The Thread Formerly Known as The Rant!!

[SAT 9,609]

Niki get me this?

Me love you long time....

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[NikLR 13,228]

Niki get me this?

Me love you long time....

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Me first!!

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Darnell. You like to work at being social but others don't want to be social except for maybe a few very close friends or certain activities. It's okay to be introverted and not want to socialize. Just like it's okay to extroverted and socialize easily. I had to learn to do it as a kid and it's easy for me to become introverted should I find a good book or singular activity... I have zero issues with going to a movie or out to eat on my own, but I enjoy company none-the-less and find myself just fine in a busy environment. I can work retail without issues (beyond the occasional desire to swat people in the back of the head with a 2x4... )

I think if you're more true to WHO you are, and comfortable with that person, you're more likely to stay with someone who is equally so. If you have to try so hard to be a certain way and always have had to, maybe it's just not who you are and something in the thinking pattern should change.

While I may not like parts of who I am, it is who I am and I accept that. Somethings you can change, and others you're just pretending and that will bite you in the butt more often than not. My husband knows exactly who he is. While I think he should try to expand that occasionally (it's good to grow) I'm not about to change him and nor do I want to. We're just different enough to balance each other.

It's funny because in our relationship, when it started, we noticed all the similarities. Now we notice all the differences because the similarities are just common day things.

Edited July 18, 2015 by NLR

[SAT 9,609]

Me first!!

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.

While I may not like parts of who I am,

1- Man....Niki= la cheapa.....

2- The part of you that you don't like pic now......

[SAT 9,609]

Yum yum....roast snake......

[SAT 9,609]

Hillbilly'd be like "I'd eat that"........

[NikLR 13,228]

Well i'm not posting a pic of me crying.. LOL

[Darnell 8,478]

Me first!!

______________________

Darnell. You like to work at being social but others don't want to be social except for maybe a few very close friends or certain activities. It's okay to be introverted and not want to socialize. Just like it's okay to extroverted and socialize easily. I had to learn to do it as a kid and it's easy for me to become introverted should I find a good book or singular activity... I have zero issues with going to a movie or out to eat on my own, but I enjoy company none-the-less and find myself just fine in a busy environment. I can work retail without issues (beyond the occasional desire to swat people in the back of the head with a 2x4... )

I think if you're more true to WHO you are, and comfortable with that person, you're more likely to stay with someone who is equally so. If you have to try so hard to be a certain way and always have had to, maybe it's just not who you are and something in the thinking pattern should change.

While I may not like parts of who I am, it is who I am and I accept that. Somethings you can change, and others you're just pretending and that will bite you in the butt more often than not. My husband knows exactly who he is. While I think he should try to expand that occasionally (it's good to grow) I'm not about to change him and nor do I want to. We're just different enough to balance each other.

It's funny because in our relationship, when it started, we noticed all the similarities. Now we notice all the differences because the similarities are just common day things.

i dunno, I made a lot o money being social. i don't like being social. i like money. i was lucky, able to stop working like a dog before age 50. so, i have skills at being social. i don't like doing it, it's not who I am. Since I like money, apparently (by your posit) I'm not being true to myself. I don't care about that. I care about money. OK ? OK !

and I do like forming krewes, fwiw.

[SAT 9,609]

Well i'm not posting a pic of me crying.. LOL

Now we know your weakness .....

And, crying pic now.....

[NikLR 13,228]

Well since you can retire.. why not find someone to retire with... but you can only do that by being true to you, whomever that you is.

I probably should care more about money. It sucks when yer broke. But I don't.... I've been happy being poor.

It's easy to be social when you are putting on a front.

One thing I really learned in relationships is that do whatever you would normally do from the start. I f-ing HATE when guys are all gooshy and sweet to start and then back off as they get feelings or feel yer hooked or whatever... I've had a lot of short relationships because of that. Be who you are. Always.

I'll marry just this once. That's it.

Edited July 18, 2015 by NLR

[TBoneTX 45,572]

oh, that's easy. I'm so anti-social when I am alone, I just assume that social people gang together to do stuff. It is always difficult for me to gang together with people to do stuff

Personally, we hate people, animals, and things, si man.

I see that tooth Many had been roaming around again.....

She needs to read her PMs, grrr man.

[TBoneTX 45,572]

1. Well since you can retire.. why not find someone to retire with...

2. I'll marry just this once. That's it.

1. We were tired yesterday and are tired again today, thus making us re-tired, see man.

2. Independent of the availability of the rubias, Mrs. T-B. is probably our final wife, she man.

Edited July 18, 2015 by TBoneTX

[TBoneTX 45,572]

End-Friday end-report, hindquarters-of-the-day man:

Got most of infernal corporate POTS contracts done, grrr man.

Next week, can concentrate chiefly on individual sales, great clamor man.

Casa-ward commute largely a dream except for having to dodge turtles, semi-grrr man.

Mowed lawn, mostly in shade man.

Noted that Mrs. T-B. had charmed yard krewe into weed-whacking, year's growth man.

They didn't even insist on immediate payment, proficient charmer she man.

Dry grass surprisingly high, no rain but strong growth man.

Completely soaked through Many sweatbands, humid man.

Recovered bit better than usual, Manygenarian corpus man.

Tiff Mrs. T-B. served yesterday's dinner leftovers, churrasco man.

Then went out to ATM to replenish wallet for GSs, tomorrow man.

Then watched late TV news and almost fell asleep, near-zzz man.

Hard to stay awake, near-zzz man.

Good-looking GSs/MSs tomorrow, hope man.

One ES a bit far removed and perhaps a solo Sunday trip, discounts man.

Cat prep zzz man.

Mornin', Commie- or non-babes with +1 inventories!

[Jacque67 7,328]

Typhoon passing overhead. Stuck in the dentist's office...zzzzz

Typhoon passing overhead. Stuck in the dentist's office...zzzzz

[Darnell 8,478]

She needs to read her PMs, grrr man.

eh - i don't know the backstory at all, but I'm gleaning that no amount of PMs from you to her will change the situation. If/when there's a noticeable behavior change from/on you, (again IMO) then I also glean she'll participate again.

#Drama !

[SAT 9,609]

Typhoon passing overhead. Stuck in the dentist's office...zzzzz

Typhoon passing overhead. Stuck in the dentist's office...zzzzz

oh no, you just triggered Tark's "Business Typhoon" joke