Jan 2015 Support and Rant Thread

[Labebesota188 57]

Good MORNING ALL

I JUST CALLED NVC AND THEY CONFIRMED THAT MY CASE WAS CC ON JAN16 SO HAPPY FOR NOT HAVING A CHECKLIST BY THE WAY MY SCAN DATE WAS NOV21st NOW WAITING ON MY INTERVIEW DATE??????

[patnjac 130]

Well my hubby had his interview today. We were put in AP with a second date scheduled. Even with 25 pages of emails and 23 pages of Fb chats plus 15 what's app chats pages, 6 yrs together, 4 visits, plus a medical expedite with doctors documentation, They still want more emails and personal cards with postmarked envelope. First of all who uses snail mail anymore? Second of all what guy sees envelopes? Luckily for us we actually do send each other cards. And he has 11 cards that I've sent him over the years but only 4 postmarked ones and all those envelopes are from 2011.

Usually when I send a card it's with a pkg. Im ok

just frustrated with these idiotic Ppl and their stupid requests!

I immediately thanked God for his mercies. Because for whatever reason, this is part of His plan

[markgina 2]

yea , tring to understand all the pages from every thing is very complicated to me..............I study and watch things as much as possible to understand the process (which seems easy enough ) but as i do each step everything has issues and complications............... i dont understand why as much moneys is paid to these that they dont have it easily organized .or simplified...... i cant even get in a thing to pay them ............. and then they say it will take longer if you mail it in,,,,,,,,,,,,,, i just dont get this ........... i just want this all over .......and im being very mild how irritating this all has been since i meant my husband ..........we have gone thru tons of things to get this process over and to understand it all.............. all in the name of love and we keep pushing thru .....................money money money and then paper paper paper ....... more irritations loophole after loop,,, border people blocks and on it goes ...on and on (rude officers at times tearing care apart cause he said i was hiding something (in a caregiver i help people i dont use booze or drugs )I might say a scripture.......and we are 20 miles apart ...............man when i get him home i want to hide for the rest of my life................i have never hated some thing so much and yet i keep just pushing in hopes to figure and make it all finished .......................... horrible experiences for anyone............... why is that so............i question a man who came to our country in 1949 and asked him ....? what did you pay in those days .............oh he said I only needed to buy a passport..................... what the heck happened ............... then you hear all these people who can cross the border and come ...........Im for them cause this is aweful .............but man ............. why do we have to go thru so much .............. .... i want it changed ...........to their way........ but i want to be legal........................... but its horrible on relationships ........................oh well ,,,,,,i could probably ... go on all day............cause of the hurts that this has done to our relationship..........but i need to figure more out............how to get thru the next step.........and even how to post on these forums (which one and how to read the answers and ect ....... cant hardly figure it out either .................. just a lady who would like some peace of mind with out all this any more .

[patnjac 130]

So sorry to hear that my dear. It's just insane the way they do things. You will be in my prayers every day until you get out of ap!

Sorry to hear this....it seems like they put the men in AP most of the time. Especially if they're from a "darker skinned" country. I feel your pain. We are praying for us all to get our ISSUED soon.

We have been in AP 225 days now. Case just updated today, after an email i sent them last week. Still AP.

[Soloenta 2,218]

Thank you my darling! 54 days would be CC on my birthday, that would be rather nice!

So sorry to take so long to respond, I have the flu and feel just horrible, even my face hurts .

Would be a great present, hope it's exactly what happens. Have you called to check

Sent away AOS&IV papers (together).....

God willing sending them together will be fast than it has been for us and I'll be praying no Checklists for you. Haven't seen you before so to the thread.

I think these folks LOVE to see you wait. Like waiting is the one thing they can do that makes us go absolutely INSANE.

...Waiting for Visa, had the interview on Friday, of course it's a holiday today, so no Visa until probably Wednesday or Thursday...

I know I know...I am SOOOOO incredibly grateful, just the waiting for all of us is enough to...

Hahahaaaa no enough is enough and you have earned the right to be impatient!

Good luck! Hoping to send mine off this week as soon as my AOS fee is able to be paid. I feel like I've been waiting forever to send these packages and now my AOS fee won't show up which just delays further. I know it's only a few days and my husband says to just chill. But as most of us in this process know, every day counts when you are away from your spouse.

OMG really, I was under the impression it had changed and you paid both fees at the same time and sent both packages at the same time? WOW just so frustrating! Will be praying this goes by quickly with no delays for anyone.

My 60 days took 67 days to get CC.

Holy cow that's just horrible, praying you get your Interview soon or do you already have it?

[Soloenta 2,218]

Hey Vj Friends,

Sorry been busy last few weeks....hope many of u have had CC's, approved, interviews, and smooth POE's. For everyone in the middle of all this, just hang in there...there's light at the end of this looong tunnel.

My husband got his passport back yesterday, paid Elis fee, & booked flight! He will get here Jan 30th & POE will be in Seattle!!

For egypt friends, Aramex sent him a text saying he had a package ready and advised him to go pick it up.

Best of luck for everyone going thru this. Praying for everyone.

Woooooooooooooooo Hooooooooooooooooo finally you two will be together so very happy for you I pray we have the same luck and hope we get the same CO if he's a nice one. Thank you my friend for the information for Aramex good to know they did their job, my husband says they suck hahahahaaa Will be praying for a smooth trip and POE which I'm sure it will be.

[Soloenta 2,218]

Wonderful news! My turn now. Pray for us Pls.

