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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Ecuador
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It's an integrity thing with me.

This is never in question as far as you're concerned. :thumbs:

However, remember that the private sector can be cold in the figurative sense. Loyalties can change, buyouts and mergers can occur, and layoffs can result. Despite the probable cushion of your military pension, think of yourself and your family's future, too.

Be sure to look into costs of living and comparative state/local taxes, etc.

Apologies if you've already thought of the above; they're suggested helpfully.

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

Posted

This is never in question as far as you're concerned. :thumbs:

However, remember that the private sector can be cold in the figurative sense. Loyalties can change, buyouts and mergers can occur, and layoffs can result. Despite the probable cushion of your military pension, think of yourself and your family's future, too.

Be sure to look into costs of living and comparative state/local taxes, etc.

Apologies if you've already thought of the above; they're suggested helpfully.

This is the problem. RI is starting at the lowest end of the civilian sector. The job is a GS-6, which is considered entry level for most military, unless you're an officer or Senior NCO. Most folks want to come in as a GS-9 or higher since they feel like they deserve a management position. And RI cost of living isn't cheap. Every other job I've applied for is in the 7-9-11 range, which is considerably higher in pay scale. But my problem is my conscience. They've been holding this for me since July so I'd feel like a heel if I took something else when they gave me the security of knowing I had employment that far in advance.

“Hate is too great a burden to bear. It injures the hater more than it injures the hated.” – Coretta Scott King

"Oppressive language does more than represent violence; it is violence; does more than represent the limits of knowledge; it limits knowledge." -Toni Morrison

He who passively accepts evil is as much involved in it as he who helps to perpetrate it.

Martin Luther King, Jr.

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Ecuador
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I'd wager a lot that if you explained your situation apologetically, they'd graciously respond with "we're disappointed, but we understand your responsibilities to your family." This happens all the time, in fact; "business is business." They know full well that you're a desirable candidate with many options. You could then move on with a clear conscience and a higher salary, and they would proceed with their #2 candidate.

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

Posted

If ya cant afford food for them dont havem.

"I swear by my life and my love of it that I will never live for the sake of another man, nor ask another man to live for mine."- Ayn Rand

“Your freedom to be you includes my freedom to be free from you.”

― Andrew Wilkow

Posted

I'd wager a lot that if you explained your situation apologetically, they'd graciously respond with "we're disappointed, but we understand your responsibilities to your family." This happens all the time, in fact; "business is business." They know full well that you're a desirable candidate with many options. You could then move on with a clear conscience and a higher salary, and they would proceed with their #2 candidate.

Thanks for the advice.

“Hate is too great a burden to bear. It injures the hater more than it injures the hated.” – Coretta Scott King

"Oppressive language does more than represent violence; it is violence; does more than represent the limits of knowledge; it limits knowledge." -Toni Morrison

He who passively accepts evil is as much involved in it as he who helps to perpetrate it.

Martin Luther King, Jr.

President-Obama-jpg.jpg

Posted

What TBONE said, Marvin. Twice.

Money is not the only reason to change jobs, but it DOES pay the bills. Believe that if the RI folks needed to cut sone expenditures, your salary would be high on their list.

Put yourself and your family first. You've sacrificed enough the past two decades.

Posted

What TBONE said, Marvin. Twice.

Money is not the only reason to change jobs, but it DOES pay the bills. Believe that if the RI folks needed to cut sone expenditures, your salary would be high on their list.

Put yourself and your family first. You've sacrificed enough the past two decades.

(F)

“Hate is too great a burden to bear. It injures the hater more than it injures the hated.” – Coretta Scott King

"Oppressive language does more than represent violence; it is violence; does more than represent the limits of knowledge; it limits knowledge." -Toni Morrison

He who passively accepts evil is as much involved in it as he who helps to perpetrate it.

Martin Luther King, Jr.

President-Obama-jpg.jpg

Posted

Anything you and Dave want to share with the rest of us?

We got room for one more. :content:

Looks like they're busy sharing it with each other. :lol:

Yep, trying to get the camcorder working. HD is all the rage. :thumbs:

“Hate is too great a burden to bear. It injures the hater more than it injures the hated.” – Coretta Scott King

"Oppressive language does more than represent violence; it is violence; does more than represent the limits of knowledge; it limits knowledge." -Toni Morrison

He who passively accepts evil is as much involved in it as he who helps to perpetrate it.

Martin Luther King, Jr.

President-Obama-jpg.jpg

Posted

I sense some jealousy around here, Marvin. Are you sure we should be working to get in the good graces of Val? Seems there may be more money to be had with these Navy wanna-bees.

um, yeah. no money over here.

Posted

I sense some jealousy around here, Marvin. Are you sure we should be working to get in the good graces of Val? Seems there may be more money to be had with these Navy wanna-bees.

Of course. Val is a criminal mastermind.

um, yeah. no money over here.

Case in point. :goofy:

“Hate is too great a burden to bear. It injures the hater more than it injures the hated.” – Coretta Scott King

"Oppressive language does more than represent violence; it is violence; does more than represent the limits of knowledge; it limits knowledge." -Toni Morrison

He who passively accepts evil is as much involved in it as he who helps to perpetrate it.

Martin Luther King, Jr.

President-Obama-jpg.jpg

 

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