a cheating wife.,.,.(if she is)

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Boiler   45,294

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You can not adjust status, you have none to adjust from.

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

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Penguin_ie   5,993

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**** One post removed for advocating lying to immigration. Remember our TOS when giving advice. *****

Bye: Penguin

Me: Irish/ Swiss citizen, and now naturalised US citizen. Husband: USC; twin babies born Feb 08 in Ireland and a daughter in Feb 2010 in Arkansas who are all joint Irish/ USC. Did DCF (IR1) in 6 weeks via the Dublin, Ireland embassy and now living in Arkansas.

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