Why Do Women Stay With Men Who Treat Them Poorly

[Janelle2002 3,865]

Ok.

So, many people are on here talking about their VJ and trying to unit themselves with their love one. Of course, where their is dating and marriages there can be trouble.

I wonder, why do women stay with men who treat them poorly, from both sides of the lines, U.S. women and foreign women.

Let's discuss.

[Transborderwife 4,666]

You're missing a HUGE option. Fear plain and simple. The fear of not being good enough for someone else, or even perhaps the fear of violence and/or other abuses.

[Janelle2002 3,865]

You're missing a HUGE option. Fear plain and simple. The fear of not being good enough for someone else, or even perhaps the fear of violence and/or other abuses.

Ok. I added 2 more choices.

Play ball!

[VOL 425]

I don't see many US men treating their woman bad, in fact it quite the opposite

I have seen a heck a lot more US Woman treating their men bad.....

[Janelle2002 3,865]

I don't see many US men treating their woman bad, in fact it quite the opposite

I have seen a heck a lot more US Woman treating their men bad.....

What?? You are joking...... right?

Back to topic, that you know of, if the U.S. woman or foreign woman is being treated bad, why does she stay in the situation?

[VOL 425]

What?? You are joking...... right?

Not joking at all.

I know many guys who ask for permission to go out or to go fishing. They work and make the lion share of the money and the woman controls the money.

[Trumplestiltskin 5,791]

I don't see many US men treating their woman bad, in fact it quite the opposite

I have seen a heck a lot more US Woman treating their men bad.....

As generalisations go, that's a pretty useless one.

The question should be why would anyone stay with someone or in a situation that they are unhappy with?

[VOL 425]

As generalisations go, that's a pretty useless one.

The question should be why would anyone stay with someone or in a situation that they are unhappy with?

Most of the guys that I know stay in a relationship or marriage due to having kids, and they know if they divorce the woman will rake them over the coals in family court and they will be out a small fortune in child support.

I have always said if you get rid of child support in the USA, then the divorce rate would fall

[Trumplestiltskin 5,791]

That's quite a biased view of women you have there.

[VOL 425]

That's quite a biased view of women you have there.

Thank You

When was the last time you heard a Man tell a Womman "I will divorce you and take everything you have"

I have never heard it either, But I have sure heard many a woman tell that to their man........

[Transborderwife 4,666]

Thank You

When was the last time you heard a Man tell a Womman "I will divorce you and take everything you have"

I have never heard it either, But I have sure heard many a woman tell that to their man........

My ex husband...

[Trumplestiltskin 5,791]

Thank You

When was the last time you heard a Man tell a Womman "I will divorce you and take everything you have"

I have never heard it either, But I have sure heard many a woman tell that to their man........

I don't tend to listen in on people's private conversations.

[novedsac 355]

Most of the guys that I know stay in a relationship or marriage due to having kids, and they know if they divorce the woman will rake them over the coals in family court and they will be out a small fortune in child support.

I have always said if you get rid of child support in the USA, then the divorce rate would fall

So, if you're married you don't have to support your child?

[VOL 425]

So, if you're married you don't have to support your child?

You should, but one shouldn't have a court order saying how much you have to support a child.

Family court in USA is very biased toward the female, She almost has to be a felon or some serious charge or just a plain looser, in order for the man to gain custody in most divorce

[Jacque67 7,328]

Most of the guys that I know stay in a relationship or marriage due to having kids, and they know if they divorce the woman will rake them over the coals in family court and they will be out a small fortune in child support.

I have always said if you get rid of child support in the USA, then the divorce rate would fall

Surely the divorce rate would rise as all of the guys would bail out of their abusive relationships knowing they wouldn't have to pay support?