The Umbrella Rantolution

[Novembro 1,763]

Well at least there isn't a kid to throw into the equation.is he willing to move out? How about a trial separation? The holiday season can be especially trying. Take a breather and see how it works out. At least you are in your own country so you will have a better support network than he will.

Your husband will take time to adjust to a new country, but only you can know whether it is worth your time to put in the extra effort. Marrying someone from a different country is tough. I hope you make the right decision for yourself.

This makes a lot of sense and reaffirms my thoughts that he is depressed. I don't know what to do though. I am who I am and he is who he is. I'm willing to go to therapy for myself and for us, but he isn't. He won't ever come out-right and say he hates it here.

[SAT 9,609]

I am who I am and he is who he is.

despite popular belief, people do change over time.

[Novembro 1,763]

I don't know anything about legal separation, as Texas doesn't have it [my breadth and depth of knowledge on divorce is for Texas, only]

If'n yer state allows for legal separation, well, study it ! youse a pooter, and the google.

Sorry you having the probs. I wouldn't wish my probs on anyone, even we share the same birthday !

I don't want any of it. I'm being rash. But some days, I really can see myself alone. I don't think that's what you're supposed to feel in a marriage.

I hope you've had a good day though, my dear.

despite popular belief, people do change over time.

People change, sure. He doesn't.

[SAT 9,609]

But some days, I really can see myself alone. I don't think that's what you're supposed to feel in a marriage.

People change, sure. He doesn't.

Yes, it is what we all feel. I feel it all the time man......

see? Despite your popular belief.....people do change.....for example, I used to think Tark and Dark were pretty smart guys.....and now, well, now I don't

See?

[Darnell 8,478]

n-bro - I suggest to you - he's not adjusting well, if'n at all, and is using some soporific method of character presentation to tell all that he's in a snit about it.

Sometimes, these things get smoothed over by having a gang of Britons nearby, for the friendsies. Does he have any Britons nearby, at all?

[SAT 9,609]

We might wanna rename this thread to....um......

"Stay the outta this thread if you wanna stay married"

[Novembro 1,763]

You're very cute.

Watching this docu on Freddie Roach on HBO. Super interesting.

[TBoneTX 45,580]

lost it all. maybe Many words. circa Many:0Many CST.

Many people, each leaving with Many pound bag o aged horse manure. local temps - Many with sun.

Literary prowess, time of day, population figures, shat-bag weight, and weather conditions corrected, P-math man.

We shoulda all crashed Tarklars house.

Not home, no man. Went to cousin's casa amidst distant (in both senses) relatives-by-marriage and impressive-looking but average-tasting vittles, sigh man. Mrs. T-B. dressed like knockout, she man. Stayed barely 2 hours, boring man. Mrs. T-B. wanted to stay longer, sad she man.

all is planned for 2+2+1 ish!

Plan for an A+ in Polish math, D ma'am!

[Jacque67 7,328]

This makes a lot of sense and reaffirms my thoughts that he is depressed. I don't know what to do though. I am who I am and he is who he is. I'm willing to go to therapy for myself and for us, but he isn't. He won't ever come out-right and say he hates it here.

Not as much up on the horoscopes as Darnell, but believe in them to a certain extent.

I have only dated one British guy ( not a Scorpio), and was in a relationship with a Japanese Scorpio. Bottom line, both were bad at expressing their feelings. Is this to do with nationality or their horoscope signs?

Bottom line, IMO , most men are dumb, and don't know when they have it good.

Take a break. Most Scorpio males are extremely jealous and won't go to therapy, due to pride.

If you want him back, you will get him. Here endeth the sermon.

[SAT 9,609]

OMG lmao Tark, you better go fix 1293 lmfao......

[Novembro 1,763]

n-bro - I suggest to you - he's not adjusting well, if'n at all, and is using some soporific method of character presentation to tell all that he's in a snit about it.

Sometimes, these things get smoothed over by having a gang of Britons nearby, for the friendsies. Does he have any Britons nearby, at all?

Darnell I have tried my goddamnedhardest to surround him by British people and British things and things he likes and pubs and sports games and food. He actively tries to make me feel bad about this.

He is only happy when he is on ps4 with his friends from home.

[SAT 9,609]

and 1303 rof...... :lol:

He is only happy when he is on ps4 with his friends from home.

well so? let him play PS4 all he wants man......

[Novembro 1,763]

Not as much up on the horoscopes as Darnell, but believe in them to a certain extent.

I have only dated one British guy ( not a Scorpio), and was in a relationship with a Japanese Scorpio. Bottom line, both were bad at expressing their feelings. Is this to do with nationality or their horoscope signs?

Bottom line, IMO , most men are dumb, and don't know when they have it good.

Take a break. Most Scorpio males are extremely jealous and won't go to therapy, due to pride.

If you want him back, you will get him. Here endeth the sermon.

He's not a scorpio, I am. Problem one. Problem two? He makes me hate him to the point where I don't want him back.

[TBoneTX 45,580]

Where you get a pic of Tark ?

That's my cousin, Turklar, duh man.

I found him hit by the side of the road

That's where Turklar tends to hang out, weird man.

Lucas actually had a good nap was almost himself...

Wee zzz man.

Ready to eat, I'm stuffed.....

"More hay, Trigger?"

"No thanks, Roy -- I'm stuffed!"

[Novembro 1,763]

and 1303 rof...... :lol:

well so? let him play PS4 all he wants man......

You act like I'm not out of the house enough for him to rock dickssss on ps4 all week. I feel bad I had stuff going on, but that's no excuse.