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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Ireland
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Agree with coniefl. A marriage that is less than a month old and falling apart is not worth any effort of trying to get the unwilling partner into counseling. Save yourself the grief, follow the practical advice on here, and move on. Maybe get counseling just for yourself since you said you came out of a bad relationship before this one. Everyone deserves a happy, fulfilling relationship - you just need to learn how to find the right person, and how to make a real partnership last. Good luck. I hope you find happiness.

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10/06/2005 Met in Ireland while I was on a study abroad

03/15/2010 K-1 NOA1

05/27/2010 K-1 NOA2

09/10/2010 K-1 Interview

09/22/2010 POE

10/01/2010 Wedding

10/27/2010 AOS/EAD/AP NOA1s

12/22/2010 EAD/AP Approved

04/05/2011 AOS Approved - no interview

04/09/2011 Green Card received

01/24/2013 ROC NOA1

06/28/2013 ROC Approved - no interview

07/05/2013 10-year Green Card received

08/19/2014 N-400 NOA

12/06/2014 N-400 Interview

01/09/2014 Naturalization ceremony

My husband is now a US Citizen! Our journey is over!

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Philippines
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Ok, so I talked to her more and I believe the fraud part was a misunderstanding, so if I could I would change the title of this topic if I could. The one person was certainly right when he said Filipinas can sometimes say the complete opposite of what they mean. I certainly felt scared and unsure what to do when I made this thread. I'm sure that fear and past pains have also driven so many to reply. I don't wish to put any of our other private details on here. I kind of regret making the thread, but my initial fear was valid. I've gotten some good advice from the replies, so I hope it helps someone else in a similar situation. I do not wish anything bad to happen to her. I still love her. I will take my comments offline now.

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Filed: Lift. Cond. (apr) Country: Spain
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Ok, so I talked to her more and I believe the fraud part was a misunderstanding, so if I could I would change the title of this topic if I could. The one person was certainly right when he said Filipinas can sometimes say the complete opposite of what they mean. I certainly felt scared and unsure what to do when I made this thread. I'm sure that fear and past pains have also driven so many to reply. I don't wish to put any of our other private details on here. I kind of regret making the thread, but my initial fear was valid. I've gotten some good advice from the replies, so I hope it helps someone else in a similar situation. I do not wish anything bad to happen to her. I still love her. I will take my comments offline now.

So it was also a misunderstanding she threatened you about calling police if you didn't file for AOS?? That she was searching information by herself??? That she left the house??? That she has been recording you without you knowing???

I wish you good luck with your decision.... I'm assuming you 2 had a talk the past 24 hours and decided to do AOS.

I feel I have the obligation of saying to be careful and once you sign the affidavit of support and send the documents you will be in contract for 10 years even if you two get divorce later... or until she becomes a citizen... From the outside what happened looks very sneaky and seems she realized and wants her green card now, and sure you love her but make sure she feels the same way for you and is not using you.....

Good luck

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---------------------------------- Pre I-130 ----------------------------------------

Feb- 25- 2009 - Met in Barcelona Spain thanks to a friend in common ???

11 visits in the next 5 years........ ????????????

Apr - 23 - 2014 - My last entry in the US to visit ✈️

Jul - 18 - 2014 - finally proposes and ask me to stay forever!!!! ❤️??

Jul- 20 - 2014 - I don't get in the flight back to Spain ( that means my ESTA will expire the next day )

Jul - 22 - 2014 - wedding ❤️??

---------------------------I-130, I-485, EAD, AP ----------------------------------

Sep- 12- 2014 - AOS sent to Chicago ?? ( delivered sept 15 )

Sep - 18 - 2014 - AOS texts/ emails received with case number ??

Sep- 19 - 2014 - checks cashed ?

Sep - 21 - 2014- hard copies of NOA received in the mail!!! ??

Sep - 26 - 2014- biometrics letter received!! Appointment for Oct 7

Sep - 30 - 2014 - succesful early walk in biometrics ??

Nov - 22 - 2014 - EAD/AP approved ?? ( 71 days )

Nov - 24 - 2014 - card in production

Dec - 1 - 2014 - card mailed ??

Dec - 3 - 2014 - Combo card received ??

Dec - 15 - 2014 - email received with interview date for Jan 15 2015! ??

Jan - 15 - 2015 - Approved!! ???? Here is our interview experience --> http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/531853-aos-interview-from-esta-approved/

Jan - 24 - 2015 - Green card received

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Nigeria
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Ok, so I talked to her more and I believe the fraud part was a misunderstanding, so if I could I would change the title of this topic if I could. The one person was certainly right when he said Filipinas can sometimes say the complete opposite of what they mean. I certainly felt scared and unsure what to do when I made this thread. I'm sure that fear and past pains have also driven so many to reply. I don't wish to put any of our other private details on here. I kind of regret making the thread, but my initial fear was valid. I've gotten some good advice from the replies, so I hope it helps someone else in a similar situation. I do not wish anything bad to happen to her. I still love her. I will take my comments offline now.

You can always ask the admins to delete the threads. If you feel it would be a service for others you can request it be re-title. Just click the report button for either action.

