wednesday hump day

[Sofiyya 1,687]

interesting. rather than blame others, why not state its a shame to have participated in said negativity of this forum. i know i am.

It is easier to blame others. Frankly, I'm feeling no pain. If someone chooses to martyr themselves on the pier of self-pity because of this forum, so be it. There are people here who make it painful for me to be here (fewer of them now), and when I see them blaming others instead of looking at themselves, I just shake my head. If it wasn't so gross and abnormal, I would laugh. There was plenty of fighting before I got here, and I used to reap praise for tangling with VP from some of the very people who are whining about me now. As long as I served their purpose, they were fine with me. But, I'm not merely a tool for someone's agenda. So, I don't feel any guilt for how I became part of it. In fact, I have a theory that as it got harder to bait me into fighting, and Ewok became more vigilent about this board, the waning drama became unbareable for some and they stopped posting.

Get over it people. What's done is done. You can make things better from here or keep looking back. I don't plan to beat a dead horse to mourn about what supposedly used to be, but then, I lost my rose-colored glasses long ago.

[peezey 0]

interesting. rather than blame others, why not state its a shame to have participated in said negativity of this forum. i know i am.

Interesting.

[LaL 418]

interesting. rather than blame others, why not state its a shame to have participated in said negativity of this forum. i know i am.

Interesting.

Is there anything wrong with personal responsibility when it comes to the climate of a forum? this was the only point of my post.

[brnidokiegurl 0]

Nope your right, there are not to many here not guilty in some ways at different times and a few more than others. Everyone was fighting when i first came and it continued. Blame comes very easy to some, alot easier than saying i to am to blame and im sorry. This or any other forum will only be as good as the people want it to be.

[sarah and hicham 3]

interesting. rather than blame others, why not state its a shame to have participated in said negativity of this forum. i know i am.

Interesting.

Isn't it though?

Edited February 22, 2007 by sarah and hicham

[cbd2cai 0]

interesting. rather than blame others, why not state its a shame to have participated in said negativity of this forum. i know i am.

Interesting.

Isn't it though?

Interesting???

It is?? It isnt?

Personal responsibility is a good thing . . . we should all participate responsibly.

Edited February 22, 2007 by cbd2cai

[AichaKandisha 0]

"It says that when students feel upset, they should remember that the red light means to stop, calm down and think before they act. The yellow light prompts them to weigh a range of responses, and their consequences. The green light urges them to try the best response."

IT seems lately most have been trying this, hopefully it will continue. There are many good people here and it will continue

I enjoy this forum and I am sorry that things are not the way they used to be. This forum is like family and it has helped me out so much. I only hope that I will be able to help at least one person out that comes here to look for an answer to "Pay It Forward."

All families have good times and bad ones, that is why it is called unconditional love.

Sherrie

interesting. rather than blame others, why not state its a shame to have participated in said negativity of this forum. i know i am.

it's easier to blame someone else and avoid any responsibility if jp had a problem with me i'd rather she had pm'ed me

interesting. rather than blame others, why not state its a shame to have participated in said negativity of this forum. i know i am.

It is easier to blame others. Frankly, I'm feeling no pain. If someone chooses to martyr themselves on the pier of self-pity because of this forum, so be it. There are people here who make it painful for me to be here (fewer of them now), and when I see them blaming others instead of looking at themselves, I just shake my head. If it wasn't so gross and abnormal, I would laugh. What's done is done. You can make things better from here or keep looking back. I don't plan to beat a dead horse to mourn about what supposedly used to be, but then, I lost my rose-colored glasses long ago.

Nope your right, there are not to many here not guilty in some ways at different times and a few more than others. Everyone was fighting when i first came and it continued. Blame comes very easy to some, alot easier than saying i to am to blame and im sorry. This or any other forum will only be as good as the people want it to be.

Change is a good thing! It is likely that there will be others that come along to replace the roles that past members played. However, hopefully this means a change for the better; a new and improved, kinder, gentler ME/NA. As was mentioned, this forum is only as good as the people who are here and participating. I'm excited to see what unfolds with this forum. It's purpose is a great one. Let's make it great.

[mybackpages 0]

This is the thread that doesn;t die, it's goes on and on my friend.

[Marry American 0]

I am really sorry that JP isn't with us anymore. I don't know what happened but I just saw some of the posts here. I thought JP is awesome and was always helpful with me. It stinks that we can't keep it together. Even if we get upset with each other and get ugly it's ok to say I love you anyway and apologize!!! This week just keeps getting better, I just found out our case is in the mail on it's way to Amman from NVC!!! I'm beside myself with excitement. I know Amman is gonna be like a 6 month wait but it's all good! It seemed like forever just to get here.

