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elenamimimi   1

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I'm sorry to say that, but it only means that he doesn't care much about you and moreover, about HIS future child

I understand that for you it wouldn't be so easy just to tell him-ok i'm not coming at all, but you two should discuss it and i would suggest you to think what he might ask from you next

K1 visa, СА

* 04/06/15 - I-129F sent
* 04/13/15 - NOA1
* 05/22/15 - NОА2
* 06/12/15 - NОА2 paper
* 06/11/15 - NVC received
* 06/26/15 - NVC sent to Moscow
* 07/01/15 - ready
* 07/13/15 - admin. processing
* 09/07/15 - medical examination
* 09/08/15 - interview +++

* 09/14/15 - got the passport
* 01/20/15 - flight (POE JFK)

* 03/19/16 - wedding

* 04/21/16 - filed (GC, EAD, AP)

* 04/29/16 - NOA1

* 05/23/16 - biometrics

* 07/29/16 - EAD, AP

* 05/31/17 - interview

and still no response...

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Lowlie
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Sorry, but he must be very immature, spoiled and selfish. It's absolutely beyond ridiculous to insist you fly in your condition or don't go at all! To be very blunt, if you give in to his selfish dema

Ebunoluwa
Ebunoluwa

He said come now or don't come at all, my response would be ok I won't come at all, have a nice life ! End of story. What a jerk. I see a big red flag looming.

Michael and Ganna
Michael and Ganna

I would like to chime in here. There are many factors that have not been discussed here, which in my view I consider important. First off I am an older gentleman. If my wife was ill, i would be on the

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Pennycat   880

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Ok, on the healthcare thing.... you REALLY will have to check into this, in detail, before even considering getting on a plane (which you shouldn't). It is nowhere *near* as easy to just buy health insurance when you are not a citizen or yet a legal resident or when you're already pregnant....the two of those together are a disaster waiting to happen. As a K1, you're not a resident! You're lawfully present, but you don't have that green card yet! What you are describing is a *very* expensive pregnancy and delivery.

I can't even tell from this website:https://www.healthcare.gov/immigrants/lawfully-present-immigrants/ where a K1 would fit in (I do think you'd be counted as a "lawfully present immigrant" but still...) you'd be able to buy insurance MAYBE. If not...you will ring up a huge bill.

You'd be bankrupted by it, most likely. And also because it sounds like the baby will probably be born before you're married, that means that YOU would be bankrupted by it. Not him. Because you're not married yet.

Also the fact that he is legally required to have health insurance, and knows it, and has opted to not do so would be a huge red flag for me. Just a heads up. That's not normal.

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Marriage/ AOS Timeline:

23 Dec 2015: Legal marriage

23 Jan 2016: Wedding!

23 Jan 2016: "Blizzard of the Century", wedding canceled/rescheduled (thank goodness we were legally married first or we'd have had a big problem!) :sleepy:

24 Jan 2016: Small "civil ceremony" with friends and family who were snowed in with us. December was a bit of a secret and people had traveled internationally and knew we *had* to get married that weekend, and our December legal marriage was nothing but signing a piece of paper at our priest's kitchen table, without any sort of vows etc so this was actually a very special (if not legally significant) day. (L)

16 Apr 2016: Filed for AOS and EAD/AP (We delayed a bit-- no big rush, enjoying the USCIS break)

23 Apr 2016: Wedding! Finally! :luv:

27 Apr 2016: Electronic NOA1 for all 3 :dancing:
29 Apr 2016: NOA1 Hardcopy for all 3
29 Jul 2016: Online service request for late EAD (Day 104)
29 Jul 2016: EAD/AP Approved ~3 hours after online service request
04 Aug 2016: RFE for Green Card (requested medicals/ vaccination record. They already have it). :ranting:
05 Aug 2016: EAD/AP Combo Card arrived! (Day 111)
08 Aug 2016: Congressional constituent request to get guidance on the RFE. Hoping they see they have the form and approve!

K-1 Visa Timeline:

PLEASE NOTE. This timeline was during the period of time when TSC was working on I-129fs and had a huge backlog. The average processing time was 210+ days. This is in no way predictive of your own timeline if you filed during or after April 2015, unless CSC develops a backlog. A backlog is anything above the 5-month goal time listed on USCIS's site

14 Feb 2015: Mailed I-129f to Dallas Lockbox. (L) (Most expensive Valentine's card I've ever sent!)

17 Feb 2015: NOA1 "Received Date"
19 Feb 2015: NOA1 Notice Date
08 Aug 2015: NOA2 email! :luv: (173 days from NOA1)

17 Aug 2015: Sent to NVC

?? Aug 2015: Arrived at NVC

25 Aug 2015: NVC Case # Assigned

31 Aug 2015: Left NVC for Consulate in San Jose

09 Sep 2015: Consulate received :dancing: (32 days from NOA2)

11 Sep 2015: Packet 3 emailed from embassy to me, the petitioner (34 days from NOA2).

18 Sep 2015: Medicals complete

21 Sep 2015: Packet 3 complete, my boss puts a temporary moratorium on all time off due to work emergency :clock:

02 Oct 2015: Work emergency clears up, interview scheduled (soonest available was 5 business days away--Columbus Day was in there)

13 Oct 2015: Interview

13 Oct 2015: VISA APPROVED :thumbs: (236 days from NOA1)

19 Oct 2015: Visa-in-hand

24 Oct 2015: POE !

15 Dec 2015: Fiance's mother's B-2 visa interview: APPROVED! So happy she will be at the wedding! :thumbs:

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blondedoc   35

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Well, I can say that the 95% of the doctors (or more) will say that is not ok to fly, just by the fact that they are not specialized in aerospacial medicine and is better not take the risk. Some others has more experience with this particular type of medicine and they can see more possibilities linking her case with details of the speciality.

