Cold Feet and Second Thoughts

[terri_blake 10]

When anyone comes to a public forum they put themselves at risk. Your story has been nothing less than... far fetched if you will. I'm not saying it's not true, but it's also not very convincing at times. When you add a photo that is looks like it could of been ripped off of any website that just adds to the doubt readers have when reading your posts. Why not use a more believable photo if you want to shoot down the doubters? If it bothers you so much. My point is you put yourself out there for these types of reactions. To get back on topic, before the Mods shut down yet another one of your threads, I'm curious as to the advice your Sister gives you? What does she think of all of this? Does she know of this child? Are you traveling alone to Egypt? How do you communicate with his Mother if she doesn't know English? Do you speak Arabic?

OMG!!!# why are you people so hung up on photos?!?!?!?

MY PHOTO IS REAL!!!!!

[Elle&Kev 120]

OMG!!!# why are you people so hung up on photos?!?!?!?

MY PHOTO IS REAL!!!!!

Calm down! I didn't say it wasn't really you. I pointed out what seems to be doubtful to many here. Why don't you EVER answer any legitimate questions? You always jump subjects and go on the attack. I asked you previously if the girl was your sisters Ex's daughter? You never answered. Because if she is then she isn't a niece she would be a cousin. I also posted about the law in Egypt as to who cares for a child. You never commented. Why can't you just answer properly? If you want help then accept the help. If you don't then quit posting threads that make you look like you're just pulling everyones leg.

[jola83 19]

Seriously who cares if the pictures are fake ,it doesn't mean the story is fake but seriously this post may as well be shut down as

Even though Terri has made a lot of posts doubting her fiance it seems pretty obvious no matter what anyone else says she is going to go ahead with this process no matter what,so I think we are all wasting our times sadly

[Ebunoluwa 6,136]

Some things in life we have to learn the hard way and for OP this is one such thing no matter how wise and helpful the advice here has been.

OP is not discouraged by manipulation and lies therefore all I can say is good luck !

[Elle&Kev 120]

Seriously who cares if the pictures are fake ,it doesn't mean the story is fake but seriously this post may as well be shut down as

Even though Terri has made a lot of posts doubting her fiance it seems pretty obvious no matter what anyone else says she is going to go ahead with this process no matter what,so I think we are all wasting our times sadly

I agree with you. My point to Terri was she keeps getting slack for it and if it bothers her then change it. People on here and forums everywhere use pics that are not them such as flowers or cartoon characters, etc. If you've followed all of her posts you'll see she never answers legitimate questions. She goes off on another topic.

[jola83 19]

I agree with you. My point to Terri was she keeps getting slack for it and if it bothers her then change it. People on here and forums everywhere use pics that are not them such as flowers or cartoon characters, etc. If you've followed all of her posts you'll see she never answers legitimate questions. She goes off on another topic.

In ways I hope it is a fake account as in all honesty u think she's asking for trouble traveling to meet this guy esp after she has voiced her doubts to him .i think its fair to say I think it's as clear as day to everyone else that there is too many things going on for this guy to be genuine.

[cdneh 3,112]

just who do you think you are trying to analyze me and sum up my life by reading a few posts on a message board? Get real! You don't know me you don't know my situation you're nothing but a judger! ask a few questions first before you jump to conclusions when you're absolutely wrong! get over yourself.

1.I am a Christian. I am a proud Christian. I was raised to be a Christian and believe in my Savior the Lord Jesus Christ! If I want a shoutout Jesus Christ name when I feel I need to call upon Him, that's what I shall do! It's not up to you to be the judge and jury on how much faith I have in my religion. Who do you think you are? Are you even religious? Have you even studied Pentecostal Christianity? I don't think you have! I think you are nothing but a person on here who is looking for a problem and you think that you have found one in me. Get over yourself!

2. my name is not Terri-Blake. those two names are part of my real name. Do you think I would be that much of an idiot to come on here and put out my real name? Get over yourself and get your facts together.

3.are you really putting a score on my love life? Let's talk about your love life shall we. It must not be so great since you're on here trying to read and judge mine. Where's your other half? Where is your spouse? Where is your soul mate? Evidently, they must be missing in action because you're on here trying to judge Terri Blake, a person you claim to be a troll and fake and using a fake picture. Some life you have!

If you would like to continue posting your questions, and yet not listening to the answers, I suggest you modulate your tone.

[jola83 19]

Ok I have gone back and read through all the posts Terri if you don't want to be doubted why can't you answer people's genuine questions who are trying to help you out .I think the main things people are confused about is .is this child the daughter of your sisters ex ? If so as everyone said this would make the child your finances cousin not niece ? Did your sister know about the child ? .

My bet is the child is not his cousin or his niece .it's his daughter and highly likely the child's mother is already in America and your fiance and child will be running off to her once you guys married the same way your sisters ex did .don't you think it's very convenient he forgot to tell you he's taking Care of this kid til after the fact you were engaged

[terri_blake 10]

Here we go again with the attacks. Ive learned from last week how to conduct myself on this forum and those of you on the attack will be totally disregarded.

[Boiler 45,236]

She said the child is the daughter of her sisters husband.

[terri_blake 10]

Ok I have gone back and read through all the posts Terri if you don't want to be doubted why can't you answer people's genuine questions who are trying to help you out .I think the main things people are confused about is .is this child the daughter of your sisters ex ? If so as everyone said this would make the child your finances cousin not niece ? Did your sister know about the child ? .

My bet is the child is not his cousin or his niece .it's his daughter and highly likely the child's mother is already in America and your fiance and child will be running off to her once you guys married the same way your sisters ex did .don't you think it's very convenient he forgot to tell you he's taking Care of this kid til after the fact you were engaged

The little girl is indeed the daughter of my sister's husband Tony who is the paternal STEP uncle of my fiance. They sre not blood related but he is the brother to my fiances STEP FATHER. The child's mother is my fiances SISTER --blood sister. This is why Iam unable to speak about it. She was rejected from the family 4 yrs ago and rumor has it she lives here in the US now. Edited April 28, 2015 by terri_blake

[Elle&Kev 120]

Are you going to answer the questions? Did you read the article I posted on the law in Egypt? That alone should tell you something is rotten in Denmark.... err Egypt.

[Elle&Kev 120]

The little girl is indeed the daughter of my sister's husband Tony who is the paternal STEP uncle of my fiance. They sre not blood related but he is the brother to my fiances STEP FATHER. The child's mother is my fiances SISTER --blood sister. This is why Iam unable to speak about it. She was rejected from the family 4 yrs ago and rumor has it she lives here in the US now.

This is complicated... So let me get the facts straight. Your sisters ex fathered a child with your fiancee sister? Can your sister confirm this? Why is the child not with one of the females in the family?

[terri_blake 10]

This is complicated... So let me get the facts straight. Your sisters ex fathered a child with your fiancee sister? Can your sister confirm this? Why is the child not with one of the females in the family?

What difference does it make????? The entire family lives together in one big house. 8 familt members.

[terri_blake 10]

Seriously who cares if the pictures are fake ,it doesn't mean the story is fake but seriously this post may as well be shut down as

Even though Terri has made a lot of posts doubting her fiance it seems pretty obvious no matter what anyone else says she is going to go ahead with this process no matter what,so I think we are all wasting our times sadly

I hear everything you all are saying. Trust me, I hear you loud and clear.