Hope everyone has a great night!

I see everyone else adding their two cents in, so I will add mine. I am not sorry at all that jp is gone. She basically attacked a pregnancy thread and me. I will not go into details as all of her firends on here are aware. I think anyone that would be that contemptuous should have been kicked off.

[sarah and hicham 3]

I am really sorry that JP isn't with us anymore. I don't know what happened but I just saw some of the posts here. I thought JP is awesome and was always helpful with me. It stinks that we can't keep it together. Even if we get upset with each other and get ugly it's ok to say I love you anyway and apologize!!! This week just keeps getting better, I just found out our case is in the mail on it's way to Amman from NVC!!! I'm beside myself with excitement. I know Amman is gonna be like a 6 month wait but it's all good! It seemed like forever just to get here.

Hope everyone has a great night!

I see everyone else adding their two cents in, so I will add mine. I am not sorry at all that jp is gone. She basically attacked a pregnancy thread and me. I will not go into details as all of her firends on here are aware. I think anyone that would be that contemptuous should have been kicked off.

It's baaaaaaaaack.

[sarah and hicham 3]

I am really sorry that JP isn't with us anymore. I don't know what happened but I just saw some of the posts here. I thought JP is awesome and was always helpful with me. It stinks that we can't keep it together. Even if we get upset with each other and get ugly it's ok to say I love you anyway and apologize!!! This week just keeps getting better, I just found out our case is in the mail on it's way to Amman from NVC!!! I'm beside myself with excitement. I know Amman is gonna be like a 6 month wait but it's all good! It seemed like forever just to get here.

Hope everyone has a great night!

I see everyone else adding their two cents in, so I will add mine. I am not sorry at all that jp is gone. She basically attacked a pregnancy thread and me. I will not go into details as all of her firends on here are aware. I think anyone that would be that contemptuous should have been kicked off.

ps. Thanks for identifying yourself Hannaouy... I wasn't aware that you changed your name.

[Ban Hammer 13,340]

ps. Thanks for identifying yourself Hannaouy... I wasn't aware that you changed your name.

most of us here already knew that was her. didn't you get the memo?

[cbd2cai 0]

Why are we still humping, Schumping??? Like I care . . . I'm leaving for Cairo in a few hours!!! No Wednesdays on VJ for me for a couple of weeks, yeah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Jenn, please give them all tickets!!

CB

Edited February 24, 2007 by cbd2cai

[Marry American 0]

I am really sorry that JP isn't with us anymore. I don't know what happened but I just saw some of the posts here. I thought JP is awesome and was always helpful with me. It stinks that we can't keep it together. Even if we get upset with each other and get ugly it's ok to say I love you anyway and apologize!!! This week just keeps getting better, I just found out our case is in the mail on it's way to Amman from NVC!!! I'm beside myself with excitement. I know Amman is gonna be like a 6 month wait but it's all good! It seemed like forever just to get here.

Hope everyone has a great night!

I see everyone else adding their two cents in, so I will add mine. I am not sorry at all that jp is gone. She basically attacked a pregnancy thread and me. I will not go into details as all of her firends on here are aware. I think anyone that would be that contemptuous should have been kicked off.

It's baaaaaaaaack.

Unfortunately it never left!!! do like jp

[Marry American 0]

I am really sorry that JP isn't with us anymore. I don't know what happened but I just saw some of the posts here. I thought JP is awesome and was always helpful with me. It stinks that we can't keep it together. Even if we get upset with each other and get ugly it's ok to say I love you anyway and apologize!!! This week just keeps getting better, I just found out our case is in the mail on it's way to Amman from NVC!!! I'm beside myself with excitement. I know Amman is gonna be like a 6 month wait but it's all good! It seemed like forever just to get here.

Hope everyone has a great night!

I see everyone else adding their two cents in, so I will add mine. I am not sorry at all that jp is gone. She basically attacked a pregnancy thread and me. I will not go into details as all of her firends on here are aware. I think anyone that would be that contemptuous should have been kicked off.

ps. Thanks for identifying yourself Hannaouy... I wasn't aware that you changed your name.

I am not surprise you did not know. You do not seem so bright. Especially since you checked my profile.

Edited February 24, 2007 by i adore you