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What's your Love Language?

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JenT   0

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This is based on book written by Dr. Gary Chapman.... a wonderful book if you haven't read it. There are 5 love languages:

  • words of affirmation
  • quality time
  • receiving gifts
  • acts of service
  • physical touch

The idea is that if we recognize our love language and our partner's (since they're not always the same), we can better meet each other's needs and be fulfilled. Try this quiz and see how you do....

http://selectsmart.com/FREE/select.php?client=lovelanguages

My top language was 'acts of service'. No surprise there.

Jen

8-30-05 Met David at a restaurant in Germany

3-28-06 David 'officially' proposed

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9-25-06 Interview: APPROVED!

10-16-06 Flt to US, POE Detroit

11-5-06 Married

7-2-07 Green card received

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12-5-08 Court hearing - divorce final

A great marriage is not when the "perfect couple" comes together.

It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.

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Savanphil   3

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Your Results:

Your prediction for your #1 result: Quality Time--This can be expressed either th. Does that match your actual #1 result below?

Your Results The list below is modified by your input. Note: The selector author alone determined the questions and scoring of these results.

#1 Quality Time--This can be expressed either through those intimate tete-a-tete discussions or via doing things together. It's possible to get a low score in this category because you have a strong preference for one form of Quality Time over another.

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chri'stina   190

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Your Results:

#1 Quality Time--This can be expressed either through those intimate tete-a-tete discussions or via doing things together. It's possible to get a low score in this category because you have a strong preference for one form of Quality Time over another.

I got the same

Married since 9-18-04(All K1 visa & GC details in timeline.)

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JenT   0

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I got Acts of Service

true love is doing the dishes :)

:thumbs: and shoveling the snow....

8-30-05 Met David at a restaurant in Germany

3-28-06 David 'officially' proposed

4-26-06 I-129F mailed

9-25-06 Interview: APPROVED!

10-16-06 Flt to US, POE Detroit

11-5-06 Married

7-2-07 Green card received

9-12-08 Filed for divorce

12-5-08 Court hearing - divorce final

A great marriage is not when the "perfect couple" comes together.

It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.

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Addie_Goodvibes   0

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I got Acts of Service

true love is doing the dishes :)

True love is changing the babies diaper, doing the housework, and letting my beautiful wife take a warm bath in peace.

Followed by a foot rub , massage and if the kids are asleep a more fun :)

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IMPORTANT NOTICE:Like you all, I am not an attorney ; I am a layperson (I have laid a lot of persons ) My advice is based on Experience obtained by filing ourselves

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one...two...tree   2,762

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#1 Touch--You want to give and/or receive affection physically. This may or may not center around sex.

#2 Quality Time

#3 Words of Affirmation

#4 Acts of Service

#5 Gifts

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Quality Time--This can be expressed either through those intimate tete-a-tete discussions or via doing things together. It's possible to get a low score in this category because you have a strong preference for one form of Quality Time over another.



* K1 Timeline *
* 04/07/06: I-129F Sent to NSC
* 10/02/06: Interview date - APPROVED!
* 10/10/06: POE Houston
* 11/25/06: Wedding day!!!

* AOS/EAD/AP Timeline *
*01/05/07: AOS/EAD/AP sent
*02/19/08: AOS approved
*02/27/08: Permanent Resident Card received

* LOC Timeline *
*12/31/09: Applied Lifting of Condition
*01/04/10: NOA
*02/12/10: Biometrics
*03/03/10: LOC approved
*03/11/10: 10 years green card received

* Naturalization Timeline *
*12/17/10: package sent
*12/29/10: NOA date
*01/19/11: biometrics
*04/12/11: interview
*04/15/11: approval letter
*05/13/11: Oath Ceremony - Officially done with Immigration.

Complete Timeline

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wasino   0

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my #1 was "words of affirmation."

my #5 was "gifts"

sounds like me...gifts are nice and all, but i like love expressed, and i'm always telling my husband the millions of ways i love him. i love the words he writes in cards more than the presents....

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Jenn!   918

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#1 Touch--You want to give and/or receive affection physically. This may or may not center around sex.

#2 Quality Time

#3 Words of Affirmation

#4 Acts of Service

#5 Gifts

Same order for me....

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Ban Hammer   13,346

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Words of Affirmation

Touch

Quality Time

Acts of Service

Gifts

* ~ * Charles * ~ *
 

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Quality time for me too

DCF - London

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09 Jun 05 - Arrived in the USA

24 April 09 - US Citizen

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