I hope you really thought this through. I don't see how moving out threatening you with police is a misunderstanding. She sounds like she has been coached very well. Please be very wise and careful..

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6/12/2018: NOA1 Date
3/5/2019: Biometrics Appt
12/28/2019: 18 month Extension has expired
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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Wales
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Another train wreck.

Perhaps they need their own forum.

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

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OP: the laughing and calling the police stuff is not a misunderstanding. I mean, come on. I was the one who though this might be a case of 'the opposites' as I posted upthread, but the new information you provided makes it very, very clear her intentions are not good.

I feel for you, I really do, but please do not compound/prolong your pain by staying with this woman. I'd bet my eyeteeth that you'll come to regret it.

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Met in Ormoc, Leyte, Philippines: 2007-05-17
Our son was born in Borongan, Eastern Samar, Philippines: 2009-04-01
Married in Borongan, Eastern Samar, Philippines: 2009-10-24
CR-1 Visa - California Service Center; Consulate - Manila, Philippines
I-130 mailed: 2010-04-13
I-130 NOA1: 2010-04-24
I-130 NOA2: 2010-09-30
NVC received case: 2010-10-14
Case Complete: 2010-12-01
Interview scheduled: 2010-12-06
Medical, St. Luke's, Manila: 2010-12-09 and 2010-12-10
Interview at US Embassy in Manila 8:30 AM: 2011-01-05 - Approved!
Visa delivered: 2011-01-08
CFO Seminar completed: 2011-01-10
My beloved wife Sol and my beautiful son Nathan arrive in the U.S. (POE San Francisco): 2011-01-26
Lifting Conditions - Vermont Service Center
Date mailed: 2012-11-01
Receipt date: 2012-11-05
NOA received: 2012-11-09
Biometrics letter received: 2012-11-16
Biometrics appointment date: 2012-12-10
Biometrics walk-in successful: 2012-11-20
Removal of Conditions approved date: 2013-04-27
10 year green card mailed: 2013-05-03
10 year green card received: 2013-05-06
Citizenship
N400 mailed: 2013-10-28
N400 delivered: 2013-10-31
NOA1: 2013-11-04
Biometrics: 2013-11-18
In Line: 2013-12-26
Interview scheduled: 2013-12-30
Interview: 2014-02-03

Oath ceremony queue: 2014-02-07

Oath ceremony: 2014-03-28 Sol is a U.S. citizen

Applied for expedited passport: 2014-04-01

Passport received, Priority Express: 2014-04-09 This is journey's end at last!

Naturalization certificate returned, Priority Mail: 2014-04-12

Passport card received, First Class: 2014-04-14

1457 days, I-130 mailed to passport in hand

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Filed: Lift. Cond. (apr) Country: China
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***On the basis of the comments made by the OP in post #52; this thread is now closed to additional discussion. The OP can request to have it unlocked if they desire.***

Our journey:

Spoiler

September 2007: Met online via social networking site (MySpace); began exchanging messages.
March 26, 2009: We become a couple!
September 10, 2009: Arrived for first meeting in-person!
June 17, 2010: Arrived for second in-person meeting and start of travel together to other areas of China!
June 21, 2010: Engaged!!!
September 1, 2010: Switched course from K1 to CR-1
December 8, 2010: Wedding date set; it will be on February 18, 2011!
February 9, 2011: Depart for China
February 11, 2011: Registered for marriage in Wuhan, officially married!!!
February 18, 2011: Wedding ceremony in Shiyan!!!
April 22, 2011: Mailed I-130 to Chicago
April 28, 2011: Received NOA1 via text/email, file routed to CSC (priority date April 25th)
April 29, 2011: Updated
May 3, 2011: Received NOA1 hardcopy in mail
July 26, 2011: Received NOA2 via text/email!!!
July 30, 2011: Received NOA2 hardcopy in mail
August 8, 2011: NVC received file
September 1, 2011: NVC case number assigned
September 2, 2011: AOS invoice received, OPTIN email for EP sent
September 7, 2011: Paid AOS bill (payment portal showed PAID on September 9, 2011)
September 8, 2011: OPTIN email accepted, GZO number assigned
September 10, 2011: Emailed AOS package
September 12, 2011: IV bill invoiced
September 13, 2011: Paid IV bill (payment portal showed PAID on September 14, 2011)
September 14, 2011: Emailed IV package
October 3, 2011: Emailed checklist response (checklist generated due to typo on Form DS-230)
October 6, 2011: Case complete at NVC
November 10, 2011: Interview - APPROVED!!!
December 7, 2011: POE - Sea-Tac Airport

September 17, 2013: Mailed I-751 to CSC

September 23, 2013: Received NOA1 in mail (receipt date September 19th)

October 16, 2013: Biometrics Appointment

January 28, 2014: Production of new Green Card ordered

February 3, 2014: New Green Card received; done with USCIS until fall of 2023*

December 18, 2023:  Filed I-90 to renew Green Card

December 21, 2023:  Production of new Green Card ordered - will be seeing USCIS again every 10 years for renewal

 

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