your fiance/husband's first night in america...

[natty bumppo 297]

Do this a lot. Men like that.

to a point ... only to a point.

[brnidokiegurl 0]

THe word is now xes tell yourself (resist, resist) the eyes well maybe but how about the running of fingers thru their hair and back of the necks (im whispering) especially when driving

[Sofiyya 1,687]

Do this a lot. Men like that.

to a point ... only to a point.

I added it to be funny. When I do it to my husband, he asks me what's going on with my eyes. He doesn't see what's so romantic about staring at him adoringly. Some men might . . .

[Private 1]

I am so upset I was not on here for this trend, but I will have to say that nobody is perfect. We are not perfect muslims and will never be, if one person does something but does not do another thing than so what. I have noticed in myself that sometimes we carry around a Christian mentality. We do not have hypocritics in Islam, we are all growing as muslims. Maybe you are doing something that I am not doing. I know people that drink and i think it is wrong but I do things that some may consider incorrect behavior. I think we should stop with the judging. Some people ask questions yes I know the knowledge does that mean I apply it all the time. I try my best but I do not. There are a lot of things that we have to consider as muslims and we never stop learning and growing. So what you think is not appropriate could be just that person growing out of a phrase. I am not sure what is going on but these trends of entertaining and we learn alot. I think I have learned the most hadith from this group then anybody. Personalities are different and yes they will clash. however when you are on a public board it is a free for all. I have learned this and I have learn the PM option.

I am a Green-eyed girl FAN. I was waiting for the new album!!!

That's cool! Just remember this post when she calls you out as a ####### because you didn't get married the way she deems necessary.

I am the wrong tree to run up. I am strong in faith and character and i will tell you this if people go and post there personal busy then get over it you will hear things you do not like. I remember my time when I was denied and everyone went after me. You know what I did, I ignored those people. What is there to say. Something else I read this whole trend all day because it was funny. Why would you bring up something from an old trend? What was the purpose to attack her. I personally feel like this was being done and I understand exactly where she is coming from. I do not come on here and tell people that I lived with my boyfriend etc, knowing I am muslim. And that I will be called on it. You have some people ask questions and when you ask a question be prepared for the answers. I am not a saint and will never claim but it is Hadith that you do not air out your sins and your relationship with god is yours. Green-eyed girl from my understand has a Masters in Islamic Studies. If she is sharing then find. I know a few muslims that eat pork (things that have it in it) and they think it is ok or too hard to find stuff without it. But they pray and do other things. One act does not make you a muslim. Wearing a scarf, praying in front of people for praise, but it is in your heart. I do not know yours nor hers. If anybody gives a comment you go and look it up. Figure out if it applies and if it does not then forget it. I personal listen and research. This is the best and is encourage. If Green-eyed girl wants to fight then find I can go with the best of them. But I like to fight, I know this, and if I know about something I am going to bring. Green-eyed girl can not tell me about aviation or the miltiary life. But there are a few here who can.

Fornication is a big deal in the muslim life as well as drinking not praying etc. It is one of the worst things you do and it leads to self-destructive behavior, along with destroying the muslim community. Now those that are not muslim and have muslim husband- "Boyfriends" then find do what you want. But do not think you will get a cookie. I try not to judge people but that is where groups come in. I am in the military and when I go to the Mosque alot of people do not want to talk me but there are a few girls on base that muslim and we hang out. They do not wear hijib and some do. I am closer to the ones that wear hijib. That is all, if you do somethings or others do that does not make them better muslims etc. I love being muslim, this is the coolest deen every and I still have issues etc. This is not just a muslim but a lot of other folks do it too. It is hard to really address what you are saying becauase I am not sure of your history on this board. But whatever, do doodlgebug and let green eyed girl do her thang. I do not care becuase me I will do mine. period. Nothing you wil lsay will stop it. people attacked me and I let it go. We are all on this board for once reason and one reson only. WE ARE MARRIED AND ENGAGED AND TRYING TO GET OUR SO's HERE OR HELP OTHERS GET THEIR SO. That is it.

[natty bumppo 297]

Do this a lot. Men like that.

to a point ... only to a point.

I added it to be funny. When I do it to my husband, he asks me what's going on with my eyes. He doesn't see what's so romantic about staring at him adoringly. Some men might . . .

You're okay ... no worries. The humor was definitely visible. Given the topic, it was even funny taken another way

[sophyie 0]

He was adament that our stuff be in the same closet and perhaps even touching at all times, so I kinda had to work around that.

Sorry if I sound dumb- why is that?

[Sofiyya 1,687]

Private, hon, I think they're gone now. Let's let's let it drop. Ok? Have fun!

Edited February 7, 2007 by Green-eyed girl

[natty bumppo 297]

THe word is now xes tell yourself (resist, resist) the eyes well maybe but how about the running of fingers thru their hair and back of the necks (im whispering) especially when driving

omg ... I'm so embarrassed

note to self:

remove page containing obsolete “word” from dictionary ... add new entry under "X" ... remember for next game of scrabble (minimum 10 points) can also be used in conjunction with other words

[Sofiyya 1,687]

I gives us another x word and that is important

[brnidokiegurl 0]

x words as in xtra xes wow xtint xercise how many points for that, better get back to what to do on the first nights. Maggie needs few suggestions, her guy is very close.

[Sofiyya 1,687]

Where is Maggie? I want to know what she's already done.

[jordanianprincess 0]

amen, brinido!

i honestly didn't think this topic would go in the sex direction. i was asking for romantic ideas to make my home more comfortable, gifts, food, drink, music, things to do, etc for his first night. i already knew the "fill in the blank " part. but since it went in that direction its A-OKAY by me!

Right, this topic was not about sex, it was implied in a cute way but let me tell you why it blew it. Not too long ago there was a 20 page thread full of fighting over the whole "sex toy" thing. So if you go back to the beginning pages of this thread you will clearly see that Green-Eyed took it in that direction again and kept going and going with it. She was clearly trying to provoke another fight and she got what she wanted. This whole song and dance she is giving about being a victim is the biggest load of BS I have ever seen, the long time members of this board know she is not a target. She brings this on herself and lately has done quite a good job in dividing the board into an "us against them" routine which is beyond stupid. For someone who claims to hate high school games so much, she sure does play them alot!

[natty bumppo 297]

Maggie needs few suggestions, her guy is very close.

His own set of house, mailbox, car keys on a keyring?

What about the famous "honey do" jar? With a few "suggestions" already inside (his & hers).

[Sofiyya 1,687]

It sounds like Brnidokiegurl is preparing a "honey do" jar. She's trying to figure out how to teach her man about lawn care already and he's not even here yet!

[brnidokiegurl 0]

right on im tired of mowing, ha we were sitting at a coffee shop one moring and a guy was mowing, i could tell he had never done that before. Also im not a big fan of this going back 3 weeks at 9 in the evening pulling out old threads to prove a point, nor all the quotes. Its very childish to keep rehashing over and over. Take what is new for today, discuss it and go on life is to short and times are to trying for all this. One just got their ok from Calif there are a few of us right there close, its getting a little exciting now