We are all praying for you my friend, never enough prayers

I miss my husband

224 days in AP

I know you do baby, so do I and I'm praying this torture ends soon. Please everyone say a prayer for Natasha & Noor so they can be together soon.

Good MORNING ALL

I JUST CALLED NVC AND THEY CONFIRMED THAT MY CASE WAS CC ON JAN16 SO HAPPY FOR NOT HAVING A CHECKLIST BY THE WAY MY SCAN DATE WAS NOV21st NOW WAITING ON MY INTERVIEW DATE

Hehehee see I told you, you had CC so happy for you and wow no Checklist I had three with help from others so I'm happy for you. Congrats again woooooooooo hoooooooooooooooooo!!!!!

Well my hubby had his interview today. We were put in AP with a second date scheduled. Even with 25 pages of emails and 23 pages of Fb chats plus 15 what's app chats pages, 6 yrs together, 4 visits, plus a medical expedite with doctors documentation, They still want more emails and personal cards with postmarked envelope. First of all who uses snail mail anymore? Second of all what guy sees envelopes? Luckily for us we actually do send each other cards. And he has 11 cards that I've sent him over the years but only 4 postmarked ones and all those envelopes are from 2011.

Usually when I send a card it's with a pkg. Im ok

just frustrated with these idiotic Ppl and their stupid requests!

I immediately thanked God for his mercies. Because for whatever reason, this is part of His plan

God bless you my friend, my heart goes out to you, this is my worst nightmare and I'll be praying it ends soon for you so you can be reunited. This is proof they put people in AP at random. Others have much less and get approved so this has to be a quota they are filling. God willing this will be over soon.

....... cant hardly figure it out either .................. just a lady who would like some peace of mind with out all this any more .

I know exactly how you feel and why they do this exactly is a mystery to everyone. I do think they hope this process is too much for us so we quit or see who is truly serious about this process and getting our loved ones home. I don't completely understand it either and will be praying for God to give you both the strength you need to get through this torture.

To the thread.

Sorry to hear this....it seems like they put the men in AP most of the time. Especially if they're from a "darker skinned" country. I feel your pain. We are praying for us all to get our ISSUED soon.

We have been in AP 225 days now. Case just updated today, after an email i sent them last week. Still AP.

You know I'm praying you get out of AP soon God willing by the end of this month. I can't believe they would put you in AP this long it's just sinful what they do!

[DutchmansLady 216]

soloenta sweetie.....

[Soloenta 2,218]

soloenta sweetie.....

Hehehehe thank you so much my angle your so kind. Awwwwwwwwwwww I just love the chick hehehe want to squeeze the cutie like Almira

Did you call about an interview date yet? Praying you get one soon and then call to get an earlier date. Don't think your Embassy is a busy one so the odds are in your favor. Thank you God for small miracles.

[DutchmansLady 216]

Hehehehe thank you so much my angle your so kind. Awwwwwwwwwwww I just love the chick hehehe want to squeeze the cutie like Almira

Did you call about an interview date yet? Praying you get one soon and then call to get an earlier date. Don't think your Embassy is a busy one so the odds are in your favor. Thank you God for small miracles.

I will be calling today...just what I wanted to do lol...call NVC uughh. Everything I am seeing in timelines shows a 2 month wait for Amsterdam Interview...but I am hoping that I can call and move it up. I see very few Netherlands consulate peeps on here but they only work half days!

I hope that you are feeling better soon my friend.

[Soloenta 2,218]

I will be calling today...just what I wanted to do lol...call NVC uughh. Everything I am seeing in timelines shows a 2 month wait for Amsterdam Interview...but I am hoping that I can call and move it up. I see very few Netherlands consulate peeps on here but they only work half days!

I hope that you are feeling better soon my friend.

Hehehee I know how you feel but this is the end of NVC thank God so just bite the bullet a couple more times and your done. I'm so excited I praying you get a good date then be moved up. Half day how lazy are they!!!!!!!! Awww thank you so much I hope it goes away soon also, being in bed all the time gives me a headache.

[DutchmansLady 216]

According to Arthur...Feb interviews for Amsterdam are closed and we will get a March interview.....that is not what I wanted to hear but it it is what it is ...ugggh I now have a headache.

[Labebesota188 57]

If i got cc on 1/16 when should I start calling to check if I have an interview date???

[Frips 166]

God willing sending them together will be fast than it has been for us and I'll be praying no Checklists for you. Haven't seen you before so .....

Thanks Soloenta:) We went through our papers 10x to check everything, even reopened sealed envelope to check it again ....Hoping we didn`t make any mistake. Whatsoever we will get "checklist" because we are trying to use our assets. Hope that will be the only one and the embassy will accept assets...huh.

[patnjac 130]

I know you do baby, so do I and I'm praying this torture ends soon. Please everyone say a prayer for Natasha & Noor so they can be together soon. [url=http://yoursmiles.org/t-melodrama.php?page=4]http://yoursmiles.org/tsmile/melodrama/t5063

God bless you my friend, my heart goes out to you, this is my worst nightmare and I'll be praying it ends soon for you so you can be reunited. This is proof they put people in AP at random. Others have much less and get approved so this has to be a quota they are filling. God willing this will be over soon. [url=http://yoursmiles.org/t-melodrama.php?page=4]http://yoursmiles.org/tsmile/melodrama/t5063.gif[/

Thank you for your always kind words. Everyone Pls keep us all in your prayers. Especially Natasha and noor!

What's going on with you my fair lady solo?