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[safitu 0]

ok i have a burning question from my fiance he has got ants in his pants from me sending he visa he has been nothing but a pain in the you know where and i dont know what to do to calm him down everyday i call the vermont center to see if anything is new but still nothing he thinks the more i call the faster it happens. right now he is on my case about when they are going to approve it i said there is no way telling and they said that as well pretty much is there any way bc we have been touched only 1 time on the 21st of this month and nothing else has showed up now we are both going insane but can i help him from making me more insane?

maybe calling constantly does work.....hhhhhhhmmmmmmmmm

[Together4ever 1]

My then-fiance, now-husband did the same to me during the visa process. He is from a similar part of the world and I know the cultures there have nowhere near the type of bureaucracy we do. My husband still can't understand or find patience with the system here. Its completely alien. Explaining over bad phone lines and emails doesn't always suffice to settle him down. He'll just have to relax, and you may have to distance yourself from his hissy fits calmly and just go with the flow. ME/NA guys make a lot of noise when they're frustrated, but rarely mean half of it. Hugs and just hang in there.