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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: United Kingdom
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What's a separation like? The worst that could happen?

Umm. You feel lonely? You get pissed when the other finds a rebound before you do?

On the other hand you realise how much you really love each other?

How far a separation are you talking? Separate bedrooms, or different countries?

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Umm. You feel lonely? You get pissed when the other finds a rebound before you do?

On the other hand you realise how much you really love each other?

How far a separation are you talking? Separate bedrooms, or different countries?

I'm about ready to throw the towel in. I know I can't not try to fix it, but I'm so done with it. He's obtuse, rude, and judgmental and I'm pig-headed, independent, and selfish. It's not meshing very well.

I love a guy who looks like he could be on Criminal Minds as either an agent or a killer.

Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Ecuador
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1. Glad you got it figured out.

2. Why does it seem like you get the oil changed monthly.

Many. Crash trains is the best kind of games.

Many. Stop spreading your cold

Many. Many hours on VJ just saved you many bucks on an electrician. Now spend many hours making Mrs happy

Many. Lucas still miserable, I went to bed early last night as the only way he would sleep was with me.

1. Thank you, D ma'am.

2. Best time to do it, see ma'am.

Many. Mini-B. sure thinks so, wee ma'am.

Many. Turned out not to be a cold, but an irritated sinus, relief man.

Many. $i, ma'am. Not easy, no she ma'am.

Many. Welcome to Mommyhood, D ma'am.

Who told him to be a Toiletrician™?

It's not just a career; it's a calling, see man.

Resorted to putting Lucas in a wrap strapped to my chest since he will only sleep with me and I have to get things done.

How cute, wee man. Welcome to Mommyhood, D ma'am.

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: China
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There's a new pic of kit in my bucket ya horn dog

yum ! She seems plump enough, so that's a plus ! YAY !

[note to Jacque - I'm offering a shopping spree, no strings attached. Why? Cause I miss it]

Sometimes my language usage seems confusing - please feel free to 'read it twice', just in case !
Ya know, you can find the answer to your question with the advanced search tool, when using a PC? Ditch the handphone, come back later on a PC, and try again.

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: China
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darny, i can't move. i'm very much rooted here.

I only meant somewhere else inside of yer county. You must file within the county where you live, if'n you want continuation of hellfire unleashed (aka divorce)

Sometimes my language usage seems confusing - please feel free to 'read it twice', just in case !
Ya know, you can find the answer to your question with the advanced search tool, when using a PC? Ditch the handphone, come back later on a PC, and try again.

-=-=-=-=-=R E A D ! ! !=-=-=-=-=-

Whoa Nelly ! Want NVC Info? see http://www.visajourney.com/wiki/index.php/NVC_Process

Congratulations on your approval ! We All Applaud your accomplishment with Most Wonderful Kissies !

 

Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Ecuador
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We are only making Many pounds today, but we go through at least a Many pound bag a week.

Then that works out neatly and well, si ma'am.

[exits to play Wrappers with insistent cat, miu man]

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

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I only meant somewhere else inside of yer county. You must file within the county where you live, if'n you want continuation of hellfire unleashed (aka divorce)

I have zero plans to move. This is my home now. This was supposed to be our home. It's bullshite.

I love a guy who looks like he could be on Criminal Minds as either an agent or a killer.

Filed: K-1 Visa Country: United Kingdom
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I'm about ready to throw the towel in. I know I can't not try to fix it, but I'm so done with it. He's obtuse, rude, and judgmental and I'm pig-headed, independent, and selfish. It's not meshing very well.

Well at least there isn't a kid to throw into the equation.is he willing to move out? How about a trial separation? The holiday season can be especially trying. Take a breather and see how it works out. At least you are in your own country so you will have a better support network than he will.

Your husband will take time to adjust to a new country, but only you can know whether it is worth your time to put in the extra effort. Marrying someone from a different country is tough. I hope you make the right decision for yourself.

Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: China
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I'm about ready to throw the towel in. I know I can't not try to fix it, but I'm so done with it. He's obtuse, rude, and judgmental and I'm pig-headed, independent, and selfish. It's not meshing very well.

You both Scorpio? Look - can this be overcome by a daily session of tantric massage? no, i'm not kidding - google 'Jennifer Lawless tantric massage' for my master document/how-to.

Sometimes my language usage seems confusing - please feel free to 'read it twice', just in case !
Ya know, you can find the answer to your question with the advanced search tool, when using a PC? Ditch the handphone, come back later on a PC, and try again.

-=-=-=-=-=R E A D ! ! !=-=-=-=-=-

Whoa Nelly ! Want NVC Info? see http://www.visajourney.com/wiki/index.php/NVC_Process

Congratulations on your approval ! We All Applaud your accomplishment with Most Wonderful Kissies !

 

Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Malaysia
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I'm about ready to throw the towel in. I know I can't not try to fix it, but I'm so done with it. He's obtuse, rude, and judgmental

And he talks with that asinine Blitish accent......

But Wack, I think ya gotta give it more time for each of you to adjust.

Don't look at it as a dead end road yet.....

It's not just a career; It's an adventure......

Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: China
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I have zero plans to move. This is my home now. This was supposed to be our home. It's bullshite.

I don't know anything about legal separation, as Texas doesn't have it [my breadth and depth of knowledge on divorce is for Texas, only]

If'n yer state allows for legal separation, well, study it ! youse a pooter, and the google.

Sorry you having the probs. I wouldn't wish my probs on anyone, even we share the same birthday !

Sometimes my language usage seems confusing - please feel free to 'read it twice', just in case !
Ya know, you can find the answer to your question with the advanced search tool, when using a PC? Ditch the handphone, come back later on a PC, and try again.

-=-=-=-=-=R E A D ! ! !=-=-=-=-=-

Whoa Nelly ! Want NVC Info? see http://www.visajourney.com/wiki/index.php/NVC_Process

Congratulations on your approval ! We All Applaud your accomplishment with Most Wonderful Kissies !

 

 
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