Jan 2015 Support and Rant Thread

[patnjac 130]

So cool!! Can't wait for that moment. Congrats girl !!

Enjoy!

Hi everyone!! Just a quick post to say: the nightmare is over!!

Yesterday I had my POE at the LAX, and it was smooth, despite the huge line I had to pass through. Later I'll make a review about it. But I wanna give you guys hope that IT WORTH IT!!!!!! It's so good to know that I don't need facetime, Skype, email or any eletronical device to see my husband!! I'm unpacking right now, but I stopped to say hi and tell you all who are still passing throught it: hang in there!! The reward is amazing!!

Soloenta my dear, my thoughts are always with you...soon it's your time to have this joy!

[GazaSlimaz 43]

Filed I130 yesterday and UPS delivered this morning...looking forward to a quick and painfree approval.

[mrs thb 331]

yea , tring to understand all the pages from every thing is very complicated to me..............I study and watch things as much as possible to understand the process (which seems easy enough ) but as i do each step everything has issues and complications............... i dont understand why as much moneys is paid to these that they dont have it easily organized .or simplified...... i cant even get in a thing to pay them ............. and then they say it will take longer if you mail it in,,,,,,,,,,,,,, i just dont get this ........... i just want this all over .......and im being very mild how irritating this all has been since i meant my husband ..........we have gone thru tons of things to get this process over and to understand it all.............. all in the name of love and we keep pushing thru .....................money money money and then paper paper paper ....... more irritations loophole after loop,,, border people blocks and on it goes ...on and on (rude officers at times tearing care apart cause he said i was hiding something (in a caregiver i help people i dont use booze or drugs )I might say a scripture.......and we are 20 miles apart ...............man when i get him home i want to hide for the rest of my life................i have never hated some thing so much and yet i keep just pushing in hopes to figure and make it all finished .......................... horrible experiences for anyone............... why is that so............i question a man who came to our country in 1949 and asked him ....? what did you pay in those days .............oh he said I only needed to buy a passport..................... what the heck happened ............... then you hear all these people who can cross the border and come ...........Im for them cause this is aweful .............but man ............. why do we have to go thru so much .............. .... i want it changed ...........to their way........ but i want to be legal........................... but its horrible on relationships ........................oh well ,,,,,,i could probably ... go on all day............cause of the hurts that this has done to our relationship..........but i need to figure more out............how to get thru the next step.........and even how to post on these forums (which one and how to read the answers and ect ....... cant hardly figure it out either .................. just a lady who would like some peace of mind with out all this any more .

hang in there! you must try to be positive. there are many others on this forum that have waited 10 to 12 months for a NOA2!!! we're here for each other, that's why we joined. times will be tough and you will curse this process more than once or twice...we all have and its natural. be there for each other and pick each other up. the process is long and arduous , its not meant to be a cake walk, for if it was there'd only one type of person....AMERICAN instead of the wanna be's. think of your spouse and the love the two of you share.... ...and when going gets tough that's where we come in here in the support and rant thread....thanks soloenta for creating this place!!!

[Soloenta 2,218]

Just realized my daughter's IV pack has our marriage cert together with all the required documents, any idea if this is an "RFE IN VIEW"? I did put it in there coz it was a requirement at uscis level... please tell me is no problem.. #FingerCrossed..

First to the thread and on your IV, so you sent your daughter's and wife's IV in? Did you put any copies with your wife's IV? I'm not an expert but I don't think it would matter much and if you just sent them in I would send copies of all the documents for your wife's case. Better to be safe than sorry and if not mistaken you only have to send copies now and take the originals to the interview. It doesn't matter if you send more information that what was asked they will just ignore it, less then you have a problem. Someone correct me if I'm wrong.

Hi everyone!! Just a quick post to say: the nightmare is over!!

Yesterday I had my POE at the LAX, and it was smooth, despite the huge line I had to pass through. Later I'll make a review about it. But I wanna give you guys hope that IT WORTH IT!!!!!! It's so good to know that I don't need facetime, Skype, email or any eletronical device to see my husband!! I'm unpacking right now, but I stopped to say hi and tell you all who are still passing throught it: hang in there!! The reward is amazing!!

Soloenta my dear, my thoughts are always with you...soon it's your time to have this joy!

Oh sweet heart I'm so happy for you and your husband it must be just amazing to just raise your voice a little and have him come into the room. Oh yes it's all worth it there is no doubt!!! Doing the crazy dance with tears of happiness in my eyes! Thank you for the good wishes and please don't stop praying for all of us. Please pray for no AP. Love you girl!

I fear another checklist. .

I'll be praying you get CC no Checklist at all. God bless you,

Filed I130 yesterday and UPS delivered this morning...looking forward to a quick and painfree approval.

Congratulations your journey begins. Much luck and prayers for a smooth journey. But be prepared for the worst.

hang in there! you must try to be positive. there are many others on this forum that have waited 10 to 12 months for a NOA2!!! we're here for each other, that's why we joined. times will be tough and you will curse this process more than once or twice...we all have and its natural. be there for each other and pick each other up. the process is long and arduous , its not meant to be a cake walk, for if it was there'd only one type of person....AMERICAN instead of the wanna be's. think of your spouse and the love the two of you share.... ...and when going gets tough that's where we come in here in the support and rant thread....thanks soloenta for creating this place!!!

It's my pleasure and honor to have helped in any way, wonderful, helpful people like you. God bless you for all your help and for just being you!

