im married to a crazy woman i need help

[carl12288 4]

You need to leave her. Life is too short. This is America, women have have the advantage, so just get out of this marriage, and sometimes people go crazy and physically hurt their spouse or worse. My ex wife used to hit me and I could not do anything, so just be careful.

[Team MicVic! 46]

Is there a big age difference? Is she attractive? Do you include her in your plans? Are you affectionate, transparent and loving with her? There has to more to it. Are you flexing in the gym all day or do you work and spend time with your wife most times? There has to be some underlying issued behind her behavior.

[msbau764 245]

i have been married with my wife for 5 years now and i have 10 years green card and i have one problem is my wife i love her so much but she drive me crazy and the problems we have is

she is so jealous she dont trust me and i never cheat in my life the problem is i love to workout but its drive my wife crazy how girls dress at the gym and if a girl workout close to me she will come to me and tell me u need to change the spot i dont want y husband close to those bitches if i say that not good you not suppose to insult them they are free to wear what they want and she tell me you defend them because you like to look at them and i cant even watch tv how i want i cant watch shows have women wearing cloths show their body she come to my job to see who is working with me and she accuse me of me talking to the girls at my work and i said sometime because we work at the same job and she accuse me of cheating and we always fight i don't know what to do i hate this married i wish i never married this American woman i love her that why im so confused right now leave or stay im lost i need advices please

sorry i dont know where im suppose to write this but i really need help im getting crazy

You need to find out if she is cheating you. A person that is unfaithful many times is the first to be accusatory and will actually project their insecurity about themselves on you. Trust me.

[Bonnie&Bob 33]

You need to tell her your done with this crazy behavior. Give her a choice.

(Choice #1)...She goes to a counciller to deal with her problem

(Choice #2)...Tell her to get a lawyer for a divorce.

That is abuse. When you went through the immigration process they would have given you a pamphlet on abusive immigration relationships. I would advise you read it. She didn't buy you and can not stop you from having a life not only with her but at work, watching tv, and going to the gym. She has created a Jailed Relationship with you. This is cruel and I feel for you. I hope things work out but if not, move on. Good luck.

[Kolewenoik31 57]

Please do not listen to people that tell you to leave your wife. You married her and no one twisted your arm. Your only biblical reason for divorce is death, secondly adultery. As so many have said....work it out, even if you have stopped loving her ask God to heal your marriage and pray more than ever before. Talk things through with her. None of us should tell you to leave her. There is always 3 sides to a story.

[Jon and Krissy 452]

i have been married with my wife for 5 years now and i have 10 years green card and i have one problem is my wife i love her so much but she drive me crazy and the problems we have is

she is so jealous she dont trust me and i never cheat in my life the problem is i love to workout but its drive my wife crazy how girls dress at the gym and if a girl workout close to me she will come to me and tell me u need to change the spot i dont want y husband close to those bitches if i say that not good you not suppose to insult them they are free to wear what they want and she tell me you defend them because you like to look at them and i cant even watch tv how i want i cant watch shows have women wearing cloths show their body she come to my job to see who is working with me and she accuse me of me talking to the girls at my work and i said sometime because we work at the same job and she accuse me of cheating and we always fight i don't know what to do i hate this married i wish i never married this American woman i love her that why im so confused right now leave or stay im lost i need advices please

sorry i dont know where im suppose to write this but i really need help im getting crazy

DTMFA. Woman be crazy.

[indiana_sweetie 120]

Some spontaneous "I love you's" and "you are beautiful" and "you are the love of my life" might help. Try working out at home. She sounds insecure. Are other women trying to flirt with you?

[Not a Tailor 1,370]

Please do not listen to people that tell you to leave your wife. You married her and no one twisted your arm. Your only biblical reason for divorce is death, secondly adultery. As so many have said....work it out, even if you have stopped loving her ask God to heal your marriage and pray more than ever before. Talk things through with her. None of us should tell you to leave her. There is always 3 sides to a story.

Controlling behaviour is abuse. Would you advise a woman who was being beaten by their husband to stay and that no one twisted her arm to marry him? This is the same thing, with a different type of abuse.

[Jon and Krissy 452]

Please do not listen to people that tell you to leave your wife. You married her and no one twisted your arm. Your only biblical reason for divorce is death, secondly adultery. As so many have said....work it out, even if you have stopped loving her ask God to heal your marriage and pray more than ever before. Talk things through with her. None of us should tell you to leave her. There is always 3 sides to a story.

Fortunately, The United States isn't under religious dictate, but rather, has a secular legal system, unlike, for example, Saudi Arabia, so he is not compelled to stay married to this psycho.

Some spontaneous "I love you's" and "you are beautiful" and "you are the love of my life" might help. Try working out at home. She sounds insecure. Are other women trying to flirt with you?

Your best advice is that he should be a prisoner in his own house because his wife is deranged? Oh, well done.

[nabil kazawi 0]

i care for her that why its hard for me to leave her but she drive me crazy

and i cant go no where by my self she have to go everywhere i go

and i cant go no where by my self she have to go everywhere i go

[MrsBeaver 21]

Wow...for everyone who said stay...really... Did you guys notice she shows up at his JOB!! That is not acceptable. . Sorry, if this was on the other foot people wouldn't tell you yo stay... By the way being an American woman, we are not all jealous and possessive. . My husband is attractive and athletic but I'm beautiful as well. She needs to get a life.. Maybe ask her, why did she marry you if she felt this way... Sound Like you are in prison. . Did something change? Is she much older? Was she like this the entire 5 years? If so why did you stay that long... Why did it now become unbearable? ? Just questions or things that make you go hmmmm..... Good luck

[tiko1426 17]

Is there a big age difference? Is she attractive? Do you include her in your plans? Are you affectionate, transparent and loving with her? There has to more to it. Are you flexing in the gym all day or do you work and spend time with your wife most times? There has to be some underlying issued behind her behavior.

Best Reply So Far Team Mic Vic... Now here is my 2 cents.. Mabye she is trying to tell you she wants to do a threesome... HEY ya never know..

[raven52 233]

This sounds way past counseling.

If she has nothing to prove you have ever done anything to betray your marriage, then, ""YOU are guilty until proven innocent!""

Which might never happen.

If it was me, I would tell her, "YOU set the date and time, for a very important conversation. Have no distractions around, tell her how much you love her, but also, tell her ""SHE is driving you away from the marriage, and the mis-trust MUST stop at once, or YOU will see a lawyer!""

See what happens, I could not put up with that, if I was totally innocent. Worst thing in the world, is accuse someone of something, they "did" not do!

[Boiler 45,468]

As far as being hit on in Gyms any such sexual harassment should be reported to the management.

Remember no means no. Such behaviour is simply not acceptable.

[Jon and Krissy 452]

As far as being hit on in Gyms any such sexual harassment should be reported to the management.

Remember no means no. Such behaviour is simply not acceptable.

Being hit on <> sexual harassment. Are you suggesting that anytime anyone expresses interest in someone in a business establishment or public venue that they should be 'reported'? Sounds like Saudi Arabia.

Edited February 4, 2015 by Jon and Sol