Can anybody help me

[Irene2008 0]

Hi I'm Irene currently residing here in Saudi arabia and got home this coming dec.by God's grace in Philippines..i have Bf from Wisconsin we send conversation everyday and he call me every other day through his Landline and in my mobile number.My question is what is the fastest way to move i wisconsin Spouse visa or Fiancee? Coz we plan to marry in my country soon And Iam single mom so we plan also he going to adopt my daughter and bring together but if it takes so long do you think guys better got married in u.s and file fiancee only so i can hitch in wisconsin as soon as possible? PLEASE answer me thanks and God bless us all

[aaron2020 11,651]

Hi,

When was the last time that you and your boyfriend met face to face?

[Irene2008 0]

Hi aaron good day! thanks for your reply will, i.meet him on dating site for now i work here in saudi arabia and finish my contract this dec. And come back in Philippines..So that the time we will meet in Real but as of now we change conversation everyday through private email and phone calls..we plan to get married hopefully this year so he cab adopt my daughter but i think it takes time for me to hitch over there if i get spouse visa..what you think? Is fiancee visa and got married ib U.S is better than spouse visa and got married in my country? Let me know if you know what is better coz its my first time ehhehehe i would be apreciate for your reply thank you and God bless

[Irene2008 0]

Hi aaron good day! thanks for your reply will, i.meet him on dating site for now i work here in saudi arabia and finish my contract this dec. And come back in Philippines..So that the time we will meet in Real but as of now we change conversation everyday through private email and phone calls..we plan to get married hopefully this year so he cab adopt my daughter but i think it takes time for me to hitch over there if i get spouse visa..what you think? Is fiancee visa and got married ib U.S is better than spouse visa and got married in my country? Let me know if you know what is better coz its my first time ehhehehe i would be apreciate for your reply thank you and God bless

[aaron2020 11,651]

Have you meet face to face? This is a yes or no answer.

[LykaMarc 19]

Hi aaron good day! thanks for your reply will, i.meet him on dating site for now i work here in saudi arabia and finish my contract this dec. And come back in Philippines..So that the time we will meet in Real but as of now we change conversation everyday through private email and phone calls..we plan to get married hopefully this year so he cab adopt my daughter but i think it takes time for me to hitch over there if i get spouse visa..what you think? Is fiancee visa and got married ib U.S is better than spouse visa and got married in my country? Let me know if you know what is better coz its my first time ehhehehe i would be apreciate for your reply thank you and God bless

Bottom line is that you cannot do either unless your boyfriend meets you in person, face-to-face, in "real." If that happens, the fiancee visa is usually the fastest way for you to come to the US. After your boyfriend meets you in person (take plenty of pictures together), he will be the one to petition for your visa once he returns to the US. The fiancee visa petition will NOT be approved without evidence that you and him met in person during the two years preceding the date the petition is filed. Good luck.

[Irene2008 0]

Hello again,

Thank you so much for your good advice atleast now i know what is the better things to do..Ahmm so you mean after meeting each other in real then he return to U.S that the time he can file Petition letter for me to come in U.S? And apply a Fiancee Visa? How many months it takes so i can Hitch there? Do you have any idea? THANK YOU AGAIN HAVE A BLESS SUNDAY

[Darnell 8,478]

must meet face to face. I suggest to chase K-1, will be faster for you.

contract expire december 2015? I suggest he go to meet you in Saudi prior. give him a signed G-325-A form and signed letter of intent to marry.

whilst you are still in saudi - get a police clearance certificate 2 weeks prior to contract expire.

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so, about 2 weeks after this meet up in saudi arabia,

have him file the I-129F petition for you, with consular interview pegged for Manila (not Saudi)

Will file 2 DS-160's later, one for you, one for your child. That's it, really.

Go Get Em, and Good Luck !

[Ryan H 3,812]

Moved from IMBRA Special Topics to What Visa Do I Need - Family Based Immigration forum.

[Irene2008 0]

Hi Darnell,

Thank you! I wish that too but it's gonna be hard for me if we meet here because of you know muslim and so strict country and not open city..Because i also work in the house so all i have to do now is to be patient and if this go better maaybe i.will not finish my contract that will be end in dec.so i can early meet my bf in philippines..But, everyday we share conversation through private email and phone calls..my plan is got married in phil.and he can adopt my daughter but maybe it takes so long time for me to move in my future husband so maybe better we just got engage and meet and person so i can hitch as soon as possible and just bring my daughter next time..But why is it spouse visa takes so long? What the differences with fiancee and spouse visa?

[Darnell 8,478]

ok - if marry in the PI, no need to adopt the daughter after marriage or even prior to visa approval,

as

CR-2 visa allows child to transit into USA, with assumption child lives with you two. suggest adoption after child arrives in USA, not prior.

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if you are a nurse, then is easy to meet up in saudi.

if you are an in-home caretaker, then it is very difficult.

so, for now, if you two seriously seek marriage in the PI, then you will be chasing the CR-1 and CR-2 visas, with interview in Manila.

I think you should study time-ticks and timelines, get some idea of the duration of time on 'waiting'.

Quickly.

Before another decision is made between you two.

[Boiler 45,557]

Horse and Cart come to mind.

[Darnell 8,478]

nah - it's the evil 'i'm on a handphone' dilemma... unless the cart is behind the horse, someone slinging the horse-poo into it.

Edited March 8, 2015 by Darnell

[Irene2008 0]

Thank you Darnell for giving a time to reply my concern..God bless

Its my first time so i have no idea for anything but so thankful that i found this site to help me :-)

[Darnell 8,478]

is ok . relax a bit, aye?

if i were in your shoes, my first thought would be - do i wish to renew the contract in December or no ?

then plan a life around that decision.

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I did reread all of your stuff here, moments ago - and some facts jump at me:

1. you've not met face to face yet.

2. your regular work contract ends in December 2015 and you are planning to end it early, to get to the PI so you can meet him and marry.

so - with these 2 things, if your child is under age 18 by the time you two marry,

suggest to marry in the PI this year, file 2 I-130's [one for you, one for child] and then wait it out in the PI.

How long to wait? it's difficult to say - 6 months to 2 years, depending on too many factors to write about.

Edited March 8, 2015 by Darnell