For the parents in da house

[Heartland 0]

QUOTE(heartland @ Feb 7 2007, 01:01 PM)

My daughter who is 11 keeps saying she wants life the way it use to be. Where my mom was with us, her sister was here and she had me to herself.

I think I'm hormonal right now 'cause that made me cry. That is exactly what I know my daughters will say since it has been the "three muskateers" for so long.

I understand trust me there! I just hope my daughter will understand her bio-dad who she defends to the death cares little for her yet my husband cares alot for her. He will even defend her to me telling me not to punish her or even chastise her! UGH!

I think it will always be a little tough situation, life is changing from the original structure, someone new in the house. This someone is getting alot of attention from mom, you can guarantee they are going to act up in someway, combined families all go thru a certain amount of this. Unfortunately the mom is the one in the middle, hopefully the husbands are good to try and understand what is happening and try to do the best both of you can do to get thru these times. Children have a sense of how and when to push the right buttons.

I really hope my husband will be able to cope with all that goes on here once he comes. I know it will be a big change for him to live her anyways...