Removing CR1 Condition but wife not cooperating

[N-o-l-a 7,167]

N-O-I-A your information is so wrong,but so wrong .You said there is no requirement to show commingling finances, really? well since I became an attorney in 1989 the Law did not change regarding showing commingling finances,period!

Commingling finances exception is applied just in Vawa cases, it's not the OP's case.

You are aware that people on this forum have been approved without this? Many attorneys and financial advisors in fact advise couples with income disparities not to comingle finances.

So, you've never seen a case here where the couple doesn't have a bank account together, nor credit cards, and they live with their parents get approved? Because I have.

I'd love you to cite the law that says comingled finances are REQUIRED for ROC, not just recommended as a supporting document or proof.

[verysadguy 170]

My ex didn't have anything, ZERO in her name. Not even a phone. The only co-mingling of finances she had was her lover's bank account to send him my money LOL. Of course I say that with a bit of jest. Her only proof of anything close for VAWA was her health insurance card from me with her name on it. Absolutely nothing else. No bills, zilch. And she is still in the good old USofA working 3 years later.

[Sandra G. 5,047]

Very sad guy as I mentioned before Vawa filer requirement is completely different from Gc through family.Your ex wife filed Vawa.

NOIA I am not your attorney ,then I don't have to waste my time here with you .knowledge is power, keep reading ,but recognize when others know more than you .

Edited January 7, 2015 by sandranj

[N-o-l-a 7,167]

NOIA I am not your attorney ,then I don't have to waste my time here with you .knowledge is power, keep reading ,but recognize when others know more than you .

My experience with attorneys tells me that they don't usually know everything about the law. I see you've been unable to cite anything that proves that you need financial co-mingling and instead have chosen to deflect.

The requirement, by the way, is to prove co-mingling in general, whether it be personal lives like trips together, living together, children born to a marriage, a shared social life, or finances.

You might want to re-read the adjudicators field manuals. I've read the pertinent sections, have you?

[TBoneTX 45,273]

Folks, let's cool down in regard to the confrontation. Furthermore, this is a reminder to everyone to avoid importing drama from thread to thread.

VJ Moderation

Edited January 7, 2015 by TBoneTX

[verysadguy 170]

Very sad guy as I mentioned before Vawa filer requirement is completely different from Gc through family.Your ex wife filed Vawa.

NOIA I am not your attorney ,then I don't have to waste my time here with you .knowledge is power, keep reading ,but recognize when others know more than you .

Ah that's right I remember now!

For VAWA I believe it was:

-Bona fide marriage (no commingling finances in that proof?)

-Good moral character

-Domestic violence