First noticed about my SO

[Jamaica to CT 0]

his beautiful smile... it radiates warmth... and then his eyes, which were also smiling

i voted that it sweetened the package for me...

same for me

[KarenCee 3]

It is Joel's face. He has a gentle look about him, which was one of the first things I noticed once we decided to webcam. His words, before I ever saw his face were what attracted me...it felt as if we had known each other forever. Once I saw his face though...WOW!

[cartaverde 12]

Let's see ..

I first noticed his humor and how he types and typoes like me.

So I could think of somehting and he would say what I was thinking in Chat .. not that common for me

[Mags 112]

The first thing I liked was the fact that he makes me laugh so much my stomach muscles actually hurt. On the outside it was his eyes.

I love blue eyes.

[KarenCee 3]

Of course looks have something to do with initial attraction, but without the strong soul connection that we have and the inner intimacy his good looks would not sustain our relationship, which is the same from his side of things. And of course I am completely attracted to his beauty and find him to be the most handsome man on this earth.

One can be the most gorgeous thing on earth and be the nastiest person on the inside. Joel and I have a very strong inner connection that is beyond words. I agree...a relationship that starts simply because of looks alone doesn't seem to me as one that would stand up to what a relationship is all about. Remember Shallow Hal?

The first thing I liked was the fact that he makes me laugh so much my stomach muscles actually hurt. On the outside it was his eyes.

I love blue eyes.

OH YES!!!!!!!! My beloved Joel has THE most gorgeous BLUE eyes. Sometimes I think I could lose myself in them.

[Arazia 0]

His hair, because it's red. Although he has beautiful eyes, too. And no, it wasn't a determing factor, but it is certainly nice.

[JayJay 4]

I first saw Ben on a webcam (awww...how romantic ). I'd been talking to this sweet guy for ages, and then I saw him on cam and I just KNEW KNEW KNEW he would be in my life. My jaw dropped - it was as though I'd known him for my entire life - he just fitted into my heart.

You know ehn you see a film and you think "Oh my God, that's exactly what I imagined when I read the book!" (Lord of the Rings was like that for me...) - well, seeing him for the first time conjured up roughly the same feeling.

Am I making any sense? :P

[MrsBruce5 0]

Hmmm...the first thing I noticed was his gait. He has this strange sorta skip in his step- it's weird and charming at the same time.

[rebeccajo 14]

Wes is very shy. I think it would have been difficult to meet him in person rather than online. In person he retreats and tends to try and obscure himself somewhere in the room. I'm sure had we been on the same geographical plane, we would have never met because I would not have noticed him.

EXCEPT....that the only thing 'higher-up' in the room would probably have been the ceiling fan. So yeah, I might have seen him. But he would have looked away.

Had I not know his beautiful spirit first, I doubt we would have clicked.

Edited February 9, 2007 by rebeccajo

[Ranmaru 0]

Her voice was the first thing I truly began to love when I heard it. I love her voice. But when I finally met her, her hazel eyes and nice hair also sweetened things up. And then her smell, she smells nice. (nods sagely)

But they all are things I consider after her personality. In the past, we were faceless for a while, only getting text-based contact, and mainly through characters that somewhat resembled us. Always it was her personality that stood out above everything else.

[Augustajim 0]

I'm 6'2" and 200lbs. The first thing i noticed in china was height and weight, oh yeah and everybody was looking at me! I saw only three other whites in the week i was there.

[TracyLuis 0]

Luis had on really nice jeans and shoes...I'm a sucker for a well-dressed man!!

[Fandango 1,439]

D was rockin the bad boy look back in the day...multiple piercings, shaved head, huge sideburns....it was not my normal 'type' but I found him sexy as **!!! He had beautiufl eyes, a mischeivous grin, and gorgeous lips. And his teeth weren't all jacked up, lol.

If he was a minger I would have never found out what a sh!t hot person he is inside....them's the breaks....appearances matter!

[JelloShotGirl 0]

I think my s/o sent pictures of himself looking kinda ugly on purpose???? I actually didnt think he was cute, until we met and i almost fainted ! He was so adorable ! I first noticed his complexion, the color of like a cappucino or something! LOL ! and a beautiful smile.........................

[Kelechi 0]

The first think I noticed about my sweetie was his smile. He has the most gorgeous smile that puts the stars to shame. After that his height and build. The man is 6'4" and got it going on as far as his build. I almost past out when he put on his swimming trunks at the pool.