AOS VWP expiring soon panicking Please Help

[lecilia 15]

ok so i entered the US under the VWP i have been here before to visit my boyfriend on it this is my second time and this time we decided we didn't want to be parted again so we decided to get married but due to his work scheduled we have the marriage licence but cannot get married untill 4 days after my visa expires as he has no days off and his boss will not let him have any except his regular Monday im wondering what would happen and if it would be find if we got married after my VWP expires and file the aos forms and required forms with them all really worried im going to get denied because of it or deported anyone please help panicking female

Went And Got Marriage licence Jan 14th

entered US legally under VWP oct 25th VWP about to expire on Jan 22nd

Edited January 15, 2015 by lecilia

[kzielu 1,153]

Not going to get denied. Will be fine as long as you future husband is US citizen.

[BigDaddy28 228]

As long as you are married to a US citizen, your overstay will be forgiven. Don't worry about the expiration. Good luck.

[lecilia 15]

yes he is a US citizen im just abit worried

[JohnR! 5,495]

There's nothing you need to worry about. Get married and start your AOS process.

Check out what the next steps are in the guide section: ---> http://www.visajourney.com/content/i130guide2

Congrats & good luck!

yes he is a US citizen im just abit worried

[lecilia 15]

thanks everyone i was just so worried because we would be getting married and filing after my VWP expires was worried i would be deported in between or they wouldn't accept it

[KayDeeCee 4,896]

~ Moved from AOS from Family Based Visas to AOS from Work, Student & Tourist Visas ~

[lecilia 15]

sorry im new to this so had no idea just wanted quick answers before i lost my mind also another question the petition for alien relative do you send it with the I-485 or do u send it alone a thew days before ?

[NellyandNicky 3]

You can do it both ways. I think most people send it together. The only reason I see not to do it is if you are short in cash and like to get one out of the way already.

There is probably other reasons too, but I don't know of any.

I sent mine together this January (7th), so far so good, as everything got accepted.

By the way, I overstayed my visa for very long, and like others said, is not a problem.

Best of luck to you, will gladly help if I can in any way.

Edited January 17, 2015 by NellyandNicky

[lecilia 15]

i have all the cash to send them all right now thankfully i was just wondering how that worked looked at alot of guides but it just really says where to send it and how to put it together like aka what forms you need and stuff anyways thanks alot guys really put me at ease getting MARRIED IN 4 DAYS he talked to his boss and got the monday off so we will be getting married 2 days before my visa expires but think it will still be a day late as i haven't had my medical yet

[NellyandNicky 3]

You should check the vaccines requirement. I only had to do medical and photos on the last days, but delayed a few days since my vaccine records did not had a few vaccines that is required.

[lecilia 15]

so was curious also as u can tell this is all rushed and had no idea it would happen but he wants me to take his last name im not a us citizen gonna do aos soon but would i go about having his last name how does it work ?

[Ryan H 3,834]

so was curious also as u can tell this is all rushed and had no idea it would happen but he wants me to take his last name im not a us citizen gonna do aos soon but would i go about having his last name how does it work ?

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[NellyandNicky 3]

I don't know of the process, my wife is the one who wants to take my name. You can change your name later, and we agreed to do so, as it would require more paperwork to be submit, plus kept with you to prove who you are.

I wanted to have everything as simple as possible since we are not using the help of an attorney.

[Leo7777 243]

I would strongly advise against a foreign person taking the name of any husband in another country.

Your passport and many other documents are in your original name.

Getting all of that changed will be a nightmare. You will be forever having to prove that you and your previous last name are one and the same person.

And, if you own land or other assets back in your home country, you will have even more nightmares if you get your passport changed to the name of a man living in another country.

Sure, I realize that most women do take last name of their husband when both born and raised in same country. No too much problems.

But with a foreign citizenship and other complications, it can be much more troublesome down the road.