divorce before conditions are lifted

[sergioh 0]

First let me state that a VISA is the means to travel from one airport to another, that means to go to the country it issued you the VISA. So, what that means is that you can Travel from Nigeria to US and put a foot in US soil, but at the port of entry, you can be denied to enter the United States. Even if you have a VISA, it does not give you the right to enter the country. The VISA is the means for the Officer to decide if you can entered and it is based on the approvals on many things. Secondly, when you enter, you entered with the K-3 Visa, you didn't entered with the other VISA, so you can't use the other VISA as a pretext to stay in the US. You entered with the K-3, so that means you are in the US through the K-3.

Now, if your wife divorces you, I would say, you should leave the country because that decreases the chances of you coming back to the US in some form.

If you stay, you risk the chance to be deported and probably never enter the US for probably 10 years or more. My best recommendation would be for you to get the divorce done and if you truly believe that she is divorcing you because of another man then make sure you can have some prove and hold that prove. Keep the letter that she is going to give you stating that she lost the love towards you and that she decided to seek divorce.

Once the divorce is done, you should go back to your country. Do not get married. What's the rush for you to jump from one boat to another? Wait for at least 10 months or a year. Then if you love the woman you are with and she loves you, then she will make the effort to go visit you at least 3 - 4 times to your home country, right?. Then you can get married and that gives you a better chance to bring prove to the table that the new marriage is genuine, correct?. Then she can go through the whole process and file for the papers again.

Keep in mind that the US put a lot of blocks to make sure the marriage is genuine. The US is trying its best to make sure you are close to your family, but at the same time they want to make sure you are playing a fair game and that you have the right intentions to come to the US, which is? TO BE WITH YOUR LOVE ONES.

Everything that I have written in here is just suggestions. You should seek an Attorney and see what he/she will say.

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

In answer to your question, I guess she fell out out of love as quickly as you have managed to fall in love....In my opinion you seem only concerned with staying in the States.....maybe that's the impression your wife got?

[Jasman0717 9]

If this is for real, you're going to need an attorney.