[Not a Tailor 1,370]

Uuuuugh, I thought EP was supposed to be FASTER. I sent in IV and AOS packets two weeks ago via EP. STILL no scan date and the reps keep saying 'wait a week, wait a week' no matter how long it's been--they said this after one week and two weeks. If my email didn't get through for some reason, then I've lost two weeks already. If my email DID get through and they're just taking forever, then sending it in would set me back.

I thought NVC was supposed to be the FAST stage!

[Aahil 90]

Does anyone know about ...if in AP....will they give visa issue before police clearance expires?? Or do they just keep us waiting, and make us pay to get another one, and medical will expire too...

they will not ask for another Police certificate .but i have seen people complaining abt medical exam

[Aahil 90]

But what if they keep us waiting, and it expires before Issue? I think they will make him get another one... so how do you know?

they usually dont do it in dhaka. and i did not see any expire date on BD police clearance

[v4b 46]

Uuuuugh, I thought EP was supposed to be FASTER. I sent in IV and AOS packets two weeks ago via EP. STILL no scan date and the reps keep saying 'wait a week, wait a week' no matter how long it's been--they said this after one week and two weeks. If my email didn't get through for some reason, then I've lost two weeks already. If my email DID get through and they're just taking forever, then sending it in would set me back.

I thought NVC was supposed to be the FAST stage!

I thought so too, now looking back I appreciate the USCIS stage much more. I had an RFE and it took 2 weeks to review it and send me the approval. NVC takes 2 months to review anything, it's ridiculous.

NVC is a nightmare. I would be so happy to quit this whole process but I have no other choices.

[BRosa 170]

Soloenta, for your prayers and for this thread!!! (and for providing us the links for the graphics and happy- face pages. I am having fun with it)

Edited January 25, 2015 by BRosa

[v4b 46]

so frustrated i'm trying to edit my post, and fix my graphic but it wont let me...grrrr it wont let me delete it either

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[Soloenta 2,218]

Uuuuugh, I thought EP was supposed to be FASTER. I sent in IV and AOS packets two weeks ago via EP. STILL no scan date and the reps keep saying 'wait a week, wait a week' no matter how long it's been--they said this after one week and two weeks. If my email didn't get through for some reason, then I've lost two weeks already. If my email DID get through and they're just taking forever, then sending it in would set me back.

I thought NVC was supposed to be the FAST stage!

It was for a long time then the flood came in and ever since they are slow but I think EP is much faster than sending it in so just call every once in a while and soon you will have your answer.

Does anyone know about ...if in AP....will they give visa issue before police clearance expires?? Or do they just keep us waiting, and make us pay to get another one, and medical will expire too...

Gezzzzzzzz sweet heart what do they want blood! You should be out of AP by now what is their problem! Still praying you get out of this mess soon.

Most Embassies don't care if your dying let alone all the rest, they are mean and evil.

[Soloenta 2,218]

But what if they keep us waiting, and it expires before Issue? I think they will make him get another one... so how do you know?

Just have him get a new Police Certificate and if he can Medical to be safe and not wait any longer. I think if you wait it can really cost you a lot of time.

Soloenta, for your prayers and for this thread!!! (and for providing us the links for the graphics and happy- face pages. I am having fun with it)

Aww hehee your very welcome it's my pleasure and I enjoy seeing them posted and me not having to do it hahahaa. Makes life a little brighter.

GOOD DAY EVERYONE

WE ARE PRAYING FOR US ALL HERE TO GET OUR ISSUEDS SOON!

I haven't been on but it doesn't mean I haven't been praying for all of us and our individual problem. God in heaven have Mercy on us all.

Please everyone say a special prayer for,

EOC, SharksBelow, BRosa, Natasha&Noor, Maharosa, nicholemariev sorry if I forgot someone but please also say prayer for the peaceful

good people of the Middle East suffering because of the few power hungry SOB's and the worst countries for AP Egypt and Nigeria.

Thank you in advance and if anyone is free from this mess please let me know to take them off the list.

so frustrated i'm trying to edit my post, and fix my graphic but it wont let me...grrrr it wont let me delete it either

What did I miss hehehee I loved it and am pretty happy you can't delet it.

[THETIMEISNOW 37]

OMG WHAT IDIOTS, why do they employ these morons in the first place if they are good for nothing. Did you talk to a supervisor, was this fixed OMG they could drive a saint to murder. Really enough is enough someone needs to fix this travesty! This is just ridiculous Can't wait to see this has been fixed!

The worst part is that they scheduled my hubby's appointment for 2/23/15!!! Why does it take a month to do this?!? This is so frustrating! I did contact my local congresswoman's office and I will hopefully hear back from them this week with what the Embassy will do...

[Soloenta 2,218]

OMG WHAT IDIOTS, why do they employ these morons in the first place if they are good for nothing. Did you talk to a supervisor, was this fixed OMG they could drive a saint to murder. Really enough is enough someone needs to fix this travesty! This is just ridiculous Can't wait to see this has been fixed!

The worst part is that they scheduled my hubby's appointment for 2/23/15!!! Why does it take a month to do this?!? This is so frustrating! I did contact my local congresswoman's office and I will hopefully hear back from them this week with what the Embassy will do...

Actually a month is nothing they can take months if they want and I saw a post a very long time ago that posted it took 18 months in AP before they received their second interview. So your blessed and I do hope your Congresswoman will help you. No one helped me not my Senator or Congresswoman! Very frustrating to say the least and I'll be praying everyone in despair will find great news soon.

[IslAmy 122]

Hi everyone,

We're still at the NVC. Glad to hear of so many impending interviews. Soloenta, so glad you finally have your CC and "D-Day". You're almost through this ordeal.

Sending good wishes to everyone. We're just waiting for our 60 days to be up. We should hear something in the next week or two.