Gone with the Rant

[SAT 9,609]

I think it is a bad/stupid plan to use baby to trap the man in a relationship.

How dare you speak such evil of stretch!

[N-o-l-a 7,168]

But your SIL will love you if you dun visit...

She was under the mistaken impression that everything was alright with us because I was knocked up.

I corrected that mistake thankfully.

I think it is more me that has the problem rather than the other way around. I'm a very unforgiving unyielding type of person.

[Merrytooth 5,748]

How dare you speak such evil of stretch!

I am referring to you! lol...

She was under the mistaken impression that everything was alright with us because I was knocked up.

I corrected that mistake thankfully.

I think it is more me that has the problem rather than the other way around. I'm a very unforgiving unyielding type of person.

[kitthekat 1,317]

Because some people are too dumb to communicate with

Happy for you!

Your hubs coming home with you then?

that is what we had planned for but her surgery is happening sooner than we thought and we are stuck in a lease till end april. he won't be coming with me

1 way ticket?

You're leaving forever?

no, i'll be back end march. long story involving us possibly buying a place here but if i do move back 'forever', it won't be till later this year.

######, we're not going back until next summer - so like 3 years after coming to America.

I'm a bad American wife.

does he miss home/want to visit home?

[SAT 9,609]

I am referring to you! lol...

Me? I intentionally knocked tiff up.....

And, Trophie sure likes to hold a grudge.....

[N-o-l-a 7,168]

I am referring to you! lol...

Forgiveness is a weird concept. If someone has changed their pattern of behavior and seems remorseful, then we can move past it, but to just forgive? No.

that is what we had planned for but her surgery is happening sooner than we thought and we are stuck in a lease till end april. he won't be coming with me

no, i'll be back end march. long story involving us possibly buying a place here but if i do move back 'forever', it won't be till later this year.

does he miss home/want to visit home?

It is hard picking a country and coordinating travel plans and such. It will be nice to focus on your mother's healing, though.

I don't think he really cares that much. To him, home is wherever we are. He is very adaptable, a trait we do not share.

[N-o-l-a 7,168]

Me? I intentionally knocked tiff up.....

And, Trophie sure likes to hold a grudge.....

Interesting timing. I could say the same of the conception of my daughter though as well.

It is why I am not a doormat. I'll forgive (well, not forgive, but rather ignore) my mother things because she has done quite a lot for me and I do genuinely think she tries her best and is a good person. Other family, not so much. I've even cut off aunts just for associating with my father.

Edited February 3, 2015 by N-o-l-a

[kitthekat 1,317]

I don't think he really cares that much. To him, home is wherever we are. He is very adaptable, a trait we do not share.

that's a very good quality to have.

[Ontarkie 14,295]

How dare you speak such evil of stretch!

Ontarkie.. I'm about to smash my head off the keyboard. Why... why... why...

Oh I can join you with that one. Maybe we need rubber keyboards.

[Merrytooth 5,748]

that is what we had planned for but her surgery is happening sooner than we thought and we are stuck in a lease till end april. he won't be coming with me

no, i'll be back end march. long story involving us possibly buying a place here but if i do move back 'forever', it won't be till later this year.

I hope you have researched about the possibility of getting PR for your hubs should you decide to move back to Singapore 'forever'.

Singapore men are already having a hard time getting PR for foreign wives without degree.

I imagine it would be even tougher for Singapore women with foreign husbands.

[kitthekat 1,317]

I hope you have researched about the possibility of getting PR for your hubs should you decide to move back to Singapore 'forever'.

Singapore men are already having a hard time getting PR for foreign wives without degree.

I imagine it would be even tougher for Singapore women with foreign husbands.

we aren't gonna apply for PR right away, too many variables still. we are going to apply for an LTVP+ first and then later on once we have decided for sure where we want to live, maybe then we'll apply for his PR.

omg i will be back in time for CNY bakkwa!

[SAT 9,609]

Oh I can join you with that one. Maybe we need rubber keyboards.

I dunno about the keyboard, but you definitely need a rubber now

[SAT 9,609]

we aren't gonna apply for PR right away, too many variables still. we are going to apply for an LTVP+ first and then later on once we have decided for sure where we want to live, maybe then we'll apply for his PR.

omg i will be back in time for CNY bakkwa!

There are some of these great jerky thingies in NY.

[Ontarkie 14,295]

I dunno about the keyboard, but you definitely need a rubber now

Hahaha no I don't

[SAT 9,609]

Man I'm shot....going to bed....

But first.....

Hahaha no I don't

Ah I see you came to your senses huh?