I gave this opinion looking by the medical side, but personally... lol I was supposed to think about it very differently and maybe look by the whole situation even envolving the relationship! :)

But as I said, if she want to ask something more that I can help, I´m here!

I really really really hope that Jelena will do be best for the baby and her!

We have to think that just she knows exactly how it feels!!!

So let´s support her!

I´LL START TO LIVE BACK AGAIN WHEN I´LL BE ON MY HUBBY´S ARMS, FOREVER AND EVER. UNTIL THERE, I DON´T LIVE. I SURVIVE. (L)




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Steven&Jelena   12

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Well, I can say that the 95% of the doctors (or more) will say that is not ok to fly, just by the fact that they are not specialized in aerospacial medicine and is better not take the risk. Some others has more experience with this particular type of medicine and they can see more possibilities linking her case with details of the speciality.

I gave this opinion looking by the medical side, but personally... lol I was supposed to think about it very differently and maybe look by the whole situation even envolving the relationship! :)

But as I said, if she want to ask something more that I can help, I´m here!

I really really really hope that Jelena will do be best for the baby and her!

We have to think that just she knows exactly how it feels!!!

So let´s support her!

Hello i just wanted to say that problem is solved ::) Now i can sleep peacefully. I will not fly yet, i will give birth at my country and my fiance agree with that. He will come to file for crba after baby is born and then we will probably go togeter to usa. :) Thank you everyone for caring.

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blondedoc   35

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Awwwwww I´m happy for you!!! :joy::joy::joy::joy:

So enjoy this time to take care of yourself and the baby!

All the best for you! ;)

I´LL START TO LIVE BACK AGAIN WHEN I´LL BE ON MY HUBBY´S ARMS, FOREVER AND EVER. UNTIL THERE, I DON´T LIVE. I SURVIVE. (L)




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MrsAwakened   7

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Hello i just wanted to say that problem is solved ::) Now i can sleep peacefully. I will not fly yet, i will give birth at my country and my fiance agree with that. He will come to file for crba after baby is born and then we will probably go togeter to usa. :) Thank you everyone for caring.

That's great! I'm happy that the problem has been solved and I hope you and your fiance continue to have good communication, love, and understanding. ^_^ I hope everything goes as smoothly as possible when the time comes to bring your baby into the world! *throws confetti into the air* haha :D

♥ IR-1/CR-1 ♥ - Waiver Journey

♥ USCIS ♥

 

08/18/2015 :Mailed I-130 to Chicago Lockbox

08/20/2015 :Arrived at Chicago Lockbox facility

08/25/2015 :Received NOA1 via email, file routed to CSC

09/01/2015 :Received NOA1 via mail

09/15/2015 :Approved I-130 (NOA2 via myUSCIS) - 22 days from NOA1

09/30/2015 :Received NOA2 via mail (approximately)

 

♥ NVC ♥

 

10/13/2015 :Arrived at NVC - 27 days from NOA2

10/13/2015 :Assigned Case Number & IIN Number

10/15/2015 :Invoiced AOS fee

10/15/2015 :Paid AOS fee

10/15/2015 :Submitted DS-261

10/20/2015 :Marked AOS fee as PAID

10/30/2015 :Approved DS-261 - 16 days from submitting

11/03/2015 :Invoiced IV fee

11/03/2015 :Paid IV fee via CEAC - rejected by bank

11/09/2015 :Paid IV fee via CEAC - approved by bank

11/12/2015 :Marked IV fee as PAID

11/12/2015 :Invoiced IV Application (DS-260)

11/16/2015 :Submitted IV Application (DS-260)

11/27/2015 :Submitted IV & AOS Packet

12/09/2015 :Arrived at NVC (IV & AOS Packet)

01/15/2016 :Called NVC

01/20/2016 :Sent to Supervisor (Court Doc. Confusion)

02/19/2016 :Called NVC (Verbal RFE for Court Doc.)

02/22/2016 :CASE COMPLETE ♥

02/29/2016 :Received Case Complete via email

02/29/2016 :Called NVC (RFE was a mistake/No RFE)

 

♥ EMBASSY ♥

03/11/2016 : Received Interview Letter via email

03/29/2016 : Medical Exam

04/11/2016 : INTERVIEW ♥

08/29/2016 : Sent US Criminal History to US Embassy

09/01/2016 : Arrived at US Embassy (US Criminal History)

09/29/2016 : Received updated via email

02/01/2017 : SECOND INTERVIEW ♥

03/17/2017 : USCIS InfoPass Appointment

More in my profile!

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TBoneTX   45,284

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That's great news.

Jelena, if you wish for this thread to be closed (your decision), hit the "report" button and so request